Journey with me, Laterras R. Whitfield, as I discover, uncover, and recover love. From interviews with singles, married, divorcees, and maybe even those in polyamorous relationships, we promise every episode to be L.I.T. (Living Intentionally Transparent).
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month , a time to amplify the voices of survivors, bring awareness to the realities of domestic violence, and remind those suffering in silence that they are not alone. Behind closed doors, countless individuals are fighting battles that the world knows nothing about. How do you know when the person you love is the very person you need to walk away from? In this powerful and deeply emotional episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield sit down with Joi-Lin Hunt for a courageous conversation about love, domestic violence,…
What happens when the man accused of toxic masculinity is also being wounded by toxic masculinity? In this revealing episode of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, Ashley and Laterras R. Whitfield sit down with Shawn Best of Married at First Sight for an honest conversation about masculinity, intimacy, accountability, rejection, and the moments from his marriage that sparked intense conversation online. Shawn opens up about being criticized for how he communicated with his wife, the controversial conversations surrounding sex and a husband’s “needs,” and why he now acknowledges…
What happens when the person who captured your heart at 14 reappears years later with an ocean between you? Ryan and Priscilla Ofei’s love story began as teenagers, but their journey to marriage would eventually stretch across the Atlantic, from Canada to the UK. When Ryan got another opportunity to pursue Priscilla, distance wasn’t his only obstacle. He wrestled with feeling intimidated by a woman who seemed established and thriving while he was still finding his footing. But instead of allowing insecurity, geography, or timing to convince him she was out of reach, he pursued…
In a culture where a man’s value is often reduced to the size of his bank account, Dr. Tiphanie Hall challenges the idea that income is the ultimate measure of what a man brings to a relationship. As a successful, high-achieving woman, she shares why she isn’t simply looking for a man who can match her financially—she’s looking for a man who can meet her relationally. Commitment. Emotional intelligence. Security. Character. Communication. The soft skills that money can’t buy. Dr. Hall opens up about wanting a man who is secure enough within himself to stand…
What happens when the man who gave us one of the greatest modern-day love songs finally finds the love he’s been singing about? In this heartfelt episode of the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, Grammy-nominated singer-songwriter MAJOR., the voice behind the timeless anthem “Why I Love You,” opens up about the journey that led him from singleness to marriage. MAJOR. gets candid about choosing to remain a virgin until marriage, navigating dating while staying committed to his faith and convictions, and the lessons he learned about love, patience, purpose, and becoming the man…
Courtney and Joshua Washington had preferences. Strong ones. And according to those preferences, they should have never ended up together. Courtney had made up her mind that she didn’t want Black children, so dating Black men wasn’t part of her plan. Joshua was equally certain about his own non-negotiable: he didn’t want to date a woman with children. Courtney had four. On paper, they were everything the other person said they didn’t want. But sometimes God has to deliver you from your preferences before He can introduce you to His provision. In this powerful episode…
Lisa Nichols has inspired millions to believe they are worthy of more, but when love finally showed up for her, receiving it became the real work. In this powerful episode of Dear Future Wifey , Lisa and Marcellus Hall unpack the eight-year journey that eventually led them to love. Lisa reveals how past heartbreak caused her to prejudge Marcellus for things he had never done, creating scenarios in her mind and nearly self-sabotaging the relationship before giving him the opportunity to show her who he truly was. Marcellus shares what it took to patiently love a woman who was still learning…
Tareasa "Reesa Teesa" Johnson captivated millions with a story that sounded too unbelievable to be true. But behind the viral series was a real woman navigating heartbreak, deception, disappointment, and the painful realization that the person she loved wasn’t who she thought he was. In this powerful episode of Dear Future Wifey, Reesa Teesa sits down with Laterras and Ashley R. Whitfield for a conversation that goes beyond the headlines and viral moments. She opens up about the emotional aftermath of her marriage, the red flags that became clearer in hindsight, and what the experience…
Dating has changed—but has the Church changed with it? In a culture shaped by dating apps, social media, shifting gender expectations, hookup culture, delayed marriage, and an increasing distrust between men and women, Christian singles are navigating a dating landscape unlike any generation before them. "State of Dating" is a candid panel discussion hosted at Christian Cultural Center that brings together diverse voices for an unfiltered conversation about what it means to date, build relationships, and pursue marriage while maintaining Christian values in today's culture. The panel…
One of reality television's most celebrated love stories, "The Bachelorette's" Charity Lawson and Dotun Olubeko join Dear Future Wifey for a candid conversation that goes far beyond the cameras. Recorded live at the Christian Cultural Center in Brooklyn, NY, the couple opens up about what it really takes to build a relationship after the final rose. From navigating a highly public engagement to choosing growth over pressure, Charity and Dotun share why they intentionally extended their engagement, the role therapy has played in strengthening their relationship, and how they've learned to…
Recorded live at Christian Cultural Center in Brooklyn, New York, this unforgettable conversation with Sarkie Ampim peels back the layers of his heart. For months, many people formed opinions about Sarkie based on viral clips and social media debates. But in this candid live interview, he addresses many of the false assumptions people have made about him, revealing the man behind the microphone. With honesty and vulnerability, Sarkie opens up about the painful ending of his last relationship and the healing journey that followed. He reflects on the lessons, growth, accountability, and…
What happens when you believe you're too broken, too flawed, or too unworthy to be loved? And what happens when love finally arrives, but fear won't let you fully embrace it? In this powerful episode of "Dear Future Wifey", Laterras and Ashley R. Whitfield sit down with Dayron and Whitney Owens (Day & Whit) for an honest conversation about healing, trust, and building a blended family God's way. Whitney opens up about the emotional weight of being a single mother and the internal struggle of making room for another man to step into her son's life. After carrying the responsibility of…
What happened next became a testimony of God's faithfulness. This conversation is filled with transparency, hope, healing, and proof that even after devastating loss, God still has the final word. If you've ever wrestled with commitment, endured heartbreak, or wondered whether God still performs miracles, this episode will strengthen your faith and remind you that your story isn't over. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/beefingwiththeblacks https://www.instagram.com/callmecollins.hdc CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS https://www.instagram.com/laterrasrwhitfield…
Has social media changed love forever? Is marriage still worth pursuing? Can healthy relationships actually survive in today's culture? At the BCI Conference, Laterras R. Whitfield brings together an incredible lineup of voices for one unforgettable conversation featuring Haley & Mondarius Black, Will Johnson, Dallace Tyrae, Jermone Glenn, Lady Erica Glenn, Tianna Clark, and Careya Pace. From dating and singleness to marriage, purpose, healing, and faith, this powerhouse panel doesn't shy away from the hard questions. Together, they discuss red flags, relationship expectations, waiting on…
What happens when God asks you to leave everything familiar in order to step into everything He promised? This week on Dear Future Wifey , Charles and Jonsi McGill sit down with Laterras & Ashley R. Whitfield for an inspiring conversation that redefines what it means to become your spouse's greatest teammate. In an episode appropriately titled "Dear Future Business Partner," they reveal how obedience to God laid the foundation for both a thriving marriage and a thriving business. Before becoming successful entrepreneurs, Charles served as a school principal while Jonsi embraced the calling…
On this episode, we meet Craig and Khadijah Shareef. In their mid-twenties, Khadijah asked Craig to fill out an “application” just to date her. He didn’t have much at the time—working a low-paying job—but she saw his character beyond finances. Now, Craig thrives in his career, and together they’ve built a marriage rooted in intentional choices. We’ll dive into how that initial “application” became a blueprint for their lasting love. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/khadijahdrinkard CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS…
Rico and Monica Davis have each weathered two previous marriages, but this time, they’re stepping into love together. Just a month after saying "I do" on May 9th, these newlyweds share why, despite past experiences, they feel more aligned than ever. In this episode, they reveal how lessons from their past marriages, combined with newfound wisdom, are making this third marriage—with each other—their most intentional and joyful chapter yet. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/officialricodavis https://www.instagram.com/mothick_fit CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS…
In this special Father's Day edition of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras and Ashley Whitfield sit down with their daughter, LaTerria, and her husband, Tay, for an intimate conversation about generational fatherhood. Laterras reflects on becoming a teenage father of LaTerria, a grandfather for the first time with baby Claire, while LaTerria and Tay open up about raising Claire and anticipating the arrival of their son. The couple shares their journey from meeting as seventh-grade sweethearts to navigating college together, building a marriage, and now growing their family. Through laughter,…
On this heartfelt episode of "Dear Future Wifey", Kevin McIntyre and Brittany McIntyre share a remarkable love story that proves God's timing is often better than our own. After dating for just eight months, the couple went their separate ways and spent six years apart, each growing individually before life brought them back together. In this transparent conversation with Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield, Kevin and Brittany open up about heartbreak, healing, unanswered prayers, and the lessons they learned while waiting. They reveal what changed during their years apart, how…
What happens when innocence collides with trauma, faith wrestles with pain, and a woman refuses to let her wounds define her future? In this deeply moving episode of "Dear Future Wifey", Michelle Valorae sits down with **Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield for a raw and transparent conversation about the chapters of her life she never imagined would become part of her testimony. From experiencing sexual trauma to navigating the world of exotic dancing while still longing for purity, purpose, and God's best for her life, Michelle courageously shares her journey of pain, survival,…
He went viral for doing an altar call at Rolling Loud… but there’s so much more to the story. This week on the Dear Future Wifey Podcast, Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield sit down with gospel artist and cultural disruptor Miles Minnick alongside his wife of 11 years, Tina Minnick, for one of the most powerful conversations to ever hit the yellow couch. From Tina’s emotional journey through foster care… to Miles encountering the Holy Spirit in a life-changing way… to building a marriage that has survived trials, pressure, and the odds stacked…
In this episode, Dion and Ny Ringold sit down with Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield to share their journey. After marrying young, Ny told Dion not to rush into another job after a setback, encouraging him to chase purpose instead. Now, they’re building The Known Conference, aiming to become the “Christian Coachella.” Join us for a heartfelt conversation about faith, purpose, and building a legacy together. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST https://www.instagram.com/d.ringgold https://www.instagram.com/ny.ringgold https://www.knownconferences.com CONNECT WITH OUR HOSTS…
***DISCLAIMER*** This episode was recorded weeks before the recent online backlash surrounding Dr. Cheyenne Bryant’s doctoral credentials. Furthermore, no questions in the episode addressed her credentials. Dr. Cheyenne Bryant joins Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield to unpack her deal-breaker: she doesn’t date men with kids. They explore her relationship standards, her experiences, and the lessons she’s learned. It’s a conversation you’ll want to hear!. Dr. Cheyenne Bryant joins Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield to unpack her…
Michael Elliot spent years writing some of culture’s most beloved love stories, including "Brown Sugar", "Ruth and Boaz", and "Relationship Goals". Through unforgettable scripts, romance, and emotionally rich characters, he mastered the art of portraying love on screen. But behind the scenes, there was one thing he admits he had never fully experienced for himself: a love deep enough to make him completely choose commitment. In this heartfelt episode of Dear Future Wifey Podcast, Michael and his fiancée, Adia May, share the real-life love story years in the making. Long before…
She forgot the man she loved… So he became her memory. They met in 2017. He proposed on 10/16/21. They said “I do” on 6/23/22. They welcomed their first child on 3/17/24. Then, on 9/9/24… everything changed. In this exclusive interview with Laterras R. & Ashley R. Whitfield, Devante & Qieana Mitchell open up about life after a tragic car accident that resulted in a brain aneurysm and memory loss. Their story is a testament that even when memories fade, true love remains—and sometimes, love has to be relearned. CONNECT WITH OUR GUEST…
What if the journey you take to find purpose is the very path that leads you to love? In this powerful episode, Kemoy Martin shares how stepping outside of his comfort zone—and outside of his country—became the catalyst for discovering who he truly is. What started as a pursuit of purpose turned into something deeper: a revelation that love isn’t just something you find in a person, but something you uncover within yourself along the way. Through travel, risk, and radical faith, Kemoy opens up about the moments that challenged him, stretched him, and ultimately aligned his…
She built a million-dollar empire before she could legally drink. She called the market better than traders twice her age. And she did it all while slowly losing herself in the process. For the first time ever, Kelly Ohgee sits down with us to tell the whole story. Kelly gets vulnerable about something most high-achieving women won't admit out loud — that the same energy that builds an empire can quietly destroy a relationship. She opens up about how years of operating in her masculine, staying sharp, staying strategic, and staying in control, created a dynamic in her relationship that…
You might remember Gabriel Barr-Redmond — he's the guy who had us laughing *and* thinking when he spoofed the Dear Future Wifey podcast in a viral video that caught Laterras's attention. But a lot has changed since then. Gabriel is no longer just talking about love from the outside — he found it. And this time, he's bringing his fiancée Adrianna Turrentine to the table. In this candid and heartfelt episode, Laterras R. Whitfield and Ashley R. Whitfield sit down with Gabriel and Adrianna to hear the full story of how their love unfolded — slowly, intentionally, and…
In this dynamic episode of Dear Future Wifey, Laterras and Ashley R. Whitfield sit down with powerhouse couple Michael Jai White and Gillian White for an engaging and insightful conversation about love, marriage, and navigating life in the entertainment industry. Together, they share the stories of how they met, offering insight into the moments that sparked their relationships and the foundations that have kept them strong through the years. From ministry to Hollywood, each couple brings a unique perspective on what it means to build and sustain a lasting union. Michael and Gillian give a…
In this powerful couples conversation on Dear Future Wifey, Laterras and Ashley R. Whitfield sit down with Harry McKee and his wife for a deeply personal and faith-filled dialogue on love, purpose, and perseverance. Harry shares the life-altering story of how he almost lost his life due to a serious health complication, opening up about the physical battle, the emotional toll, and the spiritual perspective that came from facing death so closely. Together, they reflect on how that season reshaped their marriage, their priorities, and their faith in God. The couple also discusses Harry’s…
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Journey with me, Laterras R. Whitfield, as I discover, uncover, and recover love. From interviews with singles, married, divorcees, and maybe even those in polyamorous relationships, we promise every episode to be L.I.T. (Living Intentionally Transparent).
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