Episode 158 · Heart Led Wellness
158: EXACTLY how to regulate your nervous system so you don't overeat
21 Apr 2026 · 30 min
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You don’t overeat because you’re addicted to food. You overeat because your nervous system is using food as a buffer. In this episode, I’m breaking down the real reason you feel out of control around food (even when you “know better”), and how to actually fix it at the root. If you’ve ever found yourself eating past fullness, blacking out mid-snack, or saying “screw it” after a long day…this will completely reframe everything. I discuss… Why overeating has nothing to do with willpower (and what’s actually driving it) Why you still overeat/binge even if you’re not restricting anymore How…
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Heart Led Wellness
Ashlyn Burnett · Health · English
The Heart Led Wellness Podcast is hosted by Ashlyn Burnett, a National Board-Certified Health and Wellness Coach and Integrative Healthcare graduate, who has helped 500+ women learn to eat the way naturally thin people do...no tracking, no rules, no obsessing. Rooted in Polyvagal theory and somatic
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