Season 2, Episode 10 · Conscious Parenting Your ADHD Child
Modeling Screen Control
18 May 2026 · 9 min
Episode notes
I think this is something so many of us feel stuck on. Screens, scrolling, and that constant battle of trying to get our kids to switch off when, if we’re honest, we struggle with it ourselves. In this episode, I break down what’s really going on beneath screen time struggles and share the single most powerful shift you can make as a parent. It’s not about stricter rules or more control. It’s about what we model every single day. What You’ll Discover - It’s Not Screens, It’s the Scroll : The real issue is passive, addictive content designed to keep us hooked, not all screen use itself. - Why…
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Conscious Parenting Your ADHD Child
Stacey Yates Sellar · Kids & Family · English
Conscious Parenting Your ADHD Child: The Coachcast is your lighthouse in the storm of parenting information, advice and overwhelm. Hosted by Stacey Yates Sellar, a conscious parenting coach, this coachcast delivers real-time, bite-sized coaching sessions with parents navigating the unique challenge
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