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Your Brain Is Not a CRM At some point, we started confusing doing everything manually with providing a better client experience. In this episode, I'm calling bullshit on the idea that automation makes your business less personal. We’re talking about why your clients don't need access to you 24/7, how “scrappy” eventually becomes sloppy, the hidden cost of keeping your entire business inside your brain, and why being indispensable isn't the same thing as being successful. I also get into what actually deserves to be manual, what should be systemized, and why the goal isn't to make your…
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Emotionally Booked Out
McKenzie Bigliazzi · Business · English
Emotionally Booked Out is where business strategy meets the "what the hell am I doing?" phase. Hosted by McKenzie Bigliazzi, this podcast is for photographers, creatives, and small business owners who want more than cookie-cutter advice. Expect honest conversations about branding, marketing, booking
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S2 · E20 · 5 Oct 2026 · 49 min
E20: The Weirdest Shit I Did to Become Successful
My career wasn't built out of a 5 year plan. In this episode, I'm getting very honest about the weird, chaotic, occasionally stupid shit that somehow built my career: going to school because I had no idea what else to do, working at Olive Garden, becoming a professor, moving across the country in the middle of a pandemic, saying yes to opportunities that made absolutely no business sense, networking when I hate networking, getting burned by collaborations, getting copied, completely losing myself in the "luxury" wedding world, and eventually figuring out what actually matters to me. Defining…
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S2 · E19 · 21 Sep 2026 · 51 min
E19: Being Palatable Is Bad For Business with Meaghan of Rhode Tripper Photography
My favorite kind of podcast episode: two photographers accidentally solve everyone's branding problems while talking about being queer, being visible, and why the word “luxury” needs to be put in time-out. I’m joined by Rhode Island wedding photographer Meaghan of Rhode Tripper Photography for a wildly honest conversation about showing up online as your full-ass self, the fear of scaring clients away, queer identity, representation, performative allyship, inclusive language, and why watering yourself down might actually be attracting the wrong people. Plus: we absolutely drag the wedding…
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S2 · E18 · 7 Sep 2026 · 40 min
E18: Narrative Enables My Overshooting: Inside Narrative with Founder James Broadbent
What if the goal of your photography business wasn't to work harder but to get your life back? In this episode, I'm joined by James, the creator of Narrative , to talk about something photographers have VERY complicated feelings about: AI. We get into why photographers feel guilty when a tool makes their workflow easier, why we've somehow turned editing until 3AM into a badge of honor, and why being an overshooter doesn't mean you need to punish yourself with thousands of images afterward. James breaks down exactly how Narrative works, including scene sorting, image ranking, face and focus…
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S2 · E15 · 10 Aug 2026 · 23 min
E16: Work-Life Balance is Kind of a Scam (And That's Okay)
I had one Martini before recording this pod and I got fired up lmao Hot take? Work-life balance is kind of a scam. Not because boundaries don't matter... they absolutely do. But because somewhere along the way we started believing balance meant every single day had to look the same. Wake up at 5 a.m., answer every email instantly, work out, meal prep, journal, close the laptop at 5... and somehow never feel overwhelmed. Yeah... no. In this episode, I'm sharing what work-life balance actually looks like as a self-employed creative (recorded from Oregon after one martini, because apparently…
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S2 · E15 · 27 Jul 2026 · 57 min
E15: Are Wedding Photographers ruining Weddings? With Milly Baine of The Rose Reflective
Yeah... we said it. This week, Milly Baine with The Rose Reflective is back on Emotionally Booked Out, and we're talking about the elephant in the room: are wedding photographers ruining weddings? From making couples redo moments over and over again to chasing content instead of connection, we're unpacking how ego, trends, and social media have changed the client experience... and not always for the better. We're not speaking from some high horse either. We've both made these mistakes. We've both had to learn when to direct, when to step back, and when to remember that this day isn't about…
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S2 · E14 · 13 Jul 2026 · 26 min
E14: Am I in a pyramid scheme?
No seriously, sometimes being in the wedding industry feels like a pyramid scheme. What if the scoreboard you've been chasing was never yours to begin with? What if I told you that what you deem successful is probably way different than what you've been told? This week's episode is a quick one, but it packs a punch. I'm talking about the myths we've accepted in the photography and wedding industry, that destination weddings, luxury venues, follower counts, and constant busyness somehow equal success. They don't. We're unpacking why visibility isn't the same as revenue, why burnout isn't a…
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S2 · E13 · 29 Jun 2026 · 1 hr 4 min
E13: The Wedding That Started as a Styled Shoot with Hitched AF
What started as a styled shoot became something none of us expected: a real wedding. In this episode, I'm joined by wedding planner Jen of Hitched AF and our incredible couple, PJ and Aaron, to unpack what it felt like to hand over the planning process, trust an entire vendor team, and experience a wedding that was designed around them - not trends, timelines, or expectations. We talk about building a wedding experience rooted in queer joy, why the right vendors change everything, how collaboration creates better art, and the behind-the-scenes moments that made this day unforgettable…
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S2 · E12 · 15 Jun 2026 · 59 min
E12: Being the Vendor We Wish We Had: From Two Brides to Queer Advocates
Happy Pride Month 🌈 Every June, wedding vendors rush to add a few rainbow photos to their feed. But real inclusivity? That goes so much deeper than a once-a-year portfolio refresh. In this episode of Emotionally Booked Out , I’m joined by Ali of A Ray of Light Videography - a queer wedding videographer, advocate, and bride herself. Together, we unpack what it actually feels like to plan a wedding as a queer couple, the emotional labor that comes with constantly assessing whether a vendor is truly safe, and why representation still has such a long way to go in the wedding industry. Ali shares…
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