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Do you tend to wear your heart on your sleeve? Do you often find yourself giving more than you get from men? Is your vulnerability something that is often rough-handled and treated with impatience? In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the urgency of women protecting ourselves emotionally from men, and why being guarded isn't the worst thing in the world. Join my patreon for access to more revealing episodes, a 65-page guide on whether to keep or leave that guy, as well as answering your dilemma questions! Get…
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The Slumflower Hour
Chidera Eggerue · Learning · English
As the manosphere rises and men continue to terrorise us, how will you decide what your own happy ending looks like? Join Chidera Eggerue aka The Slumflower on her debut, much-awaited podcast The Slumflower Hour - the domain for disobedient women who date men! Is he really 'busy' or is he bored of y
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