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We're talking about discipline, some mistakes worth avoiding for the sake of the connection. Join Laura, Mike and Amy for another conversation about the struggles we have and how to help. If you would like support using attachment-friendly strategies with your children, contact Laura at www.ReadySteadyConnect.com
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Chasing The Connection
Laura Newman · Kids & Family · English
Helping caring parents and professional to find their LEAD in the relationship dance with troubled children and youth, laying the foundations for healing and development Our approach is based on developmental science, which puts relationships and emotional well-being at the heart of raising and sup
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