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From Borderline to Beautiful: Hope and Help for BPD with Rose Skeeters, MA, LPC, PN2

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From Borderline to Beautiful Podcast tackles tough topics and provides information and insight into borderline personality disorder. Our goal is to provide a show that offers hope and help to you or your loved ones with BPD and to answer big questions that others in the field are too scared to answe

New episodes: Every two weeks
Typical length: 21 min
Latest: 9 Oct 2026
Language: English

Latest episode

9 Oct 2026 · 47 min

Smoke, Mirrors, and the Fear of Being Known with Jay Skeeters

In this episode, Rose Skeeters and Jay Skeeters explore the importance of vulnerability, how smoke and mirrors behaviors develop, and the impact on relationships and personal growth. They share personal stories and practical insights to help listeners understand and practice vulnerability for healthier connections. Keywords vulnerability, smoke and mirrors, emotional honesty, personal growth, relationships, self-awareness, mental health, BPD, emotional regulation, authenticity Key topics The role of vulnerability in personal and relational growth How smoke and mirrors behaviors develop and…

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24 Sep 2026 · 18 min
From Shame to Strength: The Hidden Power of Love, Acceptance & Training
In this episode, Rose Skeeters explores how love, acceptance, and training can transform challenging traits into strengths, especially in the context of childhood development and adult self-acceptance. She discusses practical ways to reframe big emotions, hyperfixation, dissociation, and other traits as potential sources of growth and creativity. Keywords self-acceptance, emotional regulation, childhood development, mental health, personal growth, trauma, sublimation, dissociation, hyperfixation, therapy Key Topics The importance of love, acceptance, and training in childhood development How…
12 Sep 2026 · 24 min
Living Amends: Forgiveness Through Changed Behavior in BPD Recovery
Shame says you are the problem. Living amends asks a better question: How will you live now so the same harm is not repeated? Living amends is not another apology. It is the practice of repairing harm by living differently—especially when shame, rumination, or a one-time “I’m sorry” has not created change. In BPD recovery, guilt and shame can become an identity. This episode explains living amends—repair through consistent action rather than endless apology—and how a simple writing practice can open the door to self-forgiveness without self-punishment. Key points • Living amends = ongoing…
28 Aug 2026 · 49 min
Fear Is a Mile Wide and an Inch Deep: How to Cross the Threshold in BPD Recovery (with Jay Skeeters)
Fear looks like an ocean. It looks like it will swallow you. Jay puts language on something a lot of people in BPD recovery already feel: the fear is a mile wide and an inch deep. From a distance it looks massive. After you take one step, you find out you can stand. In this episode of From Borderline to Beautiful , Rose and Jay talk about what actually gets you across that threshold — not more confidence first, but action. Confidence comes after you begin. We cover: Why fear looks like drowning when it is often a puddle Why you do not need confidence before you act How past experiences make…
13 Aug 2026 · 21 min
The Things You Do to Feel Safe Are Keeping Your BPD Fear Alive
In this episode, we look at the quiet ways people with BPD try to protect themselves from abandonment, emotional overwhelm, and the fear of losing control — and how those same strategies often keep the fear locked in place. You’ll hear a clear breakdown of safety behaviors, why they feel necessary in the moment, and how they prevent the brain from learning that the catastrophe is either less likely or more survivable than it feels. We also walk through imaginal exposure and response prevention as a practical way to start interrupting the cycle. This is a straightforward, skills-focused…
31 Jul 2026 · 30 min
Gaslighting + BPD: Why It Feels Like Your Reality Is Under Attack
In this episode Rose Skeeters breaks down the intersection of gaslighting and borderline personality disorder with clear definitions, research-backed explanations, and practical tools. She covers how to tell the difference between true gaslighting and BPD-related dissociation or emotional reasoning, whether people with BPD gaslight others, the problem of self-gaslighting, and concrete steps for protection, boundaries, and repair. From Borderline to Beautiful — Real hope, real tools, real recovery. 00:00 Introduction to Gaslighting and Its Relevance in BPD 02:55 Understanding Gaslighting:…
17 Jul 2026 · 25 min
Why Being Judgmental Was Secretly Destroying My BPD Recovery (Shadow Work Game-Changer)
In this powerful solo episode, Rose Skeeters opens up about one of the biggest hidden obstacles in her own BPD recovery: chronic judgmentalism. What felt like harmless criticism was actually a self-protective shield that blocked vulnerability, deepened fragmentation, and sabotaged the very connection and healing she craved. Rose breaks down how judgment functions as projection and shadow material, its damaging effects on mental health, self-image, relationships, and empathy, and most importantly — how to turn every judgmental thought into a golden doorway for shadow work and integration. If…
4 Jul 2026 · 15 min
Finding Freedom in Recovery: A Fourth of July Story of Hope
In this inspiring bonus episode, Addis shares a heartfelt journey from homelessness and instability to stability, self-awareness, and happiness. Addis' story highlights the possibility of recovery from BPD, emphasizing self-compassion, resilience, and the transformative power of self-acceptance. If you or someone you know is navigating similar struggles, this story offers hope and practical insights into healing. Need individual support? Schedule a session with Rose here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…
24 Jun 2026 · 1 hr
Mentalization-Based Treatment for Borderline Personality Disorder with Robert Drozek
In this episode, Rose Skeeters welcomes Bob Drozek, a leading expert in mentalization-based treatment (MBT), to discuss how understanding and improving mentalizing can support hope and recovery from borderline personality disorder (BPD). Listeners will gain insights into the foundational concepts of MBT and practical strategies for fostering better emotional and relational health. Key topics: Mentalization explained: Accessing, reflecting, and understanding mental states in oneself and others (00:00:41) The importance of mentalization in everyday life and therapy (00:55:27) How trauma,…
17 Jun 2026 · 18 min
Finding Hope in the Recovery Journey: Embracing Uncertainty & Building a Life Worth Living
In this episode, Rose Skeeters explores the emotional landscape of recovering from borderline personality disorder, emphasizing hope, resilience, and actionable mental health strategies. Whether you're just starting or navigating the challenging middle phases, this talk offers practical insights and reassurance for creating a meaningful life. Andrew Huberman Physiological Sigh Clip Need individual support? Schedule a session with Rose here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.thriveonlinecounseling.com/product/individual-sessions/…
3 Jun 2026 · 1 hr 11 min
Why Assisted Suicide is the WRONG Answer for BPD: Eye-Opening Interview
In this episode of From Borderline to Beautiful, hosts Rose Skeeters and Xannie discuss the controversial topic of medically assisted suicide (MAID), especially as it pertains to individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). They explore the ethical, emotional, and societal implications of offering this option to vulnerable populations and emphasize the importance of support and recovery over despair. In this episode: The hosts explain the current Canadian laws around MAID and its upcoming extension to psychiatric illnesses in March 2027 They analyze the dangerous implications of…
19 May 2026 · 45 min
Challenge Accepted. An Interview with Jay Skeeters.
Discover how shifting perspectives and managing the weight we carry can transform the recovery journey. Join Jay and Rose Skeeters as they explore practical strategies for embracing challenges, maintaining patience, and building resilience through metaphorical weightlifting. In this episode: The analogy of weight on the bar as a metaphor for challenges in recovery Why growth involves discomfort and how to navigate it The importance of adjusting the "weight" when recovery feels overwhelming How routine and self-awareness can help lighten the load The significance of perspective shifts in…
13 May 2026 · 14 min
Split the Difference: Own Your Future.
In this episode, Rose Skeeters explores how taking full responsibility — or extreme ownership — can be a transformative tool for individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). She discusses practical steps to dismantle splitting behaviors, restore integrity, and foster genuine healing. ⁠⁠ Register for the Summer 2026 Support Group on June 3 Today! Key Topics: Understanding splitting as a defense mechanism and how it fragments relationships and self-image How extreme ownership can dismantle splitting and re-anchor your moral compass Practical steps: catching the split, owning your…
29 Apr 2026 · 20 min
Betrayal Trauma.
This episode explores the profound impact of betrayal across different life stages, how it shapes our worldview, and the importance of loyalty and healing. Rose Skeeters shares insights on betrayal trauma, its effects on children and adults, and practical steps for recovery. Shout out to Noah Esreal for his permission to use the song Wasn't Nothoin'. ⁠ Registerfor the Summer 2026 Support Group on June 3 Today! ⁠⁠ Key Topics Definition and examples of betrayal across life stages How betrayal in childhood alters worldview and core beliefs The psychological impact of betrayal trauma The role of…
15 Apr 2026 · 26 min
Narcissism.
This episode explores the complex nature of narcissism, distinguishing between clinical Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and pop culture misconceptions. Rose Skeeters provides insights into the traits, diagnosis, and intersection with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), emphasizing the importance of accurate understanding and compassionate communication. Register for the Summer 2026 Support Group on June 3 Today! Need individual support? Schedule a session with Rose here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…
8 Apr 2026 · 18 min
Hypersensitivity.
This episode explores emotional hypersensitivity in BPD, its impact on relationships and self-image, and practical strategies for managing intense emotions. Rose Skeeters shares insights, real-life stories, and actionable steps to foster emotional regulation and self-awareness. Need individual support? Schedule a session with Rose here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.thriveonlinecounseling.com/product/individual-sessions/ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To schedule with Jay, click here: ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…
24 Mar 2026 · 23 min
Paranoia.
This episode explores paranoia in the context of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) through the lens of Jungian psychology. It explains the nature of paranoia, its role in BPD, and offers practical tools for understanding and integrating paranoid thoughts. Need individual support? Schedule a session with Rose here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.thriveonlinecounseling.com/product/individual-sessions/ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To schedule with Jay, click here: ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…
12 Mar 2026 · 21 min
Broken and Grieving.
Rose Skeeters explores a challenging phase of recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder, focusing on grief, brokenness, and identity fragmentation. She shares personal insights, developmental psychology perspectives, and practical steps for healing. Need individual support? Schedule a session with Rose here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.thriveonlinecounseling.com/product/individual-sessions/ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To schedule with Jay, click here: ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…
25 Feb 2026 · 22 min
The Unhealthy Ego.
Rose Skeeters explores the concept of ego, its role in recovery from borderline personality disorder, and how cultivating a healthy regard for oneself, or a quiet ego can enhance resilience, decision-making, and relationships. Need individual support? Schedule a session with Rose here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.thriveonlinecounseling.com/product/individual-sessions/ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To schedule with Jay, click here: ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.thriveonlinecounseling.com/product/22608/…
17 Feb 2026 · 22 min
Rumination.
In this episode of 'From Borderline to Beautiful', host Rose Skeeters delves into the concept of rumination, particularly in the context of borderline personality disorder (BPD). She shares her personal experiences with rumination, explaining how it can stem from anxiety and fear of abandonment. Rose outlines a framework to help listeners identify and combat rumination, emphasizing the importance of recognizing patterns and employing specific tools to manage intrusive thoughts. The episode provides practical strategies for reducing the impact of rumination on daily life, ultimately promoting…
11 Feb 2026 · 12 min
Overdramatizing.
In this episode of 'From Borderline to Beautiful', Rose Skeeters explores the profound impact of words and their energy on our lives and relationships. She reflects on her personal journey of overdramatization and the consequences of using words as tools for validation. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-awareness in recognizing how our words affect ourselves and others, and encourages listeners to choose their words mindfully to foster positive connections and personal growth. Need individual support? Schedule a session with Rose here:…
28 Jan 2026 · 14 min
Manipulation.
In this episode of 'From Borderline to Beautiful', Rose Skeeters shares her journey towards self-awareness and understanding manipulation in relationships, particularly in the context of borderline personality disorder. She discusses the painful process of self-evaluation and the four types of manipulation she employed to cope with her fragmented identity. Through her experiences, she emphasizes the importance of recognizing these behaviors as a step towards healing and personal growth. Need individual support? Schedule a session with Rose here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…
21 Jan 2026 · 16 min
From Clever to Competent: The Journey of Emotional Skills
In this episode of "From Borderline to Beautiful," host Rose Skeeters shares a compelling story illustrating the importance of practice and preparation in managing stress and emotions. Rose encourages listeners to reflect on their own approaches to therapy and recovery. She stresses the importance of daily practice, routine, and self-care in building resilience against emotional challenges. By committing to small, consistent actions, individuals can better prepare themselves for moments of stress and emotional upheaval. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to engage in…
7 Jan 2026 · 13 min
Building Controlled Certainty in BPD Recovery 2026
Keywords BPD, structure, routine, anxiety, emotional regulation, recovery, mindfulness, coping strategies, self-care, mental health Summary In this episode of 'From Borderline to Beautiful', host Rose Skeeters discusses the importance of structure and routine in managing anxiety and supporting recovery from BPD. She emphasizes how predictability can reduce emotional overwhelm and promote better emotional regulation. The conversation transitions into practical steps for building structure in daily life, focusing on small, realistic changes that can lead to sustainable habits and emotional…
31 Dec 2025 · 29 min
New Year's Resolutions 2026: Borderline Edition ;p
Keywords New Year's resolutions, recovery, borderline personality disorder, self-improvement, emotional regulation, personal growth, mental health, self-reflection, coping strategies, emotional well-being Summary In this episode, Rose Skeeters discusses the importance of New Year's resolutions, particularly focusing on what individuals can give up to aid their recovery journey. She emphasizes the need for self-reflection, prioritizing love and emotional regulation, and letting go of harmful behaviors and mindsets. The conversation covers various aspects of personal growth, including…
17 Dec 2025 · 18 min
BPD Holiday Survival Guide Part II: Build Your Emotion First Aid Kit
Keywords BPD, holiday season, emotional regulation, coping strategies, family dynamics, mental health, emotional perception, self-care, boundaries, distress tolerance Summary In this episode of 'From Borderline to Beautiful', host Rose Skeeters discusses strategies for navigating the holiday season for individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). She highlights the emotional challenges that arise during this time, including family dynamics, heightened expectations, and the potential for triggers. Rose provides practical tips for maintaining emotional stability, such as…
2 Dec 2025 · 21 min
Tuesday Truth: Navigating the Holidays with BPD
Keywords BPD, holidays, perspective taking, family relationships, emotional health, recovery, interpersonal skills, DBT, self-awareness, acceptance Summary In this episode of 'From Borderline to Beautiful', Rose Skeeters discusses the challenges faced by individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) during the holiday season. She emphasizes the importance of perspective taking in building healthier family relationships and offers practical strategies to manage expectations and foster connection. Through personal anecdotes and research insights, Rose encourages listeners to embrace…
27 Nov 2025 · 20 min
Navigating Love: BPD and Dating
Keywords BPD, borderline personality disorder, dating, relationships, attachment, mental health, compatibility, protest behaviors Summary In this conversation, Rose Skeeters discusses the challenges of dating for individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). She emphasizes the importance of recognizing protest behaviors to foster compatibility in relationships. The conversation also delves into attachment concerns that arise as relationships progress, highlighting the difficulties in securely attaching to partners. Takeaways Dating can be difficult for people with BPD. Identifying…
12 Nov 2025 · 19 min
Zero-to-100 Emotions: The 5 Evidence-Based Tools That Actually Work When Nothing Else Does
When your emotions go from 0 to 100 with no warning, the key is to stop trying to catch the emotion itself and instead learn to catch the earliest body signals that show up before you consciously feel anything. Listen in today for 5 evidenced-based tools that actually work. Need individual support? Schedule a session with Rose here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.thriveonlinecounseling.com/product/individual-sessions/ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To schedule with Jay, click here: ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.thriveonlinecounseling.com/product/22608/…
5 Nov 2025 · 36 min
Tuesday Truth: Recovery Requirements: Purpose & Agency
Looking through the mental illness lens and focusing on pathology can sometimes miss the big picture and make us feel that there is no hope in recovery. Research shows that rates of recovery without relapse requires the development of purpose and agency. Listen in today to hear how the BPD brain inhibits purpose and agency and how you can begin to tap into these for a solid recovery foundation. Need individual support? Schedule a session with Rose here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.thriveonlinecounseling.com/product/individual-sessions/ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To…

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