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Trauma doesn't just shape your memories. It changes how your brain predicts, interprets, and responds to the world. In this episode, Jennifer and Elisabeth sit down with clinical neuroscientist Dr. Mbemba Jabbi to explore the biology of complex trauma through the lens of neurogenetics, affective neuroscience, inflammation, and neuroplasticity. Together they unpack how early adversity reshapes emotional brain networks, why survival adaptations become deeply encoded, and what current neuroscience reveals about the connection between trauma, chronic disease, and healing. From the anterior…

Trauma Rewired

by Elisabeth Kristof & Jennifer Wallace · English · Learning

The podcast where neuroscience becomes a pathway to greater capacity, deeper connection, and expanded possibility.

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  6. S5 · E55 · 17 Aug 2026 · 1 hr 1 min

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