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   S5 · E51 · 20 Jul 2026 · 1 hr 4 min

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   S5 · E50 · 13 Jul 2026 · 53 min

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   S5 · E49 · 6 Jul 2026 · 50 min

   How Self-Compassion Changes the Brain and Rewires Shame

   Shame is one of the most powerful forces shaping the nervous system. It can quietly influence how we think, relate, perform, heal, and even how we experience ourselves. Yet most approaches treat shame as something to challenge cognitively rather than something that has become embodied through years of protective adaptations. In this episode of Trauma Rewired, Jennifer Wallace and Elisabeth Kristof explore the neuroscience of self-compassion and why it is not simply "being nice to yourself." Self-compassion is a neurobiological intervention that changes brain function, increases emotional…

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   S5 · E47 · 22 Jun 2026 · 36 min

   How Trauma Turns Fear Into Hustle, Overworking & Burnout; The Flight Response.

   In this episode of Trauma Rewired, Jennifer Wallace and Elisabeth Kristof explore the flight response through the lens of trauma, nervous system regulation, emotional processing, and Neurosomatic Intelligence. The flight response doesn't always look like physically running away. More often, it shows up as chronic busyness, overworking, overtraining, perfectionism, emotional avoidance, and the inability to slow down. What many people call discipline, productivity, or high performance may actually be a nervous system mobilized for survival. Jennifer and Elisabeth unpack how fear becomes wired…

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   S5 · E46 · 15 Jun 2026 · 54 min

   The Fight Trauma Response: Suppressed Anger, Inner Critic & Nervous System Repatterning

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   S5 · E45 · 8 Jun 2026 · 45 min

   How Trauma Shapes the Brain, Body, and Nervous System

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   S5 · E304 · 4 Oct 2026 · 1 hr 4 min

   We Are Shaping Each Other: The Science of Co-Regulation

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   S5 · E60 · 28 Sep 2026 · 55 min

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   Peak somatic experiences can create profound shifts in awareness, emotion, and perception—but intensity alone does not create healing. In this episode of Trauma Rewired, Jennifer Wallace and Elisabeth Kristof explore why preparation, nervous system capacity, and integration matter far more than the intensity of any psychedelic or peak somatic experience. Through the lens of Neurosomatic Intelligence (NSI), they explain how psychedelics influence neuroplasticity, emotional processing, interoception, and implicit memory while also addressing the often-overlooked risks for individuals living…

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   S5 · E60 · 21 Sep 2026 · 1 hr 1 min

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    S5 · E59 · 14 Sep 2026 · 53 min

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