10 Rules That Traumatise ADHD & Autistic Brains (& 20 That Don't!)

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   6 May 2026 · 11 min

   Most Replayed Moment: The Emotional Toll Of Undiagnosed AuDHD (Explained by No.1 AuDHD Expert)

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   4 May 2026 · 1 hr 9 min

   Oxford Psychiatrist: The Fastest Way To Cure RSD! (New Research)

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   27 Apr 2026 · 1 hr 1 min

   Neuroscientist (Dr Miguel): THIS Common Food Turns ADHD Into A Superpower, It's In Your Cupboard!

   Dr. Miguel Toribio-Mateas is a clinical neuroscientist and ADHD specialised nutritionist. He has over 25 years of experience treating people with ADHD helping their mood with nutrition alone. Chapters: 00:00 Trailer 04:11 Dr Miguels ADHD mission 06:04 Dr Miguels latest ADHD discovery 10:14 ADHD nutritional advice 13:25 How to navigate food sensory challenges 19:04 The ADHD brain gut connection 23:22 ADHD friendly food 27:54 Dr Miguels personal story 29:15 Tiimo advert 46:34 New ADHD nutritional research 51:20 Audience questions 58:50 A letter to my younger self Visit Dr Miguel’s website 👉…

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   20 Apr 2026 · 1 hr 20 min

   AuDHD Expert: What Female AuDHD ACTUALLY Feels Like, Abuse Will Find You!

   Dr Carly Jones MBE is a trail blazing influence in the ADHD & Autism space. With over 20 years of experience she has dedicated her life to making the world a better place for people with AuDHD. Chapters: 00:00 Trailer 02:11 Signs of AuDHD 04:17 Subtle signs of autism 09:38 What AuDHD masking looks like 15:55 Consequences of undiagnosed AuDHD 22:05 The risk of being love bombed 39:14 Tiimo advert 40:17 Forgiving yourself 42:49 Grieving a late AuDHD diagnosis 44:41 RSD in AuDHD 48:38 The AuDHD ‘push and pull’ 51:11 Why women were missed 56:40 Advice for newly diagnosed AuDHD 01:09:44 1st…

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   13 Apr 2026 · 56 min

   5 Cleaning Rules That DESTROY ADHD Brains (and 10 that actually help you declutter)

   Hester Grainger is the ultimate ADHD coach and viral sensation spreading her ADHD message to millions online. As an ADHD advocate and renowned public speaker, she is an expert in all things ADHD. Chapters: 00:00 Trailer 06:38 Do a little everyday 14:23 Body doubling 18:35 Out of sight storage 22:54 Tiimo advert 39:51 Deep cleaning marathons 49:20 Rigid daily cleaning schedules 52:37 Closing advice 53:28 A letter to my younger self Find Hester on Instagram 👉 https://www.instagram.com/hestersvibe/ Visit Hester’s website 👉 https://www.perfectlyautistic.co.uk ADHD Chatter LIVE show tickets 👉…

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   31 Mar 2026 · 46 min

   23 AuDHD Accommodations You Don't Know About (But REALLY Need)

   AuDHD can feel like a massive contradiction with lot of confusing twists and turns. Here’s 23 AuDHD accommodations that you definitely need in your life. Chapters: 01:56 Too many showers 04:11 Give a non answer 06:16 A mental health day 09:19 Outfit repeat 10:55 Life’s better when you’re flexible 12:20 Grace period please 15:19 Fish and chips again please 18:05 Animals are better than humans 19:26 Tiimo advert 20:28 Cancel out the noise 22:03 Don’t be vague 23.35 Context is king 26:00 It all makes sense now 28:14 Pay the convenience fee 29:18 Walk and talk 30:12 Have a socks and pants rack…

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   30 Mar 2026 · 1 hr 11 min

   The Truth About Female ADHD, The Invisible Struggle (Leading Psychiatrist Explains)

   Dr Yath Ramesh is an ADHD specialist psychiatrist with a unique twist. He’s treated people with ADHD from ages 18 all the way to 100, so with regards to ADHD, he’s seen it all. Chapters: 01:39 What still shocks Dr Yath 03:02 The life stages of ADHD 11:01 Unpacking RSD 18:58 The link between ADHD and crime 27:40 The post diagnosis grieving process 33:42 Tiimo advert 42:37 Yath’s ADHD mission 46:21 Why women were missed 01:00:54 How ADHD causes distress 01:02:31 The ADHD assessment explained 01:05:05 ADHD vs BPD 01:08:34 A letter to my younger self Book to see Dr Yath for an assessment:…

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   17 Mar 2026 · 56 min

   The ADHD Woman's Guide To Sex & Intimacy: No more shame, no more guilt!

   Karen Doherty is a Leading ADHD Couples Therapist who's helped thousands of people with ADHD. She’s here to discuss ADHD and how it effects sex and intimacy in your relationship. Chapters: 00:00 Trailer 01:56 How ADHD impacts sexual relationships 04:38 Difference between love & limerence 10:26 How to manage transition difficulty 14:21 Sensory issues during intimacy 17:00 The trouble with orgasms 22:12 Tiimo advert 23:14 RSD in the bedroom 28:45 How ADHD impacts sex drive 29:35 Vaginismus 32:07 When sex becomes a mask to save the relationship 37:09 Sexual OCD 39:39 AuDHD intimacy 42:07…

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   10 Mar 2026 · 50 min

   ADHD Masking Expert: The Truth About Female Masking, The Loneliness Is Crippling!

   Dana Dzamic is a world leading ADHD consultant, specialising in female masking and loneliness. Dana has helped thousands of ADHD women understand their diagnosis and themselves. Chapters: 00:00 Trailer 01:45 What is masking 05:11 Why ADHD people are expert maskers 07:24 What ADHD kids hide their true self 11:43 The positive side of masking 16:08 Women’s societal expectations 18:42 How to stop shaming your true self 20:23 The root cause of shame 21:48 How masking delays an ADHD diagnosis 23:12 Tiimo advert 26:07 The risks of masking 29:18 The link between RSD and masking 34:30 The link…

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    3 Mar 2026 · 58 min

    AuDHD Expert: What Female AuDHD Really Feels Like, THIS Trait Makes You Vulnerable!

    Dr. Samantha Hiew is a highly specialised female ADHD and Autism expert with a PhD in medical sciences. She’s here to give you a detailed crash course in AuDHD and help you spot it. Chapters: 00:00 Trailer 01:57 What AuDHD feels like 04:29 Sam’s story 26:29 Tiimo advert 28:09 Fearing your self diagnosis is wrong 30:14 How to spot AuDHD in women 35:48 When your partner doesn’t understand 37:48 How to advocate for yourself 40:02 How Autism can mask ADHD 40:52 The AuDHD RSD experience 47:16 Difference between RSD and narcissistic rage 48:24 How autism can parent ADHD 49:57 AuDHD Hacks 51:50…