18 Aug 2026 · 5 min
The Dark Night of the Sober Soul: Sobriety, Identity and Starting Again
👉Start here: Get my free 7 Sober Secrets You Can’t Ignore guide and join my weekly emails: https://www.soberonadrunkplanet.com/start/ There’s a stage of sobriety that doesn’t get talked about enough. Life can be getting better after you stop drinking, while at the same time you start questioning who you are, where you belong and whether parts of your old life still fit. In this Friday Ramble, I explore what I call the dark night of the sober soul — the strange period when an old version of you is falling away but the new version hasn’t quite formed yet. I talk about the sober cull,…






