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Daddies Overnight

by Matthew and Ryan · English · Kids & Family

Two husbands. One journey of becoming parents through adoption. Absolutely no clue what we’re doing. Welcome to Daddies Overnight - the podcast where we, Matthew and Ryan, try to figure out this whole parenting thing in real time. Expect chaos, cuddles, and way too many coffee-fueled confessions a

New episodes: Weekly
Typical length: 44 min
Latest: 13 Oct 2026
Language: English

Latest episode

13 Oct 2026 · 38 minNew

Our Changing Feelings About Adoption... & Leaving Our Son For A WEEK!

Guys, we went away for a WEEK without Lincoln, and it came with the guilt and worries around leaving him behind, but our overall feeling throughout the week surprised us and probably will surprise you too...Should parents feel guilty for taking time away from their children, or are we allowed to be Matthew and Ryan as well as Daddy and Daddy? We also dive into a conversation that’s left us genuinely torn: should you celebrate your child’s adoption day? We share our thoughts, the different perspectives we’ve considered, and why something that feels so meaningful can also bring up some…

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6 Oct 2026 · 43 min
I Nearly Poisoned My Child! Has Gentle Parenting Gone Too Far?
We share the story from a dummy confession from a completely exhausted listener nearly poisoning their child, because apparently sleep deprivation and juggling all things parenting really does turn your brain to mush! We’re also getting into the debate around gentle parenting and asking whether a generation of new parents has become too scared to say no, set boundaries or simply… parent?! Are we all just massive pushovers now? (We shouldn't have got Ryan started on this topic lol!) Plus, we open up about our experience with night terrors, what they're like to witness as parents, and the…
30 Sep 2026 · 46 min
Bad Parenting Choices, Offending Almond Mums & Type A Parents with Muddle Through Mummy
For the first time ever, we’re joined by a guest on Daddies Overnight! (We are literally SO excited!) This week, we’re joined by the amazing Daisy AKA Muddle Through Mummy! She's a mum of two, creator and fellow parent navigating the chaos, laughs and questionable decisions that we all know come with raising kids. We’re getting into the parenting choices we probably shouldn’t admit to, the things that might have the almond mums reaching for their keyboards, and the never ending Type A vs Type B parent debate (we probably offended her during this debate as our first guest too) Are some…
22 Sep 2026 · 48 min
The Real Reason Our Podcast Disappeared...
We’re back for SEASON 2 (woo!)... and A LOT has changed since we last recorded. Before we get started, we can't thank everyone who messaged us about the podcast coming back enough. We decided we should share the real reason we disappeared. We’re catching up on life with a toddler, tantrums, sex education, whether kids should be allowed to swear, and all the chaos in between. We're so happy to be back, so welcome back! New episodes to watch and listen to EVERY Tuesday. WANT TO BE INVOLVED IN DUMMY CONFESSIONS? 📩 Send us your most embarrassing or funny confession in a DM to our Instagram or…
28 Apr 2026 · 44 min
Baby Number Two: Adopting Again & Looking at Nurseries
A question that’s been quietly (and sometimes not so quietly) on our minds - should we have another baby? And if so... when? We talk honestly about the constant back and forth of whether to adopt again now, wait a little longer, or if our family might already be complete. It’s a bigger emotional decision than we expected, and we’re definitely feeling the pressure of “is there ever a right time?” It's time to also dive into our experiences visiting nurseries for our son the last few weeks, including a few that just didn’t feel right. From gut instincts to unexpected doubts. And of course… we…
21 Apr 2026 · 42 min
Toddler Tantrum Nightmare In Public & The Start Of A Post Adoption Midlife Crisis
This week we’re feeling… old. Like, suddenly questioning 'what on earth has happened to us' old. Has parenthood aged us overnight, or is Ryan just fully entering his post adoption midlife crisis era? We talk about the strange identity shift that comes with becoming parents, the unexpected emotions that hit even when everything is “going well,” and why it sometimes feels like we’ve lost a version of ourselves along the way. We also get into Coachella FOMO (because apparently that version of us still exists somewhere), and share the reality of our recent family holiday, which was a lot harder…
14 Apr 2026 · 46 min
Adopting a Teenager & Realising Every Parent’s Worst Nightmare
This week might genuinely cover every parent’s worst nightmare as we read through a scary dummy confessions sent in by one of our listeners… and immediately question why we decided to bring this topic up. Ryan also opens up a little more about his experience in foster care, sharing how those early chapters of his life continue to shape the way we approach adoption, attachment, and parenting our boy today. Ryan also launches a brand new surprise segment: “Things My Husband’s Done to Annoy Me This Week” all without giving Matthew any warning whatsoever. And the biggest realisation of the week?…
7 Apr 2026 · 40 min
Apparently We’re Raising a Spoilt Child… and Dealing With Mean Mums
This week we’re chatting about the emotional side of parenthood as Ryan opens up about why special moments with our son always seem to bring him to tears. We’re also recapping our Easter weekend, sharing the little family moments that made it so special, and having an honest conversation about something a lot of parents quietly worry about... are we raising a spoilt child? AND after feeling a bit lost when it comes to finding “our people”, we finally feel like we’ve had a breakthrough with making mum friends… even if not every mum encounter has been the easiest. New episodes to watch and…
31 Mar 2026 · 46 min
Our Last Hour With Our Son. Times Are Changing 😭
The clocks changed in the UK… but our toddler didn’t. In this episode, we talk about what felt like our last peaceful hour before daylight savings completely flipped our routine upside down. No screens allowed. No extra sleep. Just two exhausted dads trying to survive British Summer Time with a suddenly very sassy little boy. From 3AM wake ups to an unexpected debate about what superpower would actually save bedtime, this one is honest, chaotic and very real. If you’ve ever experienced the UK time change with a toddler… you’re not alone. New episodes to watch and listen to EVERY Tuesday.…
24 Mar 2026 · 40 min
Dealing with Our First Public Parenting Disaster & Broken Cheekbones
This week, parenting truly put us to the test… in public - honestly, a living nightmare occurred. From a full-blown poo explosion at the shopping centre (the kind that makes you question whether you’ll ever be allowed back) to a much-needed rare date night - one that was CHILD FREE, it’s been a chaotic one. We also dive into the bizarre and sometimes extreme lengths people are going to in the name of “beauty,” and Ryan’s questionable driving makes yet another appearance. Safe to say - there’s never a dull moment in our new family. New episodes to watch and listen to EVERY Tuesday. WANT TO BE…
17 Mar 2026 · 44 min
Celebrating Our Son's First Birthday… How Did It Go So Wrong?
This week we're running on VERY little sleep and a lot of coffee lol. Ryan opens up about the sleep anxiety he's been dealing with while Lincoln has been waking through the night, although he's not fully awake, but clearly distressed. We think he might be experiencing night terrors , and we're trying to figure out what’s normal, what’s not, and how on earth parents cope with the exhaustion that comes with it. On a much more magical note, we talk about our trip to Disneyland Paris to experience the brand new World of Frozen before finally sharing Lincoln’s first birthday , which was meant to…
10 Mar 2026 · 38 min
The Night We Rushed Our Son to A&E (And Trusted Our Gut)
Welcome to our snotty nose era . This week we’re talking about a parenting milestone we definitely didn’t see coming so soon… rushing our son to A&E. And...somewhere along the way we’ve become those parents... the ones we used to quietly judge before we had kids... walking around with a permanently snotty child and a bag full of tissues. But along with the sniffles also comes something new: the constant worry of “Is this normal… or is something actually wrong?” In this episode we share what happened the day we had to rush our son to A&E, the panic, the second-guessing, and the fear of…
3 Mar 2026 · 43 min
Our Son's Face Being Exposed By AI & Life Changing Decisions
This week starts with something that honestly gave us chills, even if the intentions weren't bad, people using AI to try and remove the blue heart we put over our son’s face in pictures to see what he looks like. We talk about what that means, how scary the future of AI might be, and how we’re navigating protecting our child online. We also go through the emotional rollercoaster of sorting out clothes he’s already outgrown (how are they this tiny already?) and Matthew shares some surprising news about a surgery he wants to have. New episodes to watch and listen to EVERY Tuesday. WANT TO BE…
24 Feb 2026 · 43 min
Goodbye Social Workers - What Happens After Adoption
The social workers are officially out of our lives. After hundreds of check-ins, forms, visits, and assessments, this chapter of our adoption journey has finally closed. And wow… it feels big. In this episode, we talk about what really happened after we brought our son home, the emotional rollercoaster we didn’t fully share at the time. The exhaustion. The overwhelm. The quiet doubts. The pressure to look like we were coping. We were often “faking it till we made it,” trying to hold everything together while adjusting to becoming daddies overnight. If you’re in the adoption process, thinking…
17 Feb 2026 · 44 min
Surviving Japan With a Baby: No Seatbelts, Poo Explosions & Still Living Life
Everyone told us not to travel with a baby... so we went to Japan anyway with a baby haha! From no seatbelts for our little boy on the flight, to a full on poo explosion at the airport, to navigating jet lag and tantrums across the world... this trip was messy, chaotic, hilarious, and unforgettable. And somewhere between the chaos and the quiet moments, Japan did something unexpected. It made us rethink our whole future. Could we really move here? Join us for the highs, the lows, the laughs in this episode and discover why having a baby doesn’t end adventure… it just opens the door to a…
10 Feb 2026 · 46 min
If this doesn’t change, we’re getting divorced… | Valentine’s Special
This Valentine’s special gets a little… dramatic. We take a trip down memory lane and share the REAL story of how we met (we haven't always been truthful about this), what our Valentine’s Days used to look like before parenthood, and how our relationship has changed over the years. Then we put it to the test. We play a “How well do we know each other?” Valentine’s edition... and let’s just say, some of the answers don’t go to plan… with talk of divorce thrown around more than once. Perfect if you’re new here, and even better if you’ve been with us from the start. Happy Valentine's Day! New…
3 Feb 2026 · 44 min
When Your Child Picks a Favourite Parent (One Of Us Is Having A Meltdown)
One of us has faced a devastating truth: "I'm not the favourite parent." Not second favourite. Not a joint favourite. Just… not it. What starts as a slightly wounded ego spirals into a very honest chat about the bit no one warns you about after becoming parents. We also chat and give our BEST parenting advice after all the experience we've had being daddies (insert sarcasm) haha! You're welcome in advance! One thing we never see anyone chat about is the post-adoption blues, which we touch on. After the excitement settles, the adrenaline disappears, and you’re left thinking, “Wait… are we…
27 Jan 2026 · 39 min
We’re Taking Our Son on a 15 Hour Flight... Are We Insane?
We might have officially gone nuts because we booked a 15 hour flight with our son for our first holiday together. In this episode, we talk honestly about the nerves, the “what ifs,” and the fear of being judged while flying with a tiny child for the first time. We share why we chose the destination, how we planned the itinerary, and how we’re mentally preparing for long-haul flights as a family. If you’ve ever wondered whether travel with kids is worth it (or if everyone will hate you on the plane), this one’s for you. We're gonna experience this together haha! New episodes to watch and…
13 Jan 2026 · 42 min
We Can’t Hide Our Son’s Age Anymore! Admitting Ms Rachel Is Our Best Friend
This week we're opening up about something we’ve been keeping private that we get asked about a lot... our son’s age. We talk honestly about our thoughts on sharing it with the world. It’s a real conversation about boundaries, privacy, and parenting in the public eye. We can also fully admit that Ms Rachel has become our best friend even after lots of resistance (from us), and how she’s helped us through this stage. Also, why Peppa Pig isn't allowed in our household haha New episodes to watch and listen to EVERY Tuesday. WANT TO BE INVOLVED IN DUMMY CONFESSIONS? 📩 Send us your most…
6 Jan 2026 · 43 min
Our Son Has Two Dads - Why Does That Upset People?
We’re opening up about life as a two-dad family... the love, the joy, and yes… the online hate. We talk honestly about the comments and trolls who seem upset by the fact that our son has two dads, and how we’ve chosen not to let that stop us from living our best life as a family. We also share a really special moment about what our son calls us and why that means more to us than any opinion online ever could. We also can't forget about celebrating our first New Year as a family, plus a more light-hearted catch-up on Stranger Things, Amber Alert, and the everyday moments that make this…
30 Dec 2025 · 44 min
We’re Not Sure If We’ll Adopt Again | Reflections on Christmas & New Year
Our son’s very first Christmas was full of magic, surprises, and moments we’ll never forget, but it also got us thinking. In this episode, we reflect on our first Christmas Day with our son, share our honest thoughts about whether we’ll adopt again and why, and talk through our New Year’s resolutions and hopes for the year ahead now that we're a family. A heartfelt conversation about family, reflection, and life’s big questions after a year full of huge changes. New episodes to watch and listen to EVERY Tuesday. WANT TO BE INVOLVED IN DUMMY CONFESSIONS? 📩 Send us your most embarrassing or…
23 Dec 2025 · 45 min
We’re NOT Ready for Our Son’s First Christmas
Our son’s first Christmas is almost here, and we’re feeling all the excitement... AND pressure. Between sleepless nights, keeping him out of our bed, and trying to make every tradition perfect, we share the highs, the nerves, and the magic of our first Christmas as a new family. From Santa visits to Christmas chaos, this episode is about the moments that make it unforgettable... The joy, the mess and the stress as two new daddies. New episodes to watch and listen to EVERY Tuesday. WANT TO BE INVOLVED IN DUMMY CONFESSIONS? 📩 Send us your most embarrassing or funny confession in a DM or a…
16 Dec 2025 · 53 min
Introducing our son to the WORLD...And we make every parent angry
Bringing our baby boy home was everything we dreamed of… and more mentally challenging than we expected. In this episode, we share introducing him to family (and ofc our dog Roscoe), the honest highs and lows of post adoption, and some raw conversations about our feelings. Plus, Ryan drops his biggest boast... one that’s bound to make other parents roll their eyes (or secretly envy him!) haha New episodes to watch and listen to EVERY Tuesday. WANT TO BE INVOLVED IN DUMMY CONFESSIONS? 📩 Send us your most embarrassing or funny confession in a DM or a voicenote to our Instagram:…
10 Dec 2025 · 45 min
Our Son Is Finally Home. We’ve Officially Adopted.
The most emotional chapter of our lives so far: bringing our son home from foster care as we become a forever family. We open up about the transition week - the huge joy of finally becoming a family, but also the unexpected heartbreak of saying goodbye to his incredible foster carers (seriously, get your tissues ready)! From overwhelming emotions to the moments that changed us forever, this episode is a raw and honest look at the journey that finally made us parents. We've officially become Daddies Overnight. New episodes to watch and listen to EVERY Tuesday. WANT TO BE INVOLVED IN DUMMY…
2 Dec 2025 · 49 min
Our Son Is Coming Home... It’s Finally Happening
In our final episode before bringing our son home, the emotions are real… and they’re running high. We’re about to become daddies literally overnight, and the mix of excitement, nerves, and pure joy is overwhelming. As we head into our transition week and prepare for the foster carer handover, we share our last-minute thoughts, tiny moments of panic, and the reality of stepping into parenthood. Things get a little emotional toward the end, especially Ryan, as we record a message for our son that we hope he’ll listen to one day. It’s finally happening. New episodes to watch and listen to…
25 Nov 2025 · 40 min
37 Weeks Pregnant Without a Bump?! And Our Baby Shower
It’s official: we’re full-term, bump-free, and feeling all the emotions. Somehow, we’ve basically made it to what would be 37 weeks pregnant with absolutely no bump to show for it haha! This week has been a whirlwind as we celebrated our baby shower… or as we ended up calling it, our “coming home party” for our little boy. We haven’t talked about any of this anywhere else, so we’re excited to finally share it with you and relive the sweetest moments. Join us as we chat about the love, the surprises, and the joy of celebrating our little boy who’s coming home VERY soon. 💛 New episodes to…
18 Nov 2025 · 42 min
Nursery Bickering & Being Told We’ll Never Travel Again With a Baby
The chaos of getting ready for our little boy's arrival has officially begun. From nursery bickering and assembling the cot 'together' to last-minute house checks from our social worker, nothing goes unnoticed. We share the highs, the mini meltdowns, and the moments when all the advice (and opinions) start to feel a little overwhelming. Plus, the classic curveball everyone who has a baby probably experiences: being told we’ll never travel again… all because we're about to become parents. Join us as we navigate all the nerves and the beautiful mess of preparing for parenthood. New episodes to…
11 Nov 2025 · 42 min
Meeting Our Son For The FIRST TIME — We Changed Our First Nappy!
After what felt like the longest wait of our lives, the day finally arrived... we got to meet our son for the FIRST TIME. We're sharing every moment of the day that has changed our lives forever: from the nerves of wanting to get it just right , to the slightly terrifying prospect of meeting his foster carer (what if they didn’t like us?!), to holding our son in our arms for the very first time. Oh, and let’s not forget our debut attempt at changing a nappy - spoiler: it did not go smoothly. This one’s full of emotion, laughter, and those messy, magical moments that make becoming parents…
4 Nov 2025 · 48 min
The Brutal Honesty Of Adoption - What It’s Really Like To Adopt
Hello and welcome back to Daddies Overnight! Parenthood isn’t as simple as “just getting pregnant”. In this episode, we share why surrogacy felt like a scam and why adoption became our path to parenthood. Join us as we navigate paperwork chaos, us working in a nursery to get through the process, and opening up with our social worker - all while surviving becoming parents 😅 We get real about the highs, the nerves, and the surreal excitement of being approved to adopt before our little one comes home. New episodes to watch and listen to EVERY Tuesday. WANT TO BE INVOLVED IN DUMMY CONFESSIONS?…
28 Oct 2025 · 45 min
Gender Reveal! Wait... We’re Gonna Be Dads?!
Hello and welcome from your soon to be daddies! 🎉 In our very first episode of Daddies Overnight , we’re finally sharing… our GENDER REVEAL! Join us as we open up about what it’s like preparing to quite literally become daddies overnight through adoption. We’ll take you behind the scenes of how we found our child, the emotional journey that led us here, and the incredible moment we discovered we were going to be parents. This episode is full of love, nerves, excitement, and one very special reveal. 💖💙 New episodes to watch and listen to EVERY Tuesday. WANT TO BE INVOLVED IN DUMMY…

About Daddies Overnight

Daddies Overnight is a English kids & family podcast from Matthew and Ryan. Melo plays each episode straight from the publisher's own feed — no ads added, no account needed — and remembers where you stopped, in this browser only.

Publisher: Matthew and Ryan
Language: English
Category: Kids & Family
New episodes: Weekly
Typical length: 44 min
Latest episode: 13 Oct 2026
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