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175. How to Be More Confident Spending Time Alone | 5 Things That Changed How I Think About Loneliness

19 Aug 2026 · 48 min

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If you've ever felt like a loser for not having Friday night plans or like a "weirdo" for spending too much time alone...this episode is for you. I'll walk through my story first, including the impulsive cross-country move that made my loneliness worse instead of better (IYKYK), and then break down the 5 things that made me feel more confident in being alone and how you can apply them to your life too. Topics covered: 👉🏻 Why moving into my first solo apartment in 2023 sent me into a spiral 👉🏻 The real reason I moved from LA to Chicago, and why it backfired completely 👉🏻 Why you have to stop…

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Don't Depend On Daddy

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Learn how to run your life without chaos. Don’t Depend on Daddy blends wellness, routines, and real-life systems to help you feel more grounded, organized, and independent. The conversations are practical and honest, focused on habits that stick, structure that supports your energy, and learning how

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