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Across five seasons of Dad Still Standing, much of Matt and Liam’s advice for resolving issues in any relationship - whether with a partner, family member, friend or colleague - has come down to one thing: have a conversation. But what they haven’t talked about is how to have those difficult conversations. In this episode, Matt and Liam put that right. They spell out the practical tips and advice that can help when raising a sensitive subject, navigating strong emotions and saying what needs to be said. They discuss how to prepare, how to listen properly, what to avoid and how to keep a…
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Dad Still Standing
Liam Preston and Matt Dearsley · Kids & Family · English
Two dads discussing baby loss, coping with life, and working their way through grief. Liam and Matt found there was no support for dads to help them process their grief, prepare for what was to come next, and help them to support their partners. So, they teamed up to create this podcast which provid
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