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   24 Feb 2026 · 24 min

   8 harsh truths you need to hear to achieve REAL growth

   Sign up today for your $1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today at http://shopify.com/AU 💐 LAST CHANCE TO ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters! AMZ if you’ve been feeling stuck, here are 8 harsh truths i wish someone told me sooner. in today’s video, we’re breaking down mindset, limiting beliefs, and why the version of “reality” you’re living in is often shaped by old stories and identity patterns. i’m also sharing why discomfort, embarrassment, and imposter syndrome are actually signs you’re growing, and how choosing self-respect…

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   13 Feb 2026 · 30 min

   GIRL TALK: juicy dating dilemmas, relationship & self-love advice (VALENTINES EDITION)

   Sign up today for your $1 a month trial with Shopify and start selling today at http://shopify.com/AU 💐 LAST CHANCE TO ORDER MY LIMITED EDITION BOOK: “Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers” — with 2 new chapters! AMZ it’s that time again, girlies!!! 💌✨ girl talk: valentine’s edition!!! in today’s episode, we’re having a cozy one-on-one bestie chat where i’m answering your juiciest dating questions, relationship dilemmas, situationship scenarios, and more. plus, i’m sharing self-love tips, confidence mindset shifts, and actionable steps you can actually apply to your self-love journey all year…

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   6 Feb 2026 · 28 min

   how to date once you realize you don't need a man

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   24 Jan 2026 · 25 min

   REALITY CHECK: let 2026 be the year you become untouchable

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   24 Jan 2026 · 33 min

   10 “normal” habits that will secretly keep you stuck all 2026

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   26 Dec 2025 · 22 min

   the self-obsessed girl’s blueprint for january

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   9 Oct 2026 · 39 minNew

   life update Q&A | marriage, friendships, insecurities, success + what’s next

   PRE-ORDER MY PRODUCTIVITY JOURNAL it’s been almost a year since we’ve done a proper q&a, so this was definitely overdue 🥹 we’re having a much needed catch up on where i’m at in life right now, from how i really feel about marriage and my future to friendships, success and some of the things that have changed as i’ve grown. i’m also sharing what i’ve been working on behind the scenes and answering some of the questions you guys have been wanting to know 🤍 grab a beverage, a snack and let’s catch up! MAIN CHANNEL BOOK JOURNAL WEBSITE INSTAGRAM TIKTOK For brand and press enquiries:…

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   28 Sep 2026 · 24 min

   everything I wish I knew before 25

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   4 Sep 2026 · 20 min

   5 steps to Manifest Your Dream Partner in a Self-Obsessed Way

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    28 Aug 2026 · 17 min

    watch this before you go back to school for confidence [pep talk]

    going back to school or university can feel like the perfect opportunity to reinvent yourself, but real confidence starts with changing how you see yourself. in this video, i’m sharing 8 mindset shifts that will help you stop living through other people’s opinions and start making choices based on the person you actually want to become. we’ll talk about how to stop chasing validation, handle rejection without letting it define you, intentionally build a new identity through your actions, and so much more. you only get this chapter of your life once, so don’t let insecurity or fear decide how…

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