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   13 Oct 2026 · 19 minNew

   The Concerning Way Modern Men Have Changed

   Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/012-25Jack Reacher and Geralt from the Witcher are fearless in combat, unstoppable in crisis… So why do they shut down around women?In this video, we break down how modern masculinity became passive, what it says about young men today, and how tapping into what you really want can bring your life back online.00:00 - Intro00:18 - Jack Reacher01:00 - The Problem03:30 - How The Male Fantasy Genre Evolved06:06 - The Difference 06:44 - James Bond07:20 - Risking Rejection08:08 - The Witcher08:34 - Social Media09:32 - Monk Mode10:00 - What's Going On?10:46 -…

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   13 Oct 2026 · 16 minNew

   What To Say When A Conversation Gets Awkward

   Join Charisma University and boost your confidence and charisma:https://bit.ly/010-25Today we're using the power of AI and hindsight to fix some of the most awkward celebrity interviews, showing exactly how you can avoid these cringe-worthy situations in your own life. Learn to handle passive-aggressive comments and uncomfortable moments with confidence.0:00 - Intro0:31 - Blake Lively1:16 - Blake Lively Fixed With AI2:38 - Turn Passive Aggression Into Active Aggression3:18 - Jonah Hill & Jimmy Kimmel4:21 - Agree, Exaggerate & Let It Go4:27 - Jonah Hill Fixed With AI5:53 - Ellen DeGeneres &…

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   13 Oct 2026 · 17 minNew

   Your Dark Side Is The Key To Your Confidence

   Join Charisma University: https://bit.ly/014-25 Most people spend their lives wearing a mask—trying to be “good,” while hiding the parts of themselves they fear will be rejected. But those rejected parts don’t disappear. They become the shadow.This video breaks down the psychology of the shadow self, inspired by Fight Club and the work of Carl Jung.0:00 The Hidden Force Sabotaging Your Potential0:46 What Exactly Is the Shadow?3:59 How Defense Mechanisms Control Your Life7:17 The Dangers of Ignoring Your Shadow9:05 The Path to True IntegrationSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube…

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   13 Oct 2026 · 15 minNew

   Why People Tell Him Things They’ve Never Said Before

   The fastest way to learn to express yourself confidently: https://bit.ly/028-25Diary Of A CEO Podcast: @TheDiaryOfACEO My Diary Of A CEO Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zg4Ta7vXiIMMost people think charisma is about how you talk. But the real superpower lies in how you listen.In this video, we break down the subtle listening habits that make Steven Bartlett one of the most captivating conversationalists alive. You’ll learn how to hold silence, guide emotion, and create moments where people feel seen in ways they rarely do.0:00 - Intro1:14 - #1: Steven almost never interrupts3:52 -…

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   13 Oct 2026 · 14 minNew

   Diary of a CEO: The WORST Interview of My Life

   The Diary of a CEO podcast:https://youtu.be/zg4Ta7vXiIMI went on The Diary of a CEO, and it didn’t go how I expected… In this video, I break down what happened and what this experience taught me about charisma, confidence, and being truly authentic.Timestamps:0:00 - Intro0:24 - My charisma mistakes0:45 - How I wound up there2:15 - The question that got me...3:36 - Body language analysis4:50 - The interview drops5:54 - The phases of learning9:21 - Wrapping upSubscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website:…

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   13 Oct 2026 · 10 minNew

   How to stop blowing it on dates

   Link to 3 tips video: https://goo.gl/rH8DvbOne of the most common questions I get from guys is: "I thought the date went great....but she didn't want a second date. Why not?" That's what this video covers: how to get a second date.There are a million reasons why she may not want to see you again, but outside of serious compatibility issues, there are 3 main reasons it might be. Once you know what they are, you can pay attention to how you might be making these 3 mistakes and avoid them in the future.Subscribe to Charisma On Command: http://bit.ly/subscribeCOCConnect With Us.Website:…

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   13 Oct 2026 · 7 minNew

   The Quickest Way To Make ANYONE Laugh

   Get the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: https://goo.gl/2pFTj7How To Make Someone Laugh (The Easiest Way)This video breaks down of the easiest way how to make someone laugh. You don't have to be clever. You don't have to have good comedic timing. You don't funny or complicated jokes. In fact, it's almost so easy to do that it is frustrating. But hey, it works. Even Ellen can't contain her laughter.So if you want to maThe nice thing is, once you've made somebody laugh, they are more likely to open up and connect with you. You're more likely to make a friend. So…

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   13 Oct 2026 · 9 minNew

   Stop Playing The Social Script. Do This Instead

   The fastest way I know to become more naturally magnetic, confident, and authentic: https://bit.ly/008-26-LoganLoTSMost people hold back the parts of themselves that would actually make them more charismatic. They try to act cool, hide their enthusiasm, and stay trapped in safe social scripts.In this video, we break down what Love on the Spectrum teaches about real charisma, from saying the honest thing, to making simple jokes, to expressing appreciation without needing anything back. You’ll learn how to be more charming without acting fake, and how to bring more of your real personality…

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   13 Oct 2026 · 15 minNew

   How To Instantly Make Someone Like You

   How To Make People Like You - Bruce Lee Charisma BreakdownGet the 4 emotions you need to make a great first impression every time: http://bit.ly/2nN0H2CPeople like people who are like them. When you enter into a state of feeling that "sameness" with someone, you've entered into rapport.That's the short answer of how to get people to like you. In practice, there are many small things you can do to enter into rapport with someone. From smiling genuinely, to nodding while they speak, to focusing first on agreements. Bruce Lee's charisma demonstrates a number of these traits and I break 'em all…

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    13 Oct 2026 · 8 minNew

    STOP DRINKING: Why alcohol kills self-improvement

    I get a lot of questions about the steps to take to be more charismatic. And this one always surprises people: STOP DRINKING! https://goo.gl/RyWH6VIt seems like improvement is something you do between the gym and work. But the truth is, every social interaction is a chance to learn something. Except when you're drunk, that goes out the window. Rather than dealing with social anxiety, we tend to numb it. Rather than learning how to "turn on" a raucous sense of humor, we rely on alcohol do free up spontaneity. We sacrifice self-improvement for the the quick fix of a drunk buzz.So I know it may…