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Season 1, Episode 134 · Not As We Planned

I Was Ghosted 5 Years Into Our Relationship | Not As We Planned Podcast

29 Apr 2026 · 40 min

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We go down memory lane with all our previous relationships, you share the BRUTAL ways you were dumped, changing the way we date with the 3 men dating approach and when your partner decides he no longer wants a baby… but you’re now pregnant Watch the podcast on YouTube Get a weekly BONUS episode on Patreon : Join Our Community Instagram TikTok Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Not As We Planned

Tash Gershfield & Carly Harris · Kids & Family · English

New episodes every Thursday, with exclusive bonus episodes every Monday on Patreon. Welcome to Not As We Planned, the honest podcast about relationships, dating, marriage, divorce and motherhood, and all the things no one really talks about. From becoming a mum and navigating divorce, to rebuildin

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