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by Kate & Liam · English · Society & Culture
Kate & Liam -- happily married bisexuals and chronic overthinkers -- discuss their personal experience with non-monogamy.
1 Sep 2026 · 53 min
In this episode, Liam tells the story of the greatest group sex experience in his long, long life! Fantasy Link: Fantasy Menu Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Other Gre...
S5 · E7 · 22 Jul 2026 · 1 hr 7 min
In this episode, Kate & Liam seek to rejuvenate their sex life by choosing new possibilities from a fantasy worksheet. Fantasy Link: Fantasy Menu Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: ...
S5 · E6 · 22 Jun 2026 · 51 min
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss the possibility that Kate has been living inauthentically for almost her whole life, with far reaching implications. Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedoni...
S5 · E5 · 28 May 2026 · 43 min
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss the intersecting topics of age and attraction in light of their 15 year age difference. Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Naughty Gym -- https...
S5 · E4 · 6 Feb 2026 · 59 min
In this episode, Kate interviews an anatomy professor on the subject of cunnilingus. Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad...
S5 · E3 · 20 Jan 2026 · 51 min
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss the hit show 'Heated Rivalry'. Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad Podcas...
S5 · E2 · 20 Nov 2025 · 1 hr
In this episode, Kate & Liam talk about their sexy summer trips to Greece, Portugal, France & Italy. Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.co...
S5 · E1 · 16 Oct 2025 · 53 min
In this episode, Kate & Liam address that timeless question: does size really matter? Spoiler alert -- it totally does! Support the show
S4 · E9 · 24 Jul 2025 · 1 hr 5 min
In this episode, Kate discusses with therapist & coach Catherine of Expansive Connection how to better understand our sexual preferences. www.ExpansiveConnection.com Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Oct 2025 Women's Retreat: https://sapiotours.com/womens-fall-retreat ...
S4 · E8 · 20 Jun 2025 · 59 min
Is it possible to be having the best sex of your life when you're having a whole lot less of it? Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Oct 2025 Women's Retreat: https://sapiotours.com/womens-fall-retreat Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswi...
E7 · 9 May 2025 · 1 hr 9 min
In this episode, Kate describes the sexy times that transpired at her women's retreat in April 2025. Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Oct 2025 Women's Retreat: https://sapiotours.com/womens-fall-retreat Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://...
S4 · E6 · 20 Mar 2025 · 1 hr 5 min
In this episode, Kate & Liam tell the crazy story of their recent content creation weekend in Florida. Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Oct 2025 Women's Retreat: https://sapiotours.com/womens-fall-retreat Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- h...
S4 · E5 · 14 Feb 2025 · 1 hr 9 min
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss where they fit in two different personality typing frameworks -- the Enneagram and the Erotic Blueprint. Find out more about both of these at https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ and https://www.https://missjaiya.com/ Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Women's Retreat: https://sapiotours.com/womens-retreat Other Great Lifestyle Travel Op...
2 Jan 2025 · 56 min
In this episode, Kate talks about her night at a Women's Only Party. Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Women's Retreat: https://sapiotours.com/womens-retreat Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/ Room 77 --...
5 Dec 2024 · 1 hr 6 min
In this episode, Kate & Liam finally get around to discussing their backyard get-together from the summer of 2024! To hear a separate discussion of the same event as seen through different eyes, check out Loq and Tryst's fascinating discussion on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/live/4k6bOHWeT5k?si=j6aiRMj8tLyhg8Tn Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Women's Retreat: https://sapio...
S4 · E2 · 13 Nov 2024 · 1 hr 1 min
In this episode, part of Kate's occasional series called "Bad Ass Women of the Lifestyle," she interviews Lauren Hayes, non-monogamous relationship coach and host of the podcast "The Examined Lives of Mormon Wives," and her friend Bri, a former LDS church member. Together, Lauren and Bri founded the women's support group "Sacred Sluts" to help women break free from shame and reconnect with their sexuality. Find them at SwingingLifestyleCoach.com, and under the same name on Instagram & Fa...
S4 · E1 · 16 Oct 2024 · 1 hr 23 min
In this episode, Kate and Liam discuss the highlights (and occasional lowlights) of their summer lifestyle travel adventures. Find all our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/ Room 77 -- https://room77life.com/events77-mexico-feb-2023/ Support the show
S3 · E9 · 25 Jul 2024 · 50 min
In this episode, Kate and Liam question what often seems like the ultimate swinger taboo. Find our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/ Room 77 -- https://room77life.com/events77-mexico-feb-2023/ Support the show
S3 · E8 · 30 Apr 2024 · 53 min
In this episode, Kate and Liam discuss the ups and downs of desiring -- and being desired -- in the Lifestyle. Find our Links: www.KateMonogamish.com Travel with Us: www.SapioTours.com Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/ Room 77 -- https://room77life.com/events77-mexico-feb-2023/ Support the show
S3 · E7 · 22 Mar 2024 · 1 hr 24 min
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss the impact of intoxicants on the lifestyle, and in their own lives. Travel with us: www.SapioTours.com Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Room 77 -- https://room77life.com/events77-mexico-feb-2023/ Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/ Naughty Gym -- https://www.naughtygym.com/be-better-at-being-bad Support the show
S3 · E6 · 20 Feb 2024 · 43 min
Kate talks to coach Cara Turnquist about the challenges people with bigger bodies face to feel fully embraced in the Lifestyle. Links Cara's Website https://www.thepushfitness.com/ Kate's Women's Retreat webpage https://sapiotours.com/womens-retreat All Kate's Links https://katemonogamish.com/my-links The Monogamish Marriage Blog https://themonogamishmarriage.com/ Support the show
S3 · E5 · 29 Jan 2024 · 1 hr 11 min
In this episode, Kate & Liam talk about their recent orgy experiences...and consider the real possibility that they've gone a little overboard. Show Links Email us: The [email protected] Support us: www.patreon.com/Kate_and_Liam Travel with us: www.SapioTours.com Other Great Lifestyle Travel Options Casual Swinger -- https://casualswinger.com/hedonism-ii-2/ Room 77 -- https://room77life.com/events77-mexico-feb-2023/ Podcast-a-Palooza -- https://libertineevents.com/ Na...
S3 · E4 · 19 Dec 2023 · 1 hr 6 min
Kate talks to non-monogamous relationship coach Catherine from Expansive Connection Coaching about inner parts work. She explains The Adult Chair approach to recognizing and having compassion for our inner child and adolescent, especially when faced with the triggers the lifestyle can bring. Want to dig deeper with Kate and Catherine? Consider joining us for our Women of the Lifestyle wellness retreat this April. Go to www.sapiotours.com for more information. Resources Mentioned Expansive Con...
S3 · E3 · 13 Nov 2023 · 1 hr 18 min
Three months into their online dating experiment, Kate and Liam wrap up their long separate dating saga (spoiler, it doesn't end the way you might think!). Kate dishes about her sexy -- and not so sexy -- dates with both men and women, including one that goes very wrong (trigger: SA). Liam reports back on the dates with women he met on two additional dating sites, and lets us know how all his hard-won freedom and confidence paid off at PCAP Miami last month. Events mentioned in...
S3 · E2 · 10 Oct 2023 · 1 hr 11 min
In response to Liam's continued interest in separate dating, Kate proposed that they both try to find people to go out with online. The plan was that they would post their profiles at the same time, and ideally go on dates with other people on the same evenings. Equality was the goal. It was a fine idea that brought about all kinds of unforeseen complications. Links: Sapio Tours Small Group European travel for non-monogamous couples hosted by Kate & Liam: https://sapiotours.com L...
S3 · E1 · 7 Sep 2023 · 56 min
Kate & Liam start this episode by describing their experiences at the various lifestyle vacations they took earlier this year, culminating in the launch of their very own travel brand. In the second half, they offer a full report on their first Sapio Tours trip, which was to Crete in June of 2023. Information on all future Sapio Tours trips can be found at https://SapioTours.com If you're interested in any of the other excellent trips mentioned, please see the following websites fo...
S2 · E8 · 28 Jul 2023 · 50 min
In this episode, Kate & Liam speak with Dedeker, Emily & Jase of the Multiamory Podcast. They share information about creating healthy boundaries and avoiding common relationship pitfalls. To find out more about them, go to their website,,, https://www.multiamory.com/ Support the show
S2 · E7 · 11 May 2023 · 1 hr
In this episode, Kate & Liam discuss their experiments with the idea of the 'Three Hour Sex Date' -- an idea they picked up from se & relationship coach Kim Anami. https://open.spotify.com/episode/5QRhLdb7aV7fIlHscBugXf?si=R1wqLreLQD2sbei-ffqpew Never have Kate & Liam shared so explicitly about their practices between the sheets as they do here! Support the show
S2 · E6 · 5 Apr 2023 · 1 hr 3 min
This episode discusses the discovery by Kate of secret messages that Liam had been sending to another woman. A blow-up ensues, which sends Kate into research mode, where she discovers the EPIC communication model from author Kate Loree. Focusing on the Emotional, Physical, Intellectual and Compassionate dimensions of conflict, they work through this issue and reach a deeper level of mutual understanding. OPEN DEEPLY Podcast (on Spotify) https://open.spotify.com/episode/4xGf...
S2 · E5 · 2 Mar 2023 · 59 min
In this episode, Kate & Liam explore a paradox: why do non-monogamous people go to such extreme lengths to keep their lifestyle a secret when it enriches their lives so much? Support the show
Kate & Liam -- happily married bisexuals and chronic overthinkers -- discuss their personal experience with non-monogamy.
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