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But What Do I Know?™

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The award-winning But What Do I Know?™ Podcast is your weekly fix for honest conversations, lived experiences, and growth in real time. Hosted by Chidinma A, each episode explores the moments, questions, and transitions in life that make us stop and think: “Damn… but what do I know?” Through refle

New episodes: Every two weeks
Typical length: 1 hr 6 min
Latest: 14 Oct 2026
Language: English

Latest episode

14 Oct 2026 · 1 hr 13 minNew

The Reality of Building A Startup Feast. Diane Kone

What does it really take to build a business before the funding, recognition and success stories arrive? This week on But What Do I Know? Podcast, Chidinma is joined by Diane Kone, founder of Swayed, a tech platform designed to make discovering stylists for afro/ textured hair (WAYY) easier. Together, they discuss Diane's journey into entrepreneurship, the problem that inspired Swayed, and the realities of building a tech startup from the ground up (hint: the platform crashed and Diane had to switch web developers about 4 times). From product development and navigating funding to the unique…

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E106 · 30 Sep 2026 · 1 hr 13 min
Layoffs, Job Insecurity & The Future of Work Feat. Anna Gifty Opoku-Agyeman
It feels like for the past year and a half every month another company is announcing layoffs BUT what is actually happening in the job market? This week, award-winning economist and author Anna Gifty Opoku-Agyeman joins Chidinma on the podcast to unpack the shifts happening across work and the economy. They compare what current labour-market trends are telling us in Canada and the United States, why job insecurity can feel so widespread even when the data doesn’t necessarily show a massive increase in layoffs, and what prolonged periods of unemployment and slower hiring mean for workers.…
16 Sep 2026 · 1 hr 10 min
Coming Home To Yourself Feat. Kehinde Winful
Sometimes we lose pieces of ourselves in relationships, while trying to belong, or simply while becoming who we think we're supposed to be. This week, Chidinma is joined by Nigerian-American attorney and author Kehinde Winful for a conversation inspired by her debut novel, Flooding the River. Through the story of Lolah, a young woman navigating love, identity and a return to Nigeria, they explore what it means to come home, both to a place and to yourself. They also get into the complicated relationship members of the African diaspora can have with home, who gets to claim an African…
E74 · 2 Sep 2026 · 18 min
What Comes After Leaving Corporate America? | It’s Your Turn
What comes after deciding the work you’re doing no longer aligns with what you value? In the first It’s Your Turn episode, a BWDIK listener shares her decision to leave corporate America and begin building a marketing agency of her own. Host, Chidinma reflects on the difficulty of building something new, why knowing you made the right decision doesn’t necessarily make the climb any easier, and the different versions of freedom and alignment we’re all searching for in the way we work. Have a thought, experience or things you’re working through that you'd like to share? Leave a voice note…
E103 · 26 Aug 2026 · 39 min
Disappointment Is Inevitable..Now What?
Disappointment is inevitable, but what happens when you get tired of constantly having to adjust, pivot and make a new plan? In this solo episode, Host Chidinma gets candid about recent disappointments. From moments where it was difficult to show up fully to challenges behind the scenes of the podcast. The episode ends with three reflections helping her move through this current season. Because you can't insulate yourself from disappointment, but you can cushion it. --- Connect with "But What Do I Know?" Podcast: Podcast Community: ⁠https://www.bwdikpodcast.com/ Subscribe and watch this…
E102 · 19 Aug 2026 · 1 hr 6 min
Can We Question the Faith We Inherited? Feat. Juju Bae
Can we question the beliefs we inherited without rejecting everything we've ever known? This week, author and spiritual practitioner Juju Bae joins Host Chidinma on to discuss The Book of Juju and what it means to approach faith, ancestry, and spirituality with curiosity rather than certainty. Together, they explore Juju's journey to Ifá, reconnecting with African spiritual traditions, common misconceptions about Ifá, Hoodoo and Vodou, and why so many people are quietly re-examining the beliefs they inherited. More than a conversation about religion, this is a conversation about identity,…
E101 · 5 Aug 2026 · 1 hr 12 min
Can Romance Be Easy? Feat. Danielle Allen
Can romance really be easy? This week on the podcast, bestselling romance author Danielle Allen joins host Chidinma to discuss Big Girl Blitz, the final book in the Curve series. Together, they explore what makes a romance story feel believable, why healthy love can be just as convincing as complicated or toxic love, and how Danielle creates the unforgettable characters - Aaliyah, Nina and Jaz - that bookstagram has come to love. Hopefully, the conversation doesn’t spoil the book for you (if it does, please forgive) but this episode also explores themes of grief, confidence and emotional…
E93 · 29 Jul 2026 · 50 min
9 Lessons from 29 (By Fire, By Force)
Some of the most important life lessons in your late twenties are often learned when life doesn't go according to plan. In this solo episode of But What Do I Know? host Chidinma A reflects on the 9 biggest lessons she learned at 29. A year that included home ownership that didn't go as planned, a layoff, and unexpected disappointments. From letting go of certain expectations and making peace with job uncertainty to redefining success and learning to trust herself more deeply, this conversation is a reflection on growing through unexpected change and finding meaning in seasons that ask for…
22 Jul 2026 · 51 min
We’re Always Aware, But At What Cost? Feat. Dr. Cassandre Dunbar
For the first episode of this new season, host Chidinma A is joined by Dr. Cassandre Dunbar for a conversation that feels like an embrace. With everything happening globally, from ongoing conflicts to economic uncertainty, it can feel like there’s always something to process, even whether you are directly or indirectly impacted. In this conversation, they explore what it means to exist in a constant state of awareness, and how the ongoing exposure to heavy news and stress can begin to show up in the body. From increased cortisol levels to dysregulated stress responses and long-term health…
15 Jul 2026 · 2 min
A New Phase of "But What Do I Know?"
It has really been a while...Welcome BACK and grab your headphones because But What Do I Know?™ is now your weekly fix for honest conversations, lived experiences, and growth in real time. Through reflective conversations with guests and personal solo episodes, Host, Chidinma A will explore themes of relationships, wellness, money and ambition - especially in relation to this very podcast, as well as becoming with honesty, curiosity, and care. --- Connect with "But What Do I Know?" Podcast: Podcast Community: ⁠https://www.bwdikpodcast.com/ Subscribe and watch episodes on YouTube:…
8 Apr 2026 · 1 hr 18 min
Revisit: Vibe Check: The Perfect Find? Feat. Michelle Dennis
While new episodes are currently in production, we’re revisiting past conversations that remain timely, impactful, and truly worth revisiting. Thank you for continuing to listen as we build what’s ahead for But What Do I Know? --- Okay It's REALLY feeling like us season (word to Issa Rae) because after reaching our 100,000 download milestone, it was just announced that the podcast is a Silver Award Winner for shows within the Education category of the 2023 Signal Podcast Awards! For The Clue In Segment, Chid discusses the importance of language used to discuss the resurgence of the Israel -…
1 Apr 2026 · 1 hr
Revisit: Humanize Me Feat. Cristal Hines
While new episodes are currently in production, we’re revisiting past conversations that remain timely, impactful, and truly worth revisiting. Thank you for continuing to listen as we build what’s ahead for But What Do I Know? --- Whew, Fall is really really here and this is just the right episode for your cozy evening in! For the Clue In Segment, Chid discusses an upcoming IG live discussion on the Podcast Instagram page that you wont want to miss, shares an upcoming small business event taking place in Toronto and gets into Tem's new single "Me & U" as the song of the week. For the Main…
25 Mar 2026 · 1 hr 9 min
Revisit: Girl, If You Don't Leave! Feat. Natalie Mullin
While new episodes are currently in production, we’re revisiting past conversations that remain timely, impactful, and truly worth revisiting. Thank you for continuing to listen as we build what’s ahead for But What Do I Know? --- Okay so at some point the party has to end right ? So here is your notice that this episode is our last before our summer break. We're not leaving you hanging for long, we'll be back in September with some fiery conversations for the Fall. For the Clue In Segment, Chid shares some upcoming events and festivals happening in Toronto especially Toronto's Caribbean…
18 Mar 2026 · 1 hr 12 min
Revisit: Bad Girls Have Anxiety Too Feat. Ashley Noz
While new episodes are currently in production, we’re revisiting past conversations that remain timely, impactful, and truly worth revisiting. Thank you for continuing to listen as we build what’s ahead for But What Do I Know? --- Summer is officially in full swing! So here's an episode for you to listen to on the way to that day party or BBQ because duality is a thing. For the Clue In Segment, Chid discusses the recent wildfires in Eastern Canada that impacted the air quality for some Eastern provinces in Canada as well as some Eastern states in the USA. Chid also reminds listeners of the…
11 Mar 2026 · 55 min
Revisit: It's Not All Negative Feat. Jhanelle Peters
While new episodes are currently in production, we’re revisiting past conversations that remain timely, impactful, and truly worth revisiting. Thank you for continuing to listen as we build what’s ahead for But What Do I Know? --- Our previous episode was just part one, here's part two where we are going a little deeper. For The Clue In Segment, Chid shares the food event, Summerlicious taking place in the City of Toronto all July month long as well as Victoria Monet's upcoming tour in the Fall. For The Main Segment, Chid is joined by Licensed Psychotherapist and Mental Health Clinician for…
4 Mar 2026 · 1 hr 9 min
Revisit: My Inner Child Needs This Feat. Estelle Ntusi
While new episodes are currently in production, we’re revisiting past conversations that remain timely, impactful, and truly worth revisiting. Thank you for continuing to listen as we build what’s ahead for But What Do I Know? --- Whew who else feels like Summer is going by way too fast and is a balancing act between time and money ? On the Clue Segment for this episode, Chid recaps the Toronto mayoral election results, shares upcoming summer festivals taking place in the City and of-course the song of the week "Nice and Slowly" by Shae Jacobs. For the Main Segment, Honorary member of the…
25 Feb 2026 · 1 hr 3 min
Revisit: The Pleasure Is All Yours Feat. Lydia Collins
While new episodes are currently in production, we’re revisiting past conversations that remain timely, impactful, and truly worth revisiting. Thank you for continuing to listen as we build what’s ahead for But What Do I Know? --- It's definitely been a minute but we are BACK from our mid-season break and with just the right episode kick off the fall. On our Clue In Segment, Chid shares some upcoming festivals and events happing in the City of Toronto as well as a book recommendation for your Fall reading list. For our Main Segment, as September is Sexual Health Month, Chid is joined by…
18 Feb 2026 · 1 hr 18 min
Revisit: Set Boundaries, Have Peace Feat. Kristin Winchester
While new episodes are currently in production, we’re revisiting past conversations that remain timely, impactful, and truly worth revisiting. Thank you for continuing to listen as we build what’s ahead for But What Do I Know? --- If you spend more than 10 minutes on Instagram as of late, you have most likely come across a post sharing the importance of "setting boundaries". While the concept of setting boundaries has become popular, sometimes, it may not be easy to discern what a boundary is or how to sustain it. On this episode, Chid is joined by Licensed Therapist, Boundaries Coach and…
11 Feb 2026 · 1 hr 4 min
Revisit: Is The Money Going To Change You? Feat. Toks Ayinla
While new episodes are currently in production, we’re revisiting past conversations that remain timely, impactful, and truly worth revisiting. Thank you for continuing to listen as we build what’s ahead for But What Do I Know? --- It WILD how the fast the year has gone. It really about to be "let's circle back after the holidays" season. For the Clue In Segment, Chid shares a curated list of items to bring listeners some ease and gets into "These Four Walls" by Khamari for the song of the week. For the Main Segment, Chid is joined by Business and Lifestyle Strategist, Toks Ayinla to share…
4 Feb 2026 · 50 min
Revisit: What's Your Attachment Style? Feat. Simone Saunders
While new episodes are currently in production, we’re revisiting past conversations that remain timely, impactful, and truly worth revisiting. Thank you for continuing to listen as we build what’s ahead for But What Do I Know? --- It appears that Attachment Styles are the new Love Languages with everyone asking "what's yours?" and trying to decipher what it all means. Well, on this episode we are breaking it all down and getting you some answers! For Our Clue In Segment, Chid is reminding listeners in the province of Ontario to vote in the upcoming municipal elections, recommending a book…
S6 · E18 · 3 Dec 2025 · 59 min
The Antidote to Loneliness Feat. Merisa Gomez
This episode is your reminder that you owe yourself peace of mind, not overspending and rest during the upcoming holiday period. For the Clue In Segment of the episode, Host - Chidinma discusses the importance of spending wisely and intentionally over the upcoming holidays. For the Main Segment, Chidinma is joined by Expat and Community Builder, Merisa Gomez to talk about the logistics of moving from the UK to Canada, loneliness, seeking and eventually building community with the "Babes Seeking Balance" group. --- Connect with the "But What Do I Know?" Podcast: Instagram Community:…
S6 · E17 · 19 Nov 2025 · 1 hr 9 min
The Full Picture Feat. Jessica Carmichael
The episode ( and book recommendation) you need to end of the year the right way. For the Clue In Segment, Chidinma discusses current happenings around the world including Zohran Mamdani's win for Mayor of New York City and the impact of Hurricane Melissa on Jamaica. For the Main Segment, Chidinma is joined by Author, Jessica Carmichael to discuss her debut book "The Full Picture" The two discuss the main character of the book - Robyn being partly inspired by Jessica's life and experiences, romanticizing West Africa, specifically Ghana, the popularity of Detty December, familial pressure on…
23 Oct 2025 · 59 min
Finding Harmony At Loft 11 Feat. Tahjai Alliyah
This is just your reminder that your " Great Lock In" can look like planning for and strategizing for 2026 rather than racing to complete a bunch of goals by December 31st. For this episode's Clue In Segment, Host, Chidinma shares an update on her "Great Lock In" and moving in flow for Q4. For the Main Segment, Chidinma is joined by Mom and Entrepreneur and Founder of Loft 11 Management, Tahjai Alliyah. The two discuss the intersection of motherhood and entrepreneurship, the challenges to finding harmony between the identities of "mother" and "business owner", what is means to be creative…
S6 · E15 · 25 Sep 2025 · 1 hr 7 min
Authenticity Vs Relatability Feat. Balqis Famuyon
The episode that feels like a comfort and tough love at the same time. For the Clue In Segment, Chidinma shares the upcoming podcast event, Revisit The Vision Board - a guided journaling session in collaboration with Yelka Kamara of Kume House. For the Main Segment, Chidinma is joined by Balqis Famuyon - a Wellness practitioner and emotional wellness speaker and coach. The two share their thoughts on "authenticity vs relatability", the importance of true community, digital vs IRL community spaces and healthy relationships with Creators and their communities. --- Connect with the "But What Do…
S6 · E13 · 10 Sep 2025 · 1 hr 31 min
Vibe Check: Sex Lives Of African Women Feat. Alana Baumann and Samra Michael
Now this is one of those episodes that you're definitely going to want to have your headphones on for this. This conversation will have you raising your eyebrows and giggling throughout. For the Clue In Segment, Chidinma shares the upcoming release of season three of the TV Show, Reasonable Doubt as well as the limited series, Solo Traveling with Tracee Ellis Ross. For the Main Segment, Chidinma is joined by Hosts and Founders of the She Well Read Podcast to have a group chat-esque conversation for Sexual Health Month using the book Sex Lives Of African Women by Nana Darkoa Sekyiamah. From…
S6 · E13 · 27 Aug 2025 · 1 hr 2 min
Gadabout Season Feat. Brandee Younger
This episode definitely feels like a pinch me moment for the podcast and community. One of our most esteemed guests yet joins the episode for an inspiring yet grounding conversation For our Clue In Segment, Chidinma shares a must revisit R&B album - Juslisen by Musiq Soulchild. For our Main conversation, Chidinma is joined by Grammy nominated, NAACP image award winning harpist Brandee Younger. The two discuss Brandee's journey into the classical and instrumental music world, efforts to diversify Instrumental and Jazz music audiences, working with Common, Cassie and Lauryn Hill as well as…
S6 · E12 · 13 Aug 2025 · 1 hr 1 min
Vibe Check: Can't Get Enough Feat. Chinwendu Ejimadu
The perfect follow up to our Summer of Yes discussion is a review of a spicy summer read. For the Clue In Segment, Chidinma shares the upcoming virtual event with author Danielle Allen in collaboration with the She Well Read Podcast hosts on August 21st. It a Vibe Check episode and so, Chidinma is joined by Book related Content Creator, Chinwendu for a deep dive into the last installment of the Skyland Series - Can't Get Enough by Kennedy Ryan. The two discuss themes from the book including Hendrix and Marverick's relationship, varying forms of womanhood and choice, sisterhood, caring for a…
30 Jul 2025 · 1 hr 6 min
Our Summer Of Yes Feat. Kelley Bonner
This episode is for the girlies who need an extra push to get OUTSIDE and enjoy the summer on their own terms. For the Clue In Segment, Chidinma shares the upcoming virtual event with Author, Danielle Allen in partnership with the Hosts of She Well Read Podcast and Kwn's new R&B album, With All Due Respect as the soundtrack to a sexy summer. Licensed Therapist and Host of the Black Girl Burnout Podcast, Kelley Bonner to discuss carving out radical ease even when "locking in", recognizing burnout symptoms and creating the perfect list for a summer of yes. --- Connect with the "But What Do I…
16 Jul 2025 · 1 hr 1 min
Love Avoidance And Love Addiction Feat. Shena Lashey
This episode is the perfect pairing for a beach day, chilling poolside or a late night journaling session. For the Clue In Segment, Chidinma shares the upcoming virtual event But What Do I Know? And She Well Read Podcasts: In Conversation With Danielle Allen that is taking place on August 21st. For the Main Conversation, Chidinma is joined by Therapist, Coach and Host of the Black Girls Health Podcast, Shena Lashey. The two discuss the importance of intimacy, how intimacy disorders such as love avoidance and love addiction are developed, particularly in relation to religion and Shena’s…
S6 · E9 · 2 Jul 2025 · 1 hr 20 min
The Psychology Of A Victim Feat. Joelle Kabisoso
Trigger Warning: Please be advised that this episode includes conversation about sexual assault related to the guest's personal experience. For the Clue In Segment, Chidinma shares some music she has been enjoying including Kehlani's new release, Folded and The Clipse's upcoming album, Let God Sort Them Out. For the Main Segment, Chidinma is joined by the Founder and Executive Director of Sisters In Sync, Joelle Kabisoso. The two discuss Joelle's path of service and community building, her personal story in relation to racially motivated sexual assault and how her experience has shaped the…

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Latest episode: 14 Oct 2026
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