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Money is a mirror. Money reflects your relationship with responsibility, visibility, pressure, and how safe your body feels holding more. In this episode, Jamie breaks down why desiring more money requires understanding your relationship to “more.” If you’ve ever made more money and suddenly felt the urge to hide, overwork, spend impulsively, or rush to “fix” something, this conversation will help you understand why. You’ll learn how your nervous system and subconscious create a set point for what feels safe to receive and how behaviors like urgency, burnout, and income plateaus are signals…

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[SPEAKER_00]: Welcome to the Jamie See Show, a soft place to land for visionaries, the feelers, the heart led leaders, rewriting the rules of business. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm Jamie See author, educator, and eight figure founder whose work blends nervous system science subconscious rewiring and story driven strategy. [SPEAKER_00]: If you know that your work is meant to reach more people, if you crave a business that feels as good in your body as it looks on paper, you are in the right place.

[SPEAKER_00]: Here we go way beyond formulas and we go into the felt. [SPEAKER_00]: This is business. [SPEAKER_00]: Reimagined through softness, strategy, and soul. [SPEAKER_00]: Let's begin. [SPEAKER_00]: you are going to make a substantial amount more money once you realize that money doesn't actually mean money. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to go through the exact things that it represents so that you can start making money receiving money in a way that doesn't feel like shit.

[SPEAKER_00]: And I want to make sure that you stick around to the very end because there's an activity that I'm going to have you do that will change. [SPEAKER_00]: and you do not want to miss it. [SPEAKER_00]: I recently made a TikTok video that kind of went viral, and it was essentially you're going to start making a shit ton more money in your business once you realize that money isn't actually money. [SPEAKER_00]: It doesn't represent money at all.

[SPEAKER_00]: We've often been told that money is the outcome. [SPEAKER_00]: It's the thing that we desire. [SPEAKER_00]: It's this piece of paper or this bank account number. [SPEAKER_00]: And actuality, it's a feedback system. [SPEAKER_00]: And in this episode, I really want to dive through what that actually means because if you're like, no, Jamie, I want more money. [SPEAKER_00]: I want, I don't like, yes, I want you to have as much as you desire, but I also want you to recognize when your body is like, yes on board and when it's like, [SPEAKER_00]: No.

[SPEAKER_00]: The thing that I want you to remember from this whole episode is that money always is going to mirror your relationship to more, more responsibility, more visibility, more pressure, more eyeballs on you, more decisions, more choice, more freedom, and what is your relationship with those specific things? [SPEAKER_00]: Because money is just going to highlight and give you that feedback [SPEAKER_00]: How do you feel with more? [SPEAKER_00]: How do you feel with more responsibility or more visibility?

[SPEAKER_00]: And ideally, we'd love to get you to a place where you're like responsibility, got it, visibility, get the eyes on me, it's all good decisions, nailed it. [SPEAKER_00]: We got all of it. [SPEAKER_00]: neutral, clear, clean energy, and it allows for money just to feel like it can flow into this. [SPEAKER_00]: It can flow into this space where it just feels so much easier instead of fighting up against it. [SPEAKER_00]: I think money is often really misunderstood because [SPEAKER_00]: If I was to ask you like, hey, what is your desire for your business?

[SPEAKER_00]: What is your desire for monthly revenue or what is your desire for annual revenue? [SPEAKER_00]: You'd probably be like, uh, I want to make this and I want to make this. [SPEAKER_00]: And when the money comes in, I'm going to feel so good. [SPEAKER_00]: And it's going to be amazing and so exciting. [SPEAKER_00]: But then, [SPEAKER_00]: A lot of times when I see this almost every single time either in my community, whether it's in my coaching programs, there's a sense of restriction where the bodies actually responding to what you're desiring and a lot of times what ends up happening is you'll start to feel that that feedback system starting to activate a bit.

[SPEAKER_00]: And it could look like, oh, when money comes in, I actually, I kind of want to hide, or when money comes in, I feel like a little uncomfortable. [SPEAKER_00]: I see this in when people are launching more programs, or they have like their highest month ever. [SPEAKER_00]: They're like, I want to hide. [SPEAKER_00]: And it's honestly something that I don't think a lot of people are talking about. [SPEAKER_00]: that you can desire all of this money, you can desire all of these things, but once you understand that your body is always giving you feedback and always telling you your relationship to more or your relationship to visibility or most importantly responsibility that's a big one, then you understand that you can have this desire, but we really want to understand how your body is responding.

[SPEAKER_00]: to those specific things. [SPEAKER_00]: One of the most important things to remember and actually why this conversation matters so much is because most people will override their body and they'll override the feedback system. [SPEAKER_00]: They'll say that they want more of the revenue or more clients or more opportunity and if their system isn't calibrated to seeing that more as safety versus a [SPEAKER_00]: freedom instead of contraction or more obligation, then a lot of times what's going to end up happening is instead of clearing out the energy and neutralizing the energy, they'll work harder or their nervous system will shut down.

[SPEAKER_00]: And I often see this with not just [SPEAKER_00]: you know, starting to second guess myself or more doubt arises or now I'm feeling like I want to hide or I don't want to do the things or I'm spending more money now. [SPEAKER_00]: They often will override by working even harder to find the the soothing in their body and what ends up happening is this turns into the combination of fight and flight nervous system response, which is this hyper hustle and they'll keep doing more launching more, operating more, posting more, [SPEAKER_00]: doing more and more to find this soothing sensation in the body, which essentially is just going to create more friction and more stress response in the body.

[SPEAKER_00]: So when we are operating on adrenaline, when we are operating in a stress response, every single cell in your body is now operating in survival mode. [SPEAKER_00]: And what ends up happening is you don't think is clearly, you don't have a sensation [SPEAKER_00]: in a space of creating more frustration or tension or things just feel harder. [SPEAKER_00]: And when you actually neutralize this energy and when you actually understand what area of more [SPEAKER_00]: is actually creating the most amount of friction in my body, you'll find yourself actually being more responsive, taking in information, not being reactive, you'll find that your body responds really well to taking action and being at ease when the money comes in.

[SPEAKER_00]: I actually, I made a video about this, and I was kind of joking around. [SPEAKER_00]: I had said, when everything starts to go really well, and your nervous system starts to freak out, and every single person on that was like, oh my god, this is the most relatable thing, because I thought I was the only one. [SPEAKER_00]: And this is just, again, affirming, if you're new to this show, I'm always going to be telling you that there's nothing wrong with you, and that you're just having the most normal human experience.

[SPEAKER_00]: And if you're not new to the show, there's your [SPEAKER_00]: that you're just a normal human being, have a normal human being response to the desires that you have and also making sure that your body, your mind and your spirit are incoherence with that desire. [SPEAKER_00]: I see this again in high achievers where when they're overwriting what their internal system is actually feeling good with, they either will go in the direction of when the money comes in.

[SPEAKER_00]: Their body doesn't necessarily shut down, [SPEAKER_00]: or hide or restrict, it kind of goes into this, well, I'll just keep doing more, but there's still this kind of underlying feeling of like, why don't I feel good like why like the money's here like why do I still feel the exact same way when I didn't have it and there starts to be this like, oh, well, I guess I'll just keep pushing the goal. [SPEAKER_00]: So for example, I see this a lot with [SPEAKER_00]: Instagram followers, TikTok followers.

[SPEAKER_00]: And once I hit 10k, then I'm going to feel so amazing. [SPEAKER_00]: And once I hit this revenue goal, I'll feel so amazing then they get there. [SPEAKER_00]: And then they're like, [SPEAKER_00]: I don't feel like this soothing at all, so they just keep pushing and pushing and doing and doing, until nothing ever feels good. [SPEAKER_00]: And they start to question themselves, like, is there something wrong with me? [SPEAKER_00]: I know that a lot of my clients have felt this kind of underlying feeling of, like, am I just like, impossible to satisfy?

[SPEAKER_00]: Like am I greedy or is there something wrong with me? [SPEAKER_00]: And it's [SPEAKER_00]: Mainly because when we don't calibrate to your body's response to more responsibility or to more visibility or to more pressure or to more choice [SPEAKER_00]: What ends up happening is the body is constantly trying to find a sense of coherence and homeostasis and balance. [SPEAKER_00]: And when we have set a goal that's outside of us to equal that, I'll feel successful when this comes in.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'll feel good when this comes in. [SPEAKER_00]: Then we are setting ourselves up to waiting for something else to sue that. [SPEAKER_00]: and really we want to flip it on its head and it needs to come from in here that I feel settled and safe with more because I am enough. [SPEAKER_00]: I feel settled and safe with more because [SPEAKER_00]: I can handle whatever comes my way. [SPEAKER_00]: There is a sense of resiliency and enoughness.

[SPEAKER_00]: And anything that I achieve is just the cherry on top. [SPEAKER_00]: And instead of waiting for the thing to come in to feel good, we create the good within ourselves. [SPEAKER_00]: And we create the good and homeostasis and coherence within our bodies so that when we are achieving, it just feels effortless. [SPEAKER_00]: And when it's there, it's not like we've been waiting [SPEAKER_00]: As we dive in more on this topic, it is very, very important to recognize that we all have a natural set point in our bodies for what we feel comfortable receiving what we feel comfortable holding in terms of visibility, responsibility, more decisions, more things kind of essentially weighing on us.

[SPEAKER_00]: I actually did make a video on this. [SPEAKER_00]: It's all about the wealth container you can find it here and dive in more a little bit later after this video. [SPEAKER_00]: But essentially, what we want to talk about is the nervous system and the subconscious mind as the set point. [SPEAKER_00]: And every single person has one. [SPEAKER_00]: So whether you have a strategy that feels great, whether you have set the data points, whether you have done all of this strategic aspect to get you to where you want to go, no matter what, if that still goes against what your natural set point is, you will experience a few specific things [SPEAKER_00]: it's going to show up in anxiety, it's going to show up in hyper-controlled.

[SPEAKER_00]: It's going to show up in urgency, which is that feeling of I have to do it now, I have to fix it now, I have to do it now. [SPEAKER_00]: Like if there's a sense of like you'll normally feel it like in the chest area and the stomach area of that urgency, that's very important because that's when you are going past [SPEAKER_00]: And another way that this can show up is making maybe rash decisions or decisions under pressure or things that you would feel like if you were a little bit more grounded wouldn't be the decision you would make.

[SPEAKER_00]: For example, this could look like. [SPEAKER_00]: revenue dips and all of a sudden you're like, I have to launch something now. [SPEAKER_00]: I have to run a flash sale now. [SPEAKER_00]: I have to do something now because there is a level of urgency that's happening in the body. [SPEAKER_00]: And the last way this can possibly show up is overworking. [SPEAKER_00]: So working longer hours, we're working extensively more than you would normally do.

[SPEAKER_00]: That is the feedback system that your body is giving you that you have kind of gone past the set point in your body of what it feels comfortable with [SPEAKER_00]: as a whole. [SPEAKER_00]: It's really common at this point and almost really a natural human experience to think, oh, this is probably a strategy issue. [SPEAKER_00]: This is probably something that I have to fix because if it's not working the way that I want it to, right?

[SPEAKER_00]: Then I'm going to work on a different strategy. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to work on more analytics. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to work on more data. [SPEAKER_00]: And you just want to audit the energy behind that because a lot of times what ends up happening [SPEAKER_00]: What your body is doing is looking for safety. [SPEAKER_00]: It's looking for homeostasis. [SPEAKER_00]: It's working for coherent. [SPEAKER_00]: It's always doing that.

[SPEAKER_00]: Now, what does strategy give us? [SPEAKER_00]: When someone says, hey, just do this, this, this, in this and you're like, oh, I have a plan. [SPEAKER_00]: And that plan a lot of times feels like safety. [SPEAKER_00]: And it's not the actual safety that your body [SPEAKER_00]: needs and requires for you to get to where you want to go. [SPEAKER_00]: In just a few minutes, what I'm going to do is I'm going to ask you a few questions to begin the auditing process of how you feel with more responsibility or your relationship with more in certain areas.

[SPEAKER_00]: But first, what I want to talk about which is almost just as important as the auditing process is when people say that they want a different goal or they want more, there is two pieces that I want to dive in on that, I want you to have everything that you want. [SPEAKER_00]: you are an infinite being with so much potential and you get to have everything you want, whether that be the home, the success, the travel, the freedom, all of the things you essentially have a birthright of joy and abundance and you get to have that.

[SPEAKER_00]: And what it requires for you to be able to hold it [SPEAKER_00]: to be able to have the capacity for it is to be able to not just do the thing to make the money, right? [SPEAKER_00]: But it's to be able to allow for this kind of effortless channel of you doing the things to get the money and then also when it comes back in to be able to have a clear holding channel for it. [SPEAKER_00]: Think about it kind of like if I was to give you a glass of water and I'm like just fill this [SPEAKER_00]: The cup can only hold so much water, right?

[SPEAKER_00]: It's just going to overflow, and so what we want to do is we want to give you a bigger cup, right? [SPEAKER_00]: We want to give you more of a craft or a tub, right? [SPEAKER_00]: So whatever we can, just to fill more in. [SPEAKER_00]: So the next time we're saying, hey, I have this goal. [SPEAKER_00]: I have this dream. [SPEAKER_00]: I have this desire. [SPEAKER_00]: I want you to think about the cup. [SPEAKER_00]: I want you to think about am I giving an already full cup and not able to fully receive this?

[SPEAKER_00]: The energy around more responsibility, we kind of neutralize the energy around visibility, we're able to then understand, ah, my cup is expanding, my cup is expanding, and the abundance can come in without the body feeling like it has to push it away or overflow out of the smaller cup. [SPEAKER_00]: Now, for your body to actually do it, most people will say, when the money comes in, I'm going to feel so much ease. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to feel so relaxed.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to feel successful. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to feel like I have everything. [SPEAKER_00]: Oh my gosh, nothing can fuck with me. [SPEAKER_00]: Like I'm good, right? [SPEAKER_00]: I got everything I need. [SPEAKER_00]: We're good to go. [SPEAKER_00]: But actually, for the body to have capacity for what you're calling in, [SPEAKER_00]: and being able to receive and to actually get the things that you really want. [SPEAKER_00]: You must understand that the ease that you want is coming from inside the house, not outside the house.

[SPEAKER_00]: It requires emotional regulation. [SPEAKER_00]: It requires an okayness and a safety around those goals. [SPEAKER_00]: It comes with being so deeply aware of how your body functions, because so many people are running their business from the neck up. [SPEAKER_00]: They are not aware that this is a full body experience that your body is always giving you information of [SPEAKER_00]: where there's restriction and where there's blockages and so many people are trying to work outside of themselves to get the thing versus, hey, let me check in.

[SPEAKER_00]: Let me make sure that what I'm actually calling in and desiring is in coherence with that. [SPEAKER_00]: And it requires an absolutely 100% okayness with, I might feel frustration. [SPEAKER_00]: I might feel sadness and that's okay. [SPEAKER_00]: I might be afraid of something and that's okay. [SPEAKER_00]: And being able to have deep compassion for yourself as you're navigating, desiring more. [SPEAKER_00]: Because I say this to my client, Selva time.

[SPEAKER_00]: The bigger your goals are, the bigger the mirror you will have to stand in front of, which means, [SPEAKER_00]: have a very deeply compassionate. [SPEAKER_00]: response to getting inquisitive about your own experience, where am I holding myself back? [SPEAKER_00]: Where am I not trusting? [SPEAKER_00]: Where am I not trusting my power? [SPEAKER_00]: Where am I not trusting my timeline? [SPEAKER_00]: Where am I not trusting that it's possible for me?

[SPEAKER_00]: Where am I overriding the system to gain what I could just gain from having that self-trust with myself? [SPEAKER_00]: We're going to begin to dive [SPEAKER_00]: get a piece of paper, get something, get a writing utensil, a crayon, a marker, a pen pencil, and be fully present with this. [SPEAKER_00]: My biggest piece of advice that I always give my clients is like wherever you are, just be 100% there. [SPEAKER_00]: So be with yourself here.

[SPEAKER_00]: Notice how your body is responding. [SPEAKER_00]: So while I ask the questions, I want you to be very, very entuned with not just writing down the questions, but listening to the body. [SPEAKER_00]: Listening to what the throat does, to what the heart does to the breath. [SPEAKER_00]: If you start feeling the body do this or if you start feeling the body expand, think about the process if you start having cycling thoughts or immediate thoughts that come up just be aware and be like, oh, how interesting.

[SPEAKER_00]: Okay, I see you. [SPEAKER_00]: So interesting. [SPEAKER_00]: A lot of times people will be like, oh, what's wrong with me? [SPEAKER_00]: What's wrong with me? [SPEAKER_00]: Nothing. [SPEAKER_00]: lens of curiosity is going to soften and allow for expansion to happen. [SPEAKER_00]: So let's dive into the questions. [SPEAKER_00]: Question number one, how does my body respond to more? [SPEAKER_00]: I want you to think about this question.

[SPEAKER_00]: When you think about more, is there an essence of, [SPEAKER_00]: more weight, more possibility, more joy, or does it go to more work, more sacrifice, more doubt, letting people down. [SPEAKER_00]: The second question is, what feels threatening about receiving more money? [SPEAKER_00]: And I want you to just think about what's the first thing that pops up? [SPEAKER_00]: Or what's the first feeling? [SPEAKER_00]: It might not even show up as a thought process, an actual thing that you can write down, but more so as a feeling or a sensation in the body, and that is enough to write down.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'm like feeling this in my body. [SPEAKER_00]: That's perfect. [SPEAKER_00]: The third question. [SPEAKER_00]: Where do I rush when things start to go well? [SPEAKER_00]: is this rushing to spend, is this feeling like all of a sudden you have to go to target, all of a sudden you have to go shop on TikTok shop, all of a sudden you need to go buy something, is there a rushing of wanting to back away and retract and hide is there a rushing of feeling like you need to [SPEAKER_00]: replicated and do it again.

[SPEAKER_00]: This often happens around the first in the month, especially for high-level achievers who are making a lot of revenue, maybe their highest cash month ever, where the money starts to come in and all of a sudden it's this feeling of how am I going to replicate that? [SPEAKER_00]: How am I going to do that again? [SPEAKER_00]: How am I going to recreate it and it's this pressureed urgency and this energy of having to figure it out of how you're going to replicate it?

[SPEAKER_00]: The fourth question, what do I believe more money will cost me? [SPEAKER_00]: This could be a sense of belonging. [SPEAKER_00]: This could feel like a sense of safety. [SPEAKER_00]: This could be a sense of relationships or people seeing you different. [SPEAKER_00]: This could feel like having more pressure where you will maybe sacrifice time with your family or with your friends or [SPEAKER_00]: with your loved ones or with your children that you won't be able to do the things that you normally do and that you value.

[SPEAKER_00]: The fifth question is, what do I feel I will have to do more of once I receive more money? [SPEAKER_00]: This could show up really interestingly because this could feel like, oh, now that I'm making more money, I'll have to make more decisions. [SPEAKER_00]: I'll have more people to be responsible for. [SPEAKER_00]: It'll feel like, oh, now I have to know everything or be the solution to everything or now I have to feel like I have to be an expert or I will have to potentially feel this pressure of letting people down.

[SPEAKER_00]: There's a very interesting process that happens. [SPEAKER_00]: when you are pushing past your current identity of what you're currently making, because it's living in an ecosystem right now, the way you see the world, the way you see yourself, the way that you see experiences and possibility and your sense of belonging and loyalty. [SPEAKER_00]: And the second you start making more, or receiving more, you will find that it starts to kind of [SPEAKER_00]: wobble the way that you see things.

[SPEAKER_00]: It'll start to make you question different things. [SPEAKER_00]: Question yourself question what's okay, what's not okay. [SPEAKER_00]: And this is my reminder to you that you have full autonomy and choice over your experience. [SPEAKER_00]: You have full autonomy and choice over how you want to work your business, how you want to make decisions, and how you get to move and lead and [SPEAKER_00]: Decide in your business, no one is putting that pressure on you to do it a certain way.

[SPEAKER_00]: Nobody, you get to decide. [SPEAKER_00]: You are in full authorship of your business and full authorship of your experience. [SPEAKER_00]: Once you recognize that money is not just a mirror but it's a teacher for you because it's going to not just be the feedback system but it's going to clearly show you where you don't trust yourself yet or where you are rushing [SPEAKER_00]: where you don't quite feel safe holding certain levels yet and with neutrality and with deep self-compassion, the moment we see something with so much more clarity about ourselves and the way we move through our business, I'll tell you the second you have one perspective shift or one answer around why something feels challenging.

[SPEAKER_00]: And you have the tools to expand yourself there and to feel safer with more responsibility and more visibility and with more decision-making and it becomes just this natural process of how you operate. [SPEAKER_00]: One perspective feels like all of the safety that you've been searching for. [SPEAKER_00]: outside of yourself. [SPEAKER_00]: So just know that more is teaching you in some way. [SPEAKER_00]: And like I always say, [SPEAKER_00]: Running a business is one of the most brave things you could ever do, and it's also personal development on crack.

[SPEAKER_00]: It will show you every area of yourself that needs to be loved, to be seen, to be held, to be witnessed, and the second that you witness it, the second you love on it, the second you even see it, the body softens. [SPEAKER_00]: it's waiting for you to witness it and to see it and to love it and you don't have to immediately understand it but really just witnessing it itself will allow for the body to relax and so many people are unwilling to do this work because they're afraid of what they will see of the judgment [SPEAKER_00]: level of discomfort, but the more you do this through the lens of curiosity, knowing that there's nothing wrong with you, knowing that everything is neutral, there's nothing to fear by looking at yourself in the mirror, by exploring yourself more deeply.

[SPEAKER_00]: as long as you can hold yourself, the way you would, if a child was crying in front of you, the way you would, if your friend was asking for support, the way that you would love someone else and care for someone else is the practice that you can give yourself when you are exploring inside. [SPEAKER_00]: There's nothing to fear. [SPEAKER_00]: There's nothing about you that you need to not look at. [SPEAKER_00]: All of it is wonderful, all of it is valid.

[SPEAKER_00]: All of it serves a purpose and all of it is really, really important. [SPEAKER_00]: you are important, your desires are important. [SPEAKER_00]: And this is the work that will not just change your life, but it'll change your relationships. [SPEAKER_00]: It'll change how you see yourself. [SPEAKER_00]: It'll change how you see the world. [SPEAKER_00]: It'll change how you see your clients. [SPEAKER_00]: It'll change how you hold space.

[SPEAKER_00]: How you move, how you wake up in feel in your own body. [SPEAKER_00]: And it's the work that you'll never regret doing. [SPEAKER_00]: Honestly, it is the best work I've ever done in my life, which is why I always encourage you to do it too. [SPEAKER_00]: The last thing I will say is that often people will avoid this, not just because of what I said, but because they think it'll slow them down. [SPEAKER_00]: They think that it's the thing that's going to take them longer.

[SPEAKER_00]: And my advice to that is it does the complete opposite. [SPEAKER_00]: it actually cleans the energy, it actually speeds up and removes the static between you and the thing you want because you are not separate from that. [SPEAKER_00]: If you think about this on an energetic level, and I've made a video about this on quantum leaping, so if you want to watch that, that is also amazing video to watch. [SPEAKER_00]: But you are not separate from any of your desires.

[SPEAKER_00]: If you have desired them at all, they are part of the plan. [SPEAKER_00]: They are part of your process. [SPEAKER_00]: Your future self is always guiding and directing you and communicating with you. [SPEAKER_00]: And if you have ever had that feeling of, I know I want more, but I feel like I might be in the way that is a call from your future self. [SPEAKER_00]: That is a call from [SPEAKER_00]: A version of you who has everything you want saying, hey, this is what we need to do to get us to come together.

[SPEAKER_00]: And the moment you begin to really enjoy the journey and enjoy the process of self discovery and understanding and you start to experience the removal of static and connecting with the versions of you who have everything that you desire and feel the way you want to feel in your life and your business. [SPEAKER_00]: like that's the whole point of life is just to enjoy the ride to like enjoy every version of yourself that you're discovering to enjoy every version of yourself on your business adventure and and where you are here is not who you're gonna be even next month or six months down the line just enjoy the journey enjoy the discovery enjoy learning more about yourself and enjoy [SPEAKER_00]: being present with all that you're achieving and not rushing to the race.

[SPEAKER_00]: There's not a destination over there where you're like, I'm good. [SPEAKER_00]: Now, everything is great. [SPEAKER_00]: I feel amazing. [SPEAKER_00]: It gets to happen now every step of the way where you get to feel good. [SPEAKER_00]: And you get to feel grounded. [SPEAKER_00]: And you get to feel incredibly supported, not only by yourself, but whatever you believe is guiding and supporting you. [SPEAKER_00]: Would it be your future self?

[SPEAKER_00]: God, divine universe, the quantum, [SPEAKER_00]: you're not doing this alone. [SPEAKER_00]: I want you to do a little activity with me. [SPEAKER_00]: I want you to imagine. [SPEAKER_00]: your future self right now, the one who has the money, the one who feels at ease in their body, the one who feels grounded, who feels safe, who feels sexy, who feels hot, who feels confident. [SPEAKER_00]: The one that has the thing that you desire, the life that you desire, the way that you feel.

[SPEAKER_00]: And I want you to think about what is one thing that they would be telling you to do more of or to do less of right now. [SPEAKER_00]: and I want you to comment that down below. [SPEAKER_00]: And I want to have more conversations. [SPEAKER_00]: I want to see what your future self is saying to right now about what is possible. [SPEAKER_00]: And I have no doubt. [SPEAKER_00]: The second you start to ask yourself that question, there is going to be an immediate response and that does not surprise me.

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    In this Dear Jamie episode, we’re diving into what’s really happening when you feel stuck, frozen, or caught in overthinking, especially when you have big dreams and no clarity on the next step. This episode is here to remind you that there’s nothing wrong with you. We talk about: Why safety in your nervous system matters more than strategy How urgency creates freeze mode Why doubt is often a younger version of you asking for reassurance The pressure of “getting it right” and how to release it How to take the first step without needing the entire plan If you’ve recently made a life shift,…

  3. 8 min

    E181: Dear Jamie: How Can I Feel Successful Before My Business Takes Off?

    If you’re building your business while still working a day job… this is for you. In the very first episode of Dear Jamie, Jamie answers a question from a listener who feels like success is still “so far away.” What do you do when you’re in the building phase… when you haven’t “made it” yet… and it feels like you’re stuck in the in-between? Jamie shares: How rushing your journey creates nervous system pressure Why gratitude for your current stability actually accelerates growth How to define what success feels like (not just what it looks like) Why being present in this season is powerful How…

  4. 11 min

    E179: Human Design Changed How I Do Business And Make Money

    In this episode of the Jamie Sea Show, Jamie breaks down Human Design and why understanding your energy type can completely change how you lead, market, rest, and make money. From Projectors and Generators to Manifestors, Manifesting Generators, and Reflectors, this conversation explains why burnout, frustration, and inconsistency are often signs of misalignment. This episode is for entrepreneurs who are tired of forcing strategies that don’t feel good and are ready to build success in a way that actually supports their nervous system. Inside this episode: - The 5 Human Design energy types…

  5. 13 min

    E178: Why You Procrastinate (It’s Not About Discipline, It’s Your Nervous System)

    Procrastination isn’t a motivation or discipline problem. Procrastination is your nervous system keeping you safe. In this episode of the Jamie Sea show, Jamie breaks down why procrastination shows up when pressure, visibility, or emotional risk feels high and why forcing productivity only makes it worse. Through real client examples and her own experience as a business owner, she explains how freeze mode works, what your body is protecting you from, and how to start creating movement without pushing yourself. If you’ve ever felt frustrated, stuck, or confused about why “simple tasks” feel…

  6. 11 min

    E177: The Millionaire Morning Routine That Rewires Your Subconscious

    Most “millionaire morning routines” are built on discipline, willpower, and doing more. But what if you could build yours around regulation, gratitude, and identity? In this episode of The Jamie Sea Show, Jamie shares the exact 3-minute morning practice she’s used for years to rewire her subconscious, regulate her nervous system, and expand her wealth container. You’ll learn why the first 60 seconds of your morning matter more than your entire to-do list, how gratitude and sensation shape your income capacity, and why sustainable wealth starts with how your body feels—not how hard you push.…

  7. 51 min

    E203: There’s Money Hiding in Your Business. Here’s How I Find It.

    In this episode, I’m taking you inside the way I diagnose a business before I ever start trying to fix it and why the problem you think you have is very often just the symptom. After auditing and working with thousands of entrepreneurs, I’ve learned that businesses aren’t breaking in thousands of completely unique ways. The same patterns show up again and again. Today, I’m showing you ONE of the biggest ones I see in already-successful entrepreneurs: underleverage. In this episode, I cover: Why “sales are inconsistent,” “I need more visibility,” and “my audience isn’t converting” are…

  8. E202 · 24 min

    E:202 How I Find the Money You’re Already Sitting On

    In this episode, I’m taking you inside my brain and reverse engineering a few businesses I recently audited to show you how I find the highest-leverage move hiding inside what someone has already built. In this episode, I cover: The woman with 204,000 followers who absolutely does NOT need more visibility The founder who changed an $87K offer to solve a capacity problem she didn’t even have yet Why adding MORE is often the opposite of what I would do How I look for untapped leverage in your attention, demand, assets and effort The difference between creating something new and maximizing what…

  9. 16 min

    E 201: How to Turn “I Love Your Content” Into “How Do I Work With You?”

    You’re posting, people are watching,they’re liking, consuming, maybe even telling you how helpful your content is… So why the hell aren’t more of them buying? In this episode of The Jamie Sea Show , I’m breaking down one of the biggest patterns I’m seeing with established business owners right now: they assume they need better hooks, more followers, more content, or another strategy when the actual problem is often somewhere completely different. Because there’s a massive difference between being visible and being chosen. I’m sharing real examples from inside my client work where someone…

  10. 45 min

    E 200: How to Become Unshakeable With Money No Matter What Business Is Doing

    In this episode.... episode 200! (ah!) I'm breaking down two of the biggest patterns I'm seeing underneath the decisions entrepreneurs make every single day, and neither of them is really about strategy. The first is our obsession with certainty. We want to know the offer will sell before we launch it. We want to know the pivot is right before we commit to it. We want to know the content will work, the hire will pay off, the investment will make sense, and the decision we're about to make won't come back to bite us six months from now. We call it "wanting to make the right decision," but so…

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