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Hot and Unbothered

by Brianna Gomez · English · Learning

New episodes: Weekly
Typical length: 39 min
Latest: 9 Oct 2026
Language: English

Latest episode

9 Oct 2026 · 41 minNew

You’re not in your feminine energy, you’re in survival mode.

The REAL reason you feel disconnected from your feminine energy isn't a lack of aesthetic routines, it's that you're trapped in chronic survival mode, hyper-independence, and constant rushing. In today's episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez breaks down how to actually step into your feminine energy without buying a single thing. We’re talking about unlearning the habit of rushing through your day, letting go of the need to control everything, and building quiet confidence through simple daily traits. This episode is for the besties who want to stop living in high-alert…

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Earlier episodes 29 most recent

2 Oct 2026 · 33 min

The 90-Day Lock-In You’ll ACTUALLY Complete: Stick to Your Goals Before the Year Ends

The REAL reason your year-end reset never sticks isn't a lack of discipline—it's that you're overwhelming yourself with unrealistic expectations and toxic productivity. In today's episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez breaks down a realistic 90-day lock-in plan you’ll actually complete, without burning out. We’re talking about ditching the all-or-nothing mindset, locking into three non-negotiable daily anchors, and building quiet, sustainable consistency before the new year arrives.This episode is for the besties who want to stop waiting for January 1st to get their life…
25 Sep 2026 · 42 min

Stop Ruining Your Day in the First 10 Minutes (Morning Habits to Break Dopamine Addiction & Burnout)

The REAL reason your morning routine never sticks isn't a lack of discipline—it's that you're starting your day in a state of high dopamine overload and overstimulation. In today's episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez breaks down how to build a realistic low dopamine morning routine that actually lasts, without burning out. We’re talking about breaking your phone and screen addiction first thing in the morning, calming your nervous system, and replacing chaotic morning habits with grounding rituals that set you up for calm and focus. This episode is for the besties who want…
18 Sep 2026 · 33 min

How to Stop Living for Everyone Else and Build REAL Self Confidence

The REAL reason you haven't achieved self confidence isn't because you are unworthy, it's because you're too focused and gaining approval from other people... and you will never be fully fulfilled that way. In today's episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez reveals the TRUE secret behind confidence that actually lasts- not the kind that is dependent on external validation. This episode is for the besties who want to fall in love with their life, learn to love themselves, and detach from outside opinions that we once let define us. 🤍 Tune in to unlock the highest version of…
11 Sep 2026 · 45 min

50 + Things to do This Fall Instead of Rotting in Bed & Doom Scrolling

If you're listening to this it can only mean one thing... fall is among us!! And your digital bestie refuses to let another season go by where we sit back on our phones letting all of life pass us by. In today's episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez shares over 50 bucket-list worthy ideas to romanticize this fall to get you less attached from your phone and more in love with the world around you. From slow living solo dates to exciting new hobbies and hosting the ultimate fall sleepover, there truly is something in this episode for everyone. 🤍 Tune in and take notes to have…
4 Sep 2026 · 45 min

The September Reset: How to *Actually* Lock In & Master Your Routine

It's the final countdown to lock in before the year ends, but something hasn't been working. It's time to breakdown the goals we haven't been able to achieve and learn how to finally start building & KEEPING habits that are aligned with the person you want to become. In this episode of Hot & Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez reveals how to actually reset your routine and stay consistent even when you don't feel like it. We’re getting into low-dopamine mornings, intentional night routines, building habits that stick, and what to do when you inevitably fall off. If you’re ready to stop…
28 Aug 2026 · 42 min

Why Your Environment Matters: How to *Actually* Create Your Own Happy Place

Your environment is affecting you more than you realize... In today’s episode of Hot & Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez breaks down what it means to create your own “happy place— not by completely changing your life or having the perfect Pinterest-worthy home, but by intentionally shaping the spaces you already live in. From the psychology of our surroundings and how environmental cues can influence our habits and attention, tune in for practical ways to make your environment work for YOU— whether you live on your own, with roommates, in a dorm, or in your childhood bedroom you hold the…
21 Aug 2026 · 31 min

You're TOO Comfortable. How to Challenge Yourself to Build Confidence + Self-Trust

Ask yourself this: when was the last time you did something you were bad at or scared of and stuck to it on purpose? And how different would your life be right now if you were able to get past of that fear? In today's episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez reframes facing a challenge challenge as an opportunity for growth and strengthened confidence. You owe it to yourself to release your fear of judgement or embarrassment, and live your life freely, learning from all the mistakes and struggles we make along the way. The question is... are you up for the challenge? Tune in to…
14 Aug 2026 · 51 min

The Lost Art of Slowing Down

The harsh truth some of us aren't quite ready to hear: a busy life is not a better one. Our brains are hardwired to seek instant gratification, living rushed lives with our schedules packed to the brim & always seeking the next task to validate us. But what if one day, you finally achieve that thing you've been working so hard for but were too busy rushing through life to stop and really appreciate it? In today's episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez unpacks the lost art of slowing down, and how to combat society's need for speed with the superpower of presence in the little…
7 Aug 2026 · 39 min

How to Become That Girl This School Year | Ultimate Back to School Guide 2026

New school year, new start. In today's episode of Hot & Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez reveals how to actually become THAT girl this school year. From confidence, productivity, and organization to friendships, routines, style, and stepping outside your comfort zone, this is your complete guide to having your best year yet. We'll cover everything from avoiding procrastination and creating better habits to finding your personal style, putting yourself out there, building confidence, balancing your responsibilities, and learning how to become the very best version of yourself. This isn't…
31 Jul 2026 · 53 min

23 Things I Wish I Knew Sooner (Life Lessons Nobody Teaches You)

If only someone had told us these things sooner... It's already that time of year again. In today's birthday episode of Hot & Unbothered, spend another B(ri)-day with your host, Brianna Gomez, as we sit down for an intentional best-friend chat while the sun sets on my final day of being twenty-three. From codependency and people-pleasing to grief, faith, healing, relationships, confidence, slowing down, and learning how to become comfortable in your own skin, I'm sharing the twenty-three lessons that changed me most this year and the hard truths I wish I'd learned sooner. So grab a blanket,…
24 Jul 2026 · 32 min

The Ultimate Life Rebrand Guide (Before Summer Ends)

The end of summer is one of the most underrated opportunities to change your life. Whether you're heading back to school, starting a new job, or simply feeling ready for a fresh chapter, this is your reminder that you don't have to wait until January to become the person you want to be. In today's episode of Hot & Unbothered, I'm sharing my complete life rebrand guide—from redefining your identity and raising your standards to auditing your habits, environment, relationships, and routines. This isn't about becoming someone completely different; it's about becoming more aligned with the…
17 Jul 2026 · 40 min

How to Make Everyday Life Feel More Beautiful (Before You Miss It)

Head to ⁠⁠⁠lemmelive.com/briannagomez⁠⁠⁠ to try the gummies that support each of your wellness goals! LET'S TWIN WITH OUR PEARL NECKLACES!!! ⁠Shop Bri's faith necklace HERE & apply code BRI10 for $$ off.⁠ We spend so much of our lives waiting. Waiting for the weekend, the vacation, the relationship, the promotion, or the day everything finally feels "perfect." But what if the most meaningful parts of life aren't found in the big milestones at all? In today’s episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez shares the small, intentional habits and mindset shifts that can make everyday…
10 Jul 2026 · 38 min

How to Feel Comfortable in Your Own Skin (Body Image & Comparison)

Head to ⁠⁠lemmelive.com/briannagomez⁠⁠ to try the gummies that support each of your wellness goals! LET'S TWIN WITH OUR PEARL NECKLACES!!! Shop Bri's faith necklace HERE & apply code BRI10 for $$ off. In a world where we're constantly comparing ourselves to edited photos, social media, and impossible beauty standards, it's easy to feel like we're always falling short. But what if confidence isn't about changing your body—what if it's about changing the way you see yourself? In today’s episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez opens up about body image, comparison, and learning…
3 Jul 2026 · 38 min

How to Trust God When Life Isn't Going According to Plan

Life doesn't always unfold the way we planned. Sometimes the prayers we desperately wanted answered go unanswered, doors close, dreams are delayed, and we're left wondering what God is doing in the middle of it all. The hardest part of faith often isn't believing that God exists—it's trusting Him when His plan looks different than the one we imagined. In today’s episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez shares what she's learned about trusting God through seasons of uncertainty, waiting, disappointment, and unanswered questions. Together, we'll talk about surrender, God's…
26 Jun 2026 · 41 min

Master Your Mind, Change Your Life: 5 Mindset Shifts I Wish I Learned Sooner

Head to ⁠lemmelive.com/briannagomez⁠ to try the gummies that support each of your wellness goals! Your mind is one of the most powerful forces in your life. The way you think shapes the way you see yourself, your relationships, your future, and the choices you make every single day. The truth is, you don't have to believe every thought you think. Learning to discipline your mind, instead of being controlled by your emotions or limiting beliefs, can completely change the direction of your life. In today’s episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez shares five mindset shifts that…
19 Jun 2026 · 34 min

The Summer Upgrade: How to Become the Best Version of Yourself

Summer has a way of passing by faster than we think. One minute it's June, and the next you're wondering where the last few months went and why nothing really changed. But becoming the best version of yourself doesn't require a completely different personality, appearance, or life. More often, real growth comes from understanding yourself better and learning how to maximize the strengths, gifts, and potential you already have. In today’s episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez shares how to use this summer as an opportunity to become more confident, healthy, fulfilled,…
12 Jun 2026 · 37 min

How to Build a Life You Actually Enjoy Living

What if the life you're working so hard to build is one you're forgetting to actually enjoy? So many of us spend our days chasing the next goal, waiting for the next milestone, and telling ourselves we'll finally be happy when everything falls into place. But a beautiful life isn't something that begins once you have more money, more success, or everything figured out—it's something you create in the way you live each day. In today’s episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez shares how to build a life you genuinely enjoy living. From letting go of the pressure to constantly do…
5 Jun 2026 · 34 min

The Habits of Women Who Are Instantly Magnetic (start NOW)

Have you ever met someone who instantly lights up a room? Not because they're the loudest, the prettiest, or the most outgoing person there — but because there's just something about them that people naturally gravitate toward. The truth is, being magnetic isn't about perfection, popularity, or appearance. It's about the way you carry yourself, connect with others, and show up in the world. In today’s episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez breaks down the habits of women who are effortlessly magnetic. From confidence and authenticity to emotional regulation, presence,…
29 May 2026 · 46 min

You Don’t ALWAYS Have to Have It All Together: Stop Hiding From What Makes You Real

Lately, I’ve been thinking about how exhausting it can feel to constantly try to hold everything together all the time. So many of us feel pressure to always be productive, positive, motivated, emotionally stable, and “doing well” — even during seasons where we’re overwhelmed, burnt out, struggling, or simply not feeling like ourselves. But the truth is, being human means you are not always going to have everything perfectly together. And that does not make you weak, lazy, or behind in life. In today’s episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez opens up about burnout, emotional…
22 May 2026 · 35 min

The Fear of Being “Too Much” (Why You Should Stop Shrinking Yourself)

A lot of women spend their lives trying to become smaller versions of themselves. But what if you were never too much to begin with? You stop saying how you really feel, tone down your personality, apologize for your emotions, lower your standards, and convince yourself that being “less” will somehow make you easier to love. In today’s episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez talks about the fear of being “too much” and why so many women shrink themselves to feel more accepted. From people pleasing and over-apologizing to hiding your excitement, emotions, and ambition, this…
15 May 2026 · 28 min

How to Stop Self-Sabotaging When Life Starts Going Well

Sometimes the most frustrating part of personal growth is realizing that the very thing standing between you and the life you want… is YOU. Everything starts going well. You feel happier, more confident, and closer to your goals. But then you procrastinate, overthink, pull away, or stop showing up altogether. And before you know it, you’ve pushed away the things you worked so hard for. In today’s episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez breaks down why so many of us self-sabotage when life starts getting better. From fear of success and low self-worth to nervous system patterns…
8 May 2026 · 42 min

50 Things to Do This Summer Instead of Rotting in Bed & Doom Scrolling

Summer always sounds exciting in theory… until suddenly you realize you’ve spent half of it in bed, doom scrolling, waiting for plans, or doing the exact same thing every day. The truth is, having a memorable summer usually has nothing to do with having the “perfect” life. It comes from trying new things, romanticizing simple moments, being more spontaneous, and actually participating in your own life instead of constantly consuming everyone else’s online. In today’s episode of **Hot and Unbothered**, your host **Brianna Gomez** shares 50 fun, creative, non-basic things to do this summer…
1 May 2026 · 24 min

How to Save a Wasted Day (and Turn It Around Fast)

Everyone has those days where nothing goes how you planned. You wake up late, you feel off, you scroll too long, and before you know it, it feels like the entire day is already wasted. And instead of fixing it, most of us spiral. We get frustrated with ourselves, overthink everything we “should have done,” and end up wasting even more time because it feels like it’s already too late. But the truth is, a wasted day doesn’t actually have to stay wasted. In today’s episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez breaks down how to shift your mindset, reset your energy, and turn your day…
24 Apr 2026 · 44 min

What Actually Makes You “That Girl” (it’s not what you think)

You've got it all wrong... In this episode, we’re redefining what it actually means to be “that girl.” It’s not aesthetics, routines, or performance — it’s identity and the quiet habits that shape who you become when no one is watching. In today's episode we break down the real behaviors behind confidence, self-worth, and grounded energy: the way you speak to yourself, how you treat others, and how you move through your life with intention instead of validation. Visit ⁠⁠CozyEarth.com⁠⁠ and use code: unbothered for up to 20% off! The tool you NEED to stick to your goals this year: the…
17 Apr 2026 · 38 min

STOP Wasting Your Summer (How to Make This Your Best One Yet)

Everyone wants a “good summer,” but most people blink and suddenly it’s September. The truth is, the best summers aren’t about doing the most— they’re about being present, embracing spontaneity, and romanticizing the life you’re already living. A lot of us wait for the perfect plans, perfect outfits, or perfect circumstances to enjoy the season. But the summers we remember most are usually the simple moments: spontaneous adventures, late sunsets, trying new hobbies, documenting memories, and letting ourselves live a little more freely. In today’s episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host…
10 Apr 2026 · 40 min

The Hot Girl Routine That Makes You Unrecognizable (No One Talks About This)

Everyone talks about workouts, skincare routines, and “that girl” habits when it comes to becoming more attractive. But the truth is, some of the most powerful glow-up shifts have nothing to do with trends— and almost no one is talking about them. Real attractiveness is influenced by things like your nervous system, posture, energy, hormones, and the subtle signals your body gives off in everyday life. These are the habits that quietly change how people perceive you and how you feel in your own skin. In today’s episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez breaks down the…
3 Apr 2026 · 33 min

If You Feel Like Your Life Is Falling Apart, Listen To This (What to do When You've Hit Rock Bottom)

Rock bottom doesn’t always look dramatic. Sometimes it’s quiet. It’s waking up one day and realizing you feel lost, exhausted, or like the life you imagined for yourself has completely fallen apart. It’s the moment where nothing feels certain anymore and you’re left wondering how you even got here in the first place. But here’s the truth most people don’t tell you: rock bottom isn’t just an ending — it’s often the beginning of the most powerful transformation of your life. When everything comfortable, familiar, or stable gets stripped away, you’re finally given the opportunity to rebuild…
27 Mar 2026 · 49 min

How to STOP Proving Yourself and Start Improving Yourself

In a world where comparison is constant, it’s easy to feel like you have something to prove. In today's episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez breaks down t the difference between proving yourself and improving yourself—and why so many of us unknowingly chase validation instead of building a life that actually fulfills us. We dive into the roots of comparison, fear of failure, perfectionism, imposter syndrome, and the feeling of not fully knowing who you are yet. This episode is a reminder to ask yourself an important question: are you doing things out of pressure, or out of…
20 Mar 2026 · 36 min

Let Them Miss Out on You: How to Stop Accepting Less than You Deserve & Settling for Bare Minimum

Here's the real question you need to ask yourself: how much longer will you stick around for people who don't deserve you? How much longer will you give them access to the love and loyalty they take for granted? The harsh truth is that sometimes the only way people will see your true value, is if you let them miss out on you. In today's episode of Hot and Unbothered, your host Brianna Gomez dives into something we all struggle with: finally breaking free from situations we KNOW aren't good for us, even when it's hard to leave. From dating to friendships, we all have that one relationship…

About Hot and Unbothered

Welcome to Hot and Unbothered, your go-to pod for becoming the highest, healthiest & happiest version of yourself. Embody a magnetic mindset that fosters personal growth as we dive into all things from self love and confidence, to faith and lifestyle tips. Hosted by Brianna Gomez, content creator/digital big sis who has amassed millions of views teaching women to achieve a high-vibrational energy and feel their best while doing it! New episodes every Friday.

Hot and Unbothered is a English learning podcast from Brianna Gomez. Melo plays each episode straight from the publisher's own feed — no ads added, no account needed — and remembers where you stopped, in this browser only.

Publisher: Brianna Gomez
Language: English
Category: Learning
New episodes: Weekly
Typical length: 39 min
Latest episode: 9 Oct 2026
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You’re not in your feminine energy, you’re in survival mode.

Earlier episodes 29 most recent

The 90-Day Lock-In You’ll ACTUALLY Complete: Stick to Your Goals Before the Year Ends

Stop Ruining Your Day in the First 10 Minutes (Morning Habits to Break Dopamine Addiction & Burnout)

How to Stop Living for Everyone Else and Build REAL Self Confidence

50 + Things to do This Fall Instead of Rotting in Bed & Doom Scrolling

The September Reset: How to Actually Lock In & Master Your Routine

Why Your Environment Matters: How to Actually Create Your Own Happy Place

You're TOO Comfortable. How to Challenge Yourself to Build Confidence + Self-Trust

The Lost Art of Slowing Down

How to Become That Girl This School Year | Ultimate Back to School Guide 2026

23 Things I Wish I Knew Sooner (Life Lessons Nobody Teaches You)

The Ultimate Life Rebrand Guide (Before Summer Ends)

How to Make Everyday Life Feel More Beautiful (Before You Miss It)

How to Feel Comfortable in Your Own Skin (Body Image & Comparison)

How to Trust God When Life Isn't Going According to Plan

Master Your Mind, Change Your Life: 5 Mindset Shifts I Wish I Learned Sooner

The Summer Upgrade: How to Become the Best Version of Yourself

How to Build a Life You Actually Enjoy Living

The Habits of Women Who Are Instantly Magnetic (start NOW)

You Don’t ALWAYS Have to Have It All Together: Stop Hiding From What Makes You Real

The Fear of Being “Too Much” (Why You Should Stop Shrinking Yourself)

How to Stop Self-Sabotaging When Life Starts Going Well

50 Things to Do This Summer Instead of Rotting in Bed & Doom Scrolling

How to Save a Wasted Day (and Turn It Around Fast)

What Actually Makes You “That Girl” (it’s not what you think)

STOP Wasting Your Summer (How to Make This Your Best One Yet)

The Hot Girl Routine That Makes You Unrecognizable (No One Talks About This)

If You Feel Like Your Life Is Falling Apart, Listen To This (What to do When You've Hit Rock Bottom)

How to STOP Proving Yourself and Start Improving Yourself

Let Them Miss Out on You: How to Stop Accepting Less than You Deserve & Settling for Bare Minimum

About Hot and Unbothered

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