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She’s climbed the ladder at her company through many years and phases of growth. Now, she’s sensing a changing organizational tide and isn’t sure where she fits in its future. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches this leader through defining her value, working through possible scenarios at her organization, and taking a step forward into her next career phase. Further reading: Check out Muriel’s new book, Leadership Unblocked, out October 28th: leadershipunblocked.com How to Build Confidence at Work Self-Efficacy: A Better Construct than Confidence How Scale Changes a Manager’s Responsibilities How…

Coaching Real Leaders

by Muriel Wilkins · English · Business

We all want to get to the next level of our career, but so many of us get stuck. Longtime leadership coach Muriel Wilkins takes you inside real-life leadership coaching sessions with high performers working to overcome professional challenges and grow as leaders. Listen in on real conversations…

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