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Emotionally Intelligent Parenting with Stephanie Pinto

by Stephanie Pinto · English · Kids & Family

"In order to raise emotionally intelligent kids, we must first become emotionally intelligent parents." - Stephanie Pinto. I hope you love this podcast and find the episodes entertaining and educational - we're going to cover all things emotional intelligence, parenting, kids, behaviour, emotions,

New episodes: Weekly
Typical length: 27 min
Latest: 11 Oct 2026
Language: English

Latest episode

11 Oct 2026 · 41 minNew

128: The Sensory Code with Laura Petix (Occupational Therapist)

What if your child's most baffling behaviour isn't defiance or attitude at all? Consequences, reward charts, and bribes haven't stopped the meltdowns, refusals, or shutdowns. That's because it's not about discipline. It's about the sensory system (that no-one teaches us by the way!) I'm joined by occupational therapist Laura Petix, author of the new book The Sensory Code , and founder of Instagram's @theotbutterfly, to talk about a topic that doesn't get enough airtime. Laura shares how looking at behaviour from a different angle, kind of like coming in through a side window, can change…

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S3 · E127 · 4 Sep 2026 · 17 min
127: The Validation Trap: What the Research Actually Says
Ever caught yourself doing "all the right things" emotionally with your kid only to watch it somehow make things worse? In this episode, I'm breaking down something most parenting content won't tell you: the research on why constant emotional narration can backfire, and where the real line is between validating your child and accidentally teaching them to get stuck in a feeling instead of moving through it. Drawing on neuroscience and child development research most parents have never heard translated into plain English, this episode will change the way you respond the next time your kid…
S3 · E126 · 30 Apr 2026 · 23 min
126: Six Steps to De-Escalating Big Emotions (And the Meltdown at Taronga Zoo)
Imagine standing in the middle of a zoo (or a supermarket, or a school pickup line) watching your child completely fall apart and feeling completely frozen... This is what I'm talking about today! This episode right here is your turning point. I'm walking you through my six-step de-escalation framework that goes way beyond the usual "get down to their level" advice you've heard a hundred times — into the neuroscience of WHY your child literally cannot hear you mid-meltdown, the one thing most parents do first that makes it last twice as long, and the small but powerful move that hands your…
S3 · E125 · 12 Mar 2026 · 23 min
125: Tummy Aches, Tears, and Panic: Anxiety in Kids.
Anxiety Masterclass tickets here: www.stephaniepinto.com/anxious-masterclass Ever stood in the school car park while your child clings to you, pleading they can’t go in, and thought… is this ever going to get easier? Or your teen is shutting themselves away in their room, refusing to go to social gatherings or other activities (that you know they’d probably LOVE)? I’ve been there. My youngest has, too. And yes, even as someone who teaches emotional intelligence and anxiety strategies, I still questioned myself in those moments (a lot). Today I'm sharing our story, from tearful mornings to…
S3 · E124 · 6 Mar 2026 · 40 min
124: What to Do When Your Child Is Overwhelmed: The ABCs of Co-Regulation
Ever had a moment where your child’s reaction felt way bigger than the situation? 🌋 A small thing turns into a huge meltdown. Logic doesn’t land. Consequences do NOT work. And you’re thinking " what am I supposed to do right now?" This is for you! Today I’m joined by Elizabeth Sautter, a speech-language pathologist and author who has spent nearly 30 years supporting neurodivergent kids, families and educators. She’s also a mum of two neurodivergent (grown up) kids, so everything she shares comes from both professional experience and real life. Elizabeth introduces a simple framework she uses…
S3 · E123 · 22 Feb 2026 · 29 min
123: My 10 Most Underrated Ways To Raise Emotionally Intelligent Kids
Everyone talks about rules, consequences, and behaviour, but emotional intelligence? That’s the piece almost no one talks about!! And yet it’s the thing that actually shapes how kids handle life, relationships, and themselves. Today I’m sharing 10 of the most underrated ways to raise emotionally intelligent kids. The strategies most parents never hear about (and the ones I always share with private clients). These are simple. Practical. Surprisingly powerful shifts that can change your family’s emotional energy almost immediately. I talk about why emotions aren’t the enemy, what’s REALLY…
S3 · E122 · 15 Feb 2026 · 23 min
122: A Mini Masterclass on Cooperation (Without Yelling)
Freebie Gift: Resource Bundle link is below! Ever feel like getting your kids to cooperate is like negotiating with dictators who happen to share your DNA? 🤣 Last episode (on a similar topic) was so popular that this week I made a mini masterclass on cooperation! I'm sharing 20 emotionally intelligent tips to get your kids working with you not against you. No yelling, no bribing, no punishments. Just practical strategies that actually work and help your child feel seen, safe and capable. This isn’t about being permissive or letting kids run the show. It’s about shifting the way you connect,…
S3 · E121 · 6 Feb 2026 · 38 min
121: The Secret to Raising Cooperative, Emotionally Resilient Kids
Psst... Scroll for the link to my book on emotionally intelligent parenting! What if parenting didn’t have to rely on punishment, guilt, or constant power struggles? Yep. Really. Today I'm actually the one being interviewed! My friend Amy Nesbitt had me on her podcast, Whole Wellness Mamas, and we unpacked what emotional intelligence parenting really means, and why it’s so different from the old-school approaches many of us were raised with. This is the conversation you get to hear today! Amy and I talk about: Why punishing “bad behaviour” is SO outdated, and what actually helps kids become…
S3 · E120 · 25 Jan 2026 · 23 min
120: Emotional Intelligence and the Art of Getting Kids to Open Up
Talking about feelings can be hard, for kids AND parents. Some kids talk freely, others shut down, and many sit somewhere in between. If you’ve ever felt unsure how to help your child open up, or worried about what’s going on beneath the surface, this episode is for you. Silence isn’t defiance — it’s a signal. Kids can shut down when they don’t feel emotionally safe, even when the environment is calm, loving, and well-intentioned. Today I unpack how emotional intelligence, nervous system awareness, and self-regulation change the way kids experience communication and connection. You’ll learn…
S3 · E119 · 18 Jan 2026 · 27 min
119: When Your Child is The Bully: This Parent Was in Shock.
This one’s an eye-opener. An 11-year-old boy is suspended from school for bullying. His parent is devastated, confused, and in shock. They turned to my parenting community online for help and ask a question so many parents would ask in that moment: “Besides taking away electronics, what else can I do?” What followed was a flood of responses. Some were deeply supportive, insightful, and grounded in emotional intelligence. Others were confronting, punitive, and honestly… alarming. So today in this episode I unpack that post from my Facebook community, Let’s Raise Emotionally Intelligent Kids ,…
S3 · E118 · 11 Jan 2026 · 30 min
118: Triggers, Tantrums, and Techniques That Work
You promise yourself you won’t yell… and then suddenly, you have. Maybe your child’s tantrum isn’t even that big, but something in YOU snaps. If you’ve ever wondered why you react the way you do, even when you know better, this episode is for you. Today I’m not talking about how to “fix” your child, stop tantrums, or get quick compliance. I’m talking about the missing piece most parents were never taught: emotional intelligence, and how it completely changes the way you experience triggers, yelling, and discipline. I unpack why reacting is often automatic, not a failure… Why punishment and…
S3 · E117 · 7 Jan 2026 · 30 min
117: Mini Masterclass on Emotional Intelligence 2026
FREE MINI EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE MASTERCLASS!! Even though emotional intelligence gets talked about a lot, I think it's actually understood very little. So I decided to record a free, mini masterclass for you all and publish it on the podcast. I have stripped it back for you all and rebuilt it properly. Not as a buzzword. Not as “being nice”!! And definitely not as something only parents or teachers need to worry about. This is my mini masterclass on what emotional intelligence actually is, how it shapes EVERY interaction you have, and why in 2026 it’s genuinely no longer optional regardless…
S3 · E116 · 4 Jan 2026 · 38 min
116: How to Raise Emotionally Intelligent Kids in 2026 (Without Doing More)
Parenting in 2026 isn’t harder because you’re doing it wrong. Trust me! It’s harder because the old tools don’t work anymore. Today it's the first episode of the year!! So I’m reintroducing the foundation of emotionally intelligent parenting and sharing why emotional intelligence is no longer optional, it’s essential. So I decided to talk about what emotional intelligence actually looks like in everyday family life, why behaviour is NEVER the full story, and how raising emotionally intelligent kids doesn’t require more charts, consequences, or parenting hacks. Instead, I put together a list…
S3 · E115 · 3 Dec 2025 · 15 min
115: The A+ Kid Who Says He’s Being Bullied… Then Takes It Back. What’s Really Going On?
Ever had your child tell you something worrying, only for them to suddenly deny it? Or stress endlessly about tests and friendships but won’t let you help? 🥴 In this special 2 year anniversary episode, I’m diving into one of the most emotionally complex listener questions I’ve received so far. A mum reached out about her sensitive, bright 8-year-old who’s struggling with intense test stress, perfectionism, big mood swings at home, and confusing stories about bullying that seem to shift. This episode is one of my deepest, most layered breakdowns yet. I unpack what’s really going on beneath…
S3 · E114 · 2 Nov 2025 · 24 min
114: Top 10 Lessons That Changed How I Parent (and Teach Emotional Intelligence)
What if… the way you’ve been trying to “stay calm!” “set boundaries!” or “teach emotional regulation!” is actually the wrong way around? In this special 2-year anniversary episode of the Emotionally Intelligent Parenting Podcast — I’m sharing the 10 big lessons that completely changed the way I parent… and the way I think about parenting. These are the mindset-shifts that no one teaches us, but every emotionally intelligent parent needs to hear. I talk about: 🩷 why you can’t teach calm from chaos 🩷 why repair matters more than how the moment went 🩷 how triggers are actually invitations 🩷 and…
S3 · E113 · 19 Oct 2025 · 28 min
113: Repair Over Perfection: Raising Emotionally Resilient Toddlers with Devon from Transforming Toddlerhood.
What if the secret to raising confident, emotionally resilient toddlers isn’t about getting it right all the time — but what we do after things go wrong? In this heartwarming and honest conversation, I sit down with Devon Kuntzman , founder of Transforming Toddlerhood and the original toddler parenting coach on Instagram, to talk about the power of repair over perfection . Together we explore: Why parents feel so much pressure to be perfect — and how the brain science shows that it’s the repair moments that truly matter How rupture and repair wire your child’s brain for resilience and…
S3 · E112 · 2 Sep 2025 · 24 min
112: My Post on Kids' Anger Went Viral: I'm Burning These Myths to the Ground.
At the start of this year, I shared a post on Instagram about children and anger, and it went VIRAL. Hundreds of thousands of parents liked, shared, and commented, because it hit home in such a powerful way. Why? Because so many of us have been fed myths about what anger in kids means, and what we’re “supposed” to do about it. So today I broke it all down. 👉 What an angry child doesn’t mean (hint: think entitlement, rudeness, or needing harsher punishments). 👉 What anger really is a signal of... from overwhelm to dysregulation to sensory overload. 👉 How you can respond with calm, confidence,…
S3 · E111 · 29 Aug 2025 · 27 min
111: How To NOT Just Survive The Kid/Teen Years.
Raising kids and teens can be hard right... but you don’t have to do it alone. Self-care and prioritising our wellness is also hard... do you know why most of us actually don't do it? My guest does! Drum roll please... because today I sat down with the one and only Amy Nesbitt, host of the Whole Wellness Mamas annual summit, to talk about how to overcome the challenges of motherhood, the importance of self-care, and finding a community that truly “gets it.” We discuss: The real struggles mums face and how to navigate them without losing yourself Practical tips for managing stress, overwhelm,…
S3 · E110 · 22 Aug 2025 · 41 min
110: Breaking the Rules: Why Neurodivergent Kids Push Back with Christina Keeble
If you’ve ever felt like traditional parenting advice, or even the school system, just doesn’t FIT your child, especially if they’re neurodivergent, this episode is going to shift your perspective. I’m joined by the brilliant Christina Keeble —an AuDHD mother of two neurodivergent PDAers, and a Neurodiversity and Educational Consultant with over 23 years of experience. Christina has worked with schools, families, businesses, and government organisations to change the way we see and support neurodivergent kids. Together we dive into: ✨ Why kids’ need for connection never fades (even if…
S3 · E109 · 11 Aug 2025 · 34 min
109: Own Your Story: How to Finally Stop Repeating the Past, with Lael Stone
Ever wonder why, no matter how hard you try, you keep slipping back into the same old parenting reactions? The ones you swore you’d never repeat? You're in the right place. Today I spoke with Lael Stone, educator, TEDx speaker, parenting counsellor, and now author of the brand-new book Own Your Story . Lael told me how our childhood “imprints”, the beliefs, feelings, and patterns you absorbed when we were little, are quietly steering our parenting today. She revealed: ✨ Why your biggest triggers hold the key to your growth ✨ How to break the cycles you inherited (without shame or guilt) ✨…
S3 · E108 · 6 Aug 2025 · 18 min
108: The Emotional Intelligence Cheat Sheet for Heated Moments
MIC DROP MOMENT! So I have now come to question every situation I've been in because... what if every argument, every eye-roll, every “you’re so unfair!” moment… isn’t just something to survive, but an invitation to finally break old habits and RECREATE who you are in the face of stress and conflict? Stay with me... Today I’m sharing a powerful coaching strategy, a monumental shift that will change how you see fights/upset/arguments/ with your kids, your partner, and even strangers at the checkout. Inspired by a real-life parenting moment that brought this lesson home for me and my son last…
S3 · E107 · 1 Aug 2025 · 46 min
107: Self-Regulation BEFORE Co-Regulation?! (I Was Shocked Too): Nervous System Parenting with Justin Sunseri
Most people believe that parenting is all about managing your child’s behaviour. But the truth is BOTH your child’s outbursts AND your own reactions are driven by your nervous systems. And no-one knows this stuff! In this powerful and validating conversation, I sit down with Justin Sunseri (LMFT and host of the Stuck Not Broken podcast) to explore how the Polyvagal Theory completely shifts the way you understand both your children’s behaviour AND your own emotional patterns. We unpack: Why your child isn’t “bad”, they’re dysregulated Why you keep snapping, yelling, or shutting down, even…
S3 · E106 · 18 Jul 2025 · 16 min
106: The One Emotional Pattern That Predicts Breakups (and How to Stop It)
You’re trying to be supportive. They says you’re not listening. You open up emotionally. They try to fix it. And bam, you’re both frustrated, annoyed and wondering what went wrong. Ugh (been there!). Today I'm going deep into one of the MOST overlooked emotional patterns that quietly causes distance, conflict, and even breakups in relationships... and you probably don’t even realise you’re doing it. (I had no idea till I read it was a thing!) 🧠 Discover why your good intentions might still leave your partner feeling dismissed 🧠 Learn the powerful shift that emotionally attuned couples make 🧠…
S3 · E105 · 3 Jul 2025 · 17 min
105: 10 Underrated Ways to Boost Your Emotional Intelligence
🧠 Think emotional intelligence is just about journaling, naming emotions or deep breathing? Think again. In this episode, I’m sharing 10 underrated, unknown and even unexpected, science-backed ways to develop your emotional intelligence. Strategies most people NEVER talk about, but that genuinely rewire your brain, calm your nervous system, and transform how you show up in everyday life. We’re talking about practical ways to build self-awareness, regulate emotions, quiet the amygdala, and strengthen your relationships (without needing to sit on a meditation pillow for hours 😉 You might be a…
S3 · E104 · 30 Jun 2025 · 31 min
104: When Calm Feels Impossible: A Nervous System Lens on Parenting Anger.
Calling all unicorns who never get frustrated or angry! This episode isn't for you 😉 Ok, let's be real. The true statistic is 100% of parents have those moments where they snap, shout, or shut down... and then feel awful. You want to stay calm. You want to be patient. But sometimes it just… takes over. In this episode, we’re talking about anger from a completely new perspective - your nervous system's point of view. Because underneath the yelling or frustration is something really important: a nervous system doing its best to protect you. We’ll unpack what’s actually going on when you’re…
S3 · E103 · 25 Jun 2025 · 28 min
103: When Your Child Sees or Hears Explicit Content: How We Explained Inappropriate Content using Emotional Intelligence.
Today we share a real-life moment when our child heard SUPER inappropriate language online. We talk about how we responded, how we used emotional intelligence to stay connected, and how to set boundaries without shame. If you're navigating tricky online influences with your kids, this is a must-listen. Ever had one of those blindsiding parenting moments where your child’s world collides with the internet’s wilder side, right in your living room? In this episode, my husband (yep, he’s back!) and I unpack last night’s heart-pounding scene: an innocent game, a friend’s shock-value words no…
S3 · E102 · 18 Jun 2025 · 35 min
102: Mum vs Dad: The Best Way to Handle Power Struggles (Hubby is back on the podcast!)
Power struggles: we’ve all been there! Sometimes daily. This was us a few years back - but no more. Your kid digs their heels in, you dig yours in deeper—and suddenly you're in a full-blown standoff over socks, screen time, or sandwiches. 🙃 In this juicy and very real episode, my husband Alex is finally back on the podcast! 🎉 And we’re getting into it: 🔥 How he handles power struggles as a dad 🔥 What he thinks of how I handle them (gulp!) 🔥 Where we clash, where we align, and what we’ve learned from doing things differently You’ll hear the honest, behind-the-scenes stories (yes, even the…
S3 · E101 · 16 Jun 2025 · 23 min
101: I pulled off a miracle!!! Zero-Nag, Zero-Tantrum Hack That WORKED.
Guys, this weekend I did the impossible: got the kids and my husband to do a giant tidy-up, without bribes, threats, nagging, or anyone fake-crying in the laundry. And all I used? Half a sheet of paper and a pencil. No yelling, no sticker charts, no power struggles, just emotional intelligence, a simple plan, and a calm, confident vibe. In this episode, I’m sharing exactly how I pulled it off so you can too. Use my hack! If you’re over being the household manager, maid, and motivational speaker all rolled into one… this one’s for you. xx Steph. (Btw the course I mentioned is From Reactive to…
S2 · E100 · 9 Jun 2025 · 26 min
100: How One Step Changed Everything: My Emotional Intelligence Journey (100TH EPISODE!)
It’s here — Episode 100! 🎉 In this special milestone episode, I take you behind the scenes of my journey from anxious, overwhelmed mum to founder of a global movement for emotionally intelligent parenting. From starting with just 10 people in a Facebook group to writing a bestselling book and speaking on international stages, it’s been a wild ride! I’m sharing the highs, the vulnerable moments, the lessons I’ve learned, and why emotional intelligence is NOT a soft skill — it’s essential for raising kind, confident, resilient kids. PLUS: A special giveaway to celebrate this incredible…
S2 · E99 · 5 Jun 2025 · 13 min
99: How NOT To Raise Snowflakes: This Is What Real Resilience Looks Like.
Talking to kids about emotions is only going to make them soft snowflakes. Letting kids show their emotions opens them up to bullying or means they're going to walk all over us when they're mad. Right? Think again. In this episode, I’m calling out one of the biggest parenting myths around emotional intelligence, and breaking down why raising emotionally intelligent kids is the OPPOSITE of raising weak ones. I'm talking about: What real resilience actually looks like (and why “toughening up” is outdated) How emotional intelligence builds grit, problem-solving, and self-regulation The…

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Emotionally Intelligent Parenting with Stephanie Pinto is a English kids & family podcast from Stephanie Pinto. Melo plays each episode straight from the publisher's own feed — no ads added, no account needed — and remembers where you stopped, in this browser only.

Publisher: Stephanie Pinto
Language: English
Category: Kids & Family
New episodes: Weekly
Typical length: 27 min
Latest episode: 11 Oct 2026
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