5 Oct 2026 · 9 min
Be Solid in 10: Are You Solving Problems Your Child Needs to Solve?
What if helping your child too much is actually making you more necessary? As parents, we're good at solving problems. We remember, remind, organize, fix, step in, and smooth things over—usually because we love our kids and genuinely want to help. But there's a catch: We want capable kids, and capability develops through practice. If we're always doing the remembering, thinking, fixing, and solving, who is actually getting the practice? In this Be Solid in 10 , Bridget explores the difference between supporting our kids and accidentally taking over the work they need to learn to do…






