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Jillian on Love

by Jillian Turecki | Daylight Media · English · Society & Culture

Let’s build healthier and more fulfilling romantic relationships. Jillian is on a mission to teach people how to completely transform their love life, and where you start is by addressing the relationship you have with yourself.  Whether you’re looking to strengthen the relationship you’re in,

New episodes: Weekly
Typical length: 40 min
Latest: 12 Oct 2026
Language: English

Latest episode

12 Oct 2026 · 1 hr 10 min

Constant Texting Is Not a Sign They Like You ft. Sabrina Zohar

What happens when your fear of losing someone becomes stronger than your fear of losing yourself? Jillian sits down with Sabrina Zohar, host of The Sabrina Zohar Show and author of Why Am I Like This?, to talk about anxious attachment, situationships, dating anxiety, and the patterns that keep us chasing people who aren’t choosing us. They unpack Sabrina’s infamous 173-text story, the difference between anxiety and intuition, why texting can create false intimacy, and what it really takes to stop abandoning yourself in relationships and start choosing yourself. Buy Sabrina’s new book, Why Am…

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S3 · E61 · 5 Oct 2026 · 1 hr 15 min
Dr. Shefali: Heal the Childhood Patterns Affecting Your Relationships
Dr. Shefali is one of the world’s leading voices on conscious parenting—and this conversation goes far beyond parenting. Jillian sits down with the clinical psychologist and bestselling author to explore how childhood shapes our self-worth, adult relationships, and the way we love. They talk about repairing relationships with our parents, the challenges facing boys and girls today, and what it really takes to break unhealthy patterns for the next generation. Buy Dr. Shefali’s new books, Raising Conscious Daughters & Raising Conscious Sons -…
S3 · E60 · 28 Sep 2026 · 24 min
8 Things You Must Know Before Getting Married
Before you marry someone or build a life together, there are some conversations you simply cannot afford to avoid. Love and chemistry are important, but they aren't enough to sustain a healthy, lasting relationship. In this episode, Jillian shares eight essential things to know before making a serious commitment, from trust and accountability to money, shared values, and navigating life's inevitable changes. Whether you're dating, engaged, or already in a long-term relationship, these are the conversations that could change your future together. PRE ORDER MY NEW BOOK!!!…
S3 · E59 · 21 Sep 2026 · 48 min
Choose the Love That Feels Safe, Mutual, and Real
Love should never require you to abandon yourself. In this episode, Jillian explores the courage it takes to walk away from the wrong relationship, trust yourself again after heartbreak, and open your heart to the kind of love that feels safe, mutual, and real. Because choosing yourself doesn’t mean giving up on love—it means refusing to settle for anything less than a love that chooses you back. P.S. I created Reclaim Your Self-Worth: a robust 23-page workbook, and I want to give it to you as my thank-you when you pre-order my new book, Rewrite Your Story: Step Into Your Power and Get the…
S3 · E58 · 14 Sep 2026 · 30 min
If Your Partner Does This, RUN
What if the person you love is actually making you feel unsafe? Jillian answers listener questions about jealousy, controlling behavior, conflict, and betrayal—and shares how to recognize when insecurity becomes emotional abuse, stop sabotaging love during arguments, and finally let go of the anger keeping you tied to someone who hurt you. P.S. I created Reclaim Your Self-Worth: a robust 23-page workbook, and I want to give it to you as my thank-you when you pre-order my new book, Rewrite Your Story: Step Into Your Power and Get the Love You Deserve. https://www.jillianturecki.com/book Got a…
S3 · E57 · 7 Sep 2026 · 56 min
Functional Medicine Doctor: These Are the Warning Signs Your Body Is Overwhelmed
What if the stress in your relationships is affecting your body more than you realize? Jillian sits down with functional medicine expert Dr. Will Cole to explore the powerful connection between emotional health, physical health, and the nervous system. They talk about why chronic stress can show up as gut issues, inflammation, fatigue, brain fog, and dysregulation; how your relationships can make your body feel safer—or more threatened; and why obsessing over wellness can sometimes become its own source of stress. Will also shares practical ways to build resilience, reconnect with your body,…
S3 · E56 · 31 Aug 2026 · 31 min
Why They Pull Away After You Sleep Together
In this listener call-in episode, I’m answering two questions that come up all the time in dating and relationships: Why does someone pull away after you sleep together, and what do you do when your partner has legitimate reasons for not meeting your needs? We talk about why physical intimacy can create attachment before a real emotional connection has formed, the conversations you need to have before sex, and why waiting is less about an arbitrary timeline and more about protecting your heart. Then, I respond to a listener whose partner is overwhelmed by parenting, financial stress, and…
S3 · E55 · 24 Aug 2026 · 34 min
The Top 7 Traits of All Healthy Couples
What does it actually take to build a healthy, lasting relationship? In this episode, Jillian shares seven uncomfortable truths about love that most of us were never taught—from how childhood coping strategies show up in adult relationships to why communication, effort, emotional regulation, and taking responsibility for your own happiness matter so much. She explores why healthy relationships aren't 50/50, why your past never excuses mistreating your partner, and why learning to manage yourself when you're triggered may be one of the most important relationship skills you can develop. PRE…
S3 · E54 · 17 Aug 2026 · 22 min
Jillian’s Top 7 Dating Rules
Dating can make it easy to confuse chemistry with compatibility, mixed signals with potential, and the desire for a relationship with an actual connection. In this episode, Jillian shares seven uncomfortable truths about dating that can completely change the way you approach finding love. She explains why attraction alone isn't enough, why self-respect is your greatest dating advantage, and why you have to stop wasting energy trying to decode someone's inconsistency. PRE ORDER MY NEW BOOK!!! https://www.jillianturecki.com/book Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it…
S3 · E53 · 10 Aug 2026 · 41 min
The Moment You Need To Stop Pursuing Someone
Have you ever found yourself making excuses for someone's mixed signals? In this episode, Jillian answers three listener questions that all point to the same truth: healthy relationships don't leave you wondering where you stand. She explains why chasing someone who isn't investing in you only leads to confusion, why consistency matters more than chemistry, and how to communicate your needs without sacrificing your standards. PRE ORDER MY NEW BOOK!!! https://www.jillianturecki.com/book Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in an upcoming episode!…
S3 · E52 · 3 Aug 2026 · 34 min
Your Attachment Style Is Not Your Identity
Have you ever wondered if you'll always struggle with relationship anxiety? If you've convinced yourself that anxious attachment is simply who you are, this episode is for you. Jillian unpacks why your attachment style isn't your identity, how the stories you tell yourself can keep you stuck, and why feeling anxious in love doesn't mean you're broken. You'll learn how your past, your environment, and even what's happening outside your relationship can shape your experience—and what you can do to build lasting security from the inside out. PRE ORDER MY NEW BOOK!!!…
S3 · E51 · 27 Jul 2026 · 28 min
How To Feel Secure Without Constant Reassurance
If you constantly find yourself chasing emotionally unavailable people or bringing overwhelming anxiety into your relationships, this episode is for you. Jillian breaks down why we stay stuck in painful patterns, how fear disguises itself as chemistry, and why true security starts with learning to meet your own emotional needs. She also shares practical ways to self-soothe, communicate from a grounded place, and finally stop abandoning yourself in the pursuit of love. Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in an upcoming episode!…
S3 · E50 · 20 Jul 2026 · 38 min
The #1 Mistake You Can Make On A First Date
Why do some first dates never turn into second dates? And why do so many people shut down when relationships get hard? Jillian answers two listener questions that reveal what actually creates attraction, why chemistry is often misunderstood, and how to stop letting fear sabotage the relationships you want most. Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in an upcoming episode! https://www.jillianturecki.com/askjillian Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman…
S3 · E49 · 13 Jul 2026 · 48 min
People Can Only Meet You Where They Are
Why do we spend so much time trying to explain someone else's behavior? In this episode, Jillian shares the mindset shift that can instantly change the way you experience dating and relationships: people can only meet you where they are mentally and emotionally. She explores why rejection isn't always personal, why trying to rescue someone's potential only leads to heartbreak, and how accepting people as they are—not as you hope they'll become—is one of the greatest acts of self-respect. Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in an upcoming…
S3 · E48 · 6 Jul 2026 · 29 min
Can A Relationship Survive Bad Sex?
What do you do when you meet someone who seems perfect… but the sex is terrible? It's one of the hardest dating questions to admit out loud: Can a relationship survive without physical chemistry, or is attraction something you can't force? In this episode, I answer a listener's question about disappointing intimacy with an otherwise incredible partner, and why you never have to choose between emotional compatibility and physical connection. We also talk about what it means when someone suddenly changes their mind about marriage and children after years together, why those breakups rarely…
S3 · E47 · 29 Jun 2026 · 45 min
5 Habits That Quietly Destroy Every Relationship
Most relationships don't end because of one big mistake—they slowly fall apart through small habits we rarely notice. In this episode, Jillian reveals the behaviors that quietly destroy trust, the qualities that matter most in a partner, the biggest misconceptions about finding "the one," and the mindset shifts that create healthy, lasting love. Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in an upcoming episode! https://www.jillianturecki.com/askjillian Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook Join my community and…
S3 · E46 · 22 Jun 2026 · 40 min
Dating an Avoidant
You sent in the questions, and Jillian hand-picked three conversations that uncover what so many people struggle with in love. Is your jealousy really insecurity—or are your needs simply not being met? How do you stop blaming yourself after a breakup? And what happens when the person you love doesn't want the same future you do? Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in an upcoming episode! https://www.jillianturecki.com/askjillian Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook Join my community and membership, The…
S3 · E45 · 15 Jun 2026 · 32 min
Are We Doomed to Lose Attraction to Our Partner?
Ready to go deeper? Join the Conscious Woman membership for exclusive content, coaching, and community to help you get the love you want. Link in shownotes. https://jillianturecki.com/membership?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=shownotes&utm_campaign=conscious-woman Why do so many couples end up feeling like roommates instead of lovers? In this episode, Jillian explains why passion naturally changes in long-term relationships—and what you can do to bring it back. From stress and routine to losing your individuality, she shares the simple shifts that help keep attraction, desire, and connection…
S3 · E44 · 8 Jun 2026 · 40 min
The Sign It's Time To Let Them Go
We're trying something new. We asked you to send in your relationship questions—and you delivered. In these listener call-in episodes, Jillian personally listens to your submissions and hand-picks a few to answer on the show. In this episode, she tackles questions about attachment styles, trusting your intuition while dating, letting go of someone who won't fully choose you, and what it really means when someone says, "my feelings changed." These may not be your questions, but there's a good chance you'll see yourself in the answers. Ready to go deeper? Join the Conscious Woman membership…
S3 · E43 · 1 Jun 2026 · 39 min
Stop Abandoning Yourself for Unavailable People
Why do so many people ignore what they already know deep down in their relationships? In this episode, Jillian explores the difference between anxiety and intuition, the red flags people rationalize away, and the green flags that actually matter when building healthy love. She breaks down the questions you need to ask before ending a relationship, why feeling unwanted or emotionally unsafe changes your nervous system, and how chemistry alone can keep you trapped in painful cycles. Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in an upcoming episode!…
S3 · E42 · 25 May 2026 · 43 min
The 5 Red and Green Flags You Can’t Ignore
Everyone talks about red flags. But what about the green flags that actually matter? In this episode, Jillian breaks down the difference between anxiety, chemistry, emotional safety, and real compatibility—and why so many people stay stuck chasing people who are unsure about them. She shares the relationship patterns that keep people attached to emotionally unavailable partners, the signs you should never ignore, and the 5 green flags that healthy relationships are built on. Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in an upcoming episode!…
S3 · E41 · 18 May 2026 · 30 min
Why You Stay Attached To Someone Unavailable
Got a question for Jillian? Record your voice message here and it could be answered in an upcoming episode! https://www.jillianturecki.com/askjillian This episode is for anyone stuck in the painful in-between of a situationship, mixed signals, or feeling emotionally invested in someone who won’t fully choose them. Jillian breaks down why so many people settle for uncertainty, over-function to keep a connection alive, and mistake anxiety for chemistry. She explains how fear of rejection can lead people to abandon their own needs, silence themselves, and stay attached to the fantasy of who…
S3 · E40 · 11 May 2026 · 36 min
Why Dating Feels Emotionally Exhausting
If you've ever felt completely fine when you're single—confident, healed, grounded—and then watched all of that fall apart the moment you actually liked someone, this episode is for you. Relationship anxiety isn't just anxious attachment. It's the fear of not being good enough, the fear of being left, and the weight of expecting one person to meet every need your life is missing. Jillian breaks down the real symptoms (the obsessing, the catastrophizing, the midnight doubt spirals), why your nervous system is doing it on purpose, and the belief systems that are quietly running your love life…
S3 · E39 · 4 May 2026 · 34 min
5 Reasons You Feel “Chemistry” With the Wrong Person
Why do you keep falling for the wrong person—even when you know better? In this episode, Jillian breaks down the five real reasons we choose partners who can’t meet us, from unresolved childhood patterns to moving too fast when chemistry hits. She challenges the idea of “soulmates” and explains why love isn’t something you find—it’s something you consciously build. If you’ve ever questioned your patterns in dating, this episode will help you understand them—and finally change them. Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook Join my community and…
S3 · E38 · 27 Apr 2026 · 42 min
Should You Stay or Leave? The Truth About When NOT to Break Up
Thinking about leaving your relationship? Before you do, Jillian challenges the idea that walking away is always the strongest move. She breaks down when staying—and doing the deeper work—is actually the more courageous choice, and how to tell the difference between a relationship that’s truly wrong and one that’s asking you to grow. Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The…
S3 · E37 · 20 Apr 2026 · 40 min
You Can’t Make Someone Love You
You can’t convince someone to love you—and the more you try, the more you lose yourself. In this episode, Jillian breaks down the painful truth about chasing someone who won’t choose you, and why holding on hurts more than letting go. She shares how to recognize when a relationship has run its course, how to stop overgiving in situationships, and what it really means to choose yourself. If you’ve been stuck hoping someone will change their mind, this is the shift you need to finally move forward. Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook Join my community…
S3 · E36 · 13 Apr 2026 · 1 hr 8 min
From Avoidant to Secure: How to Overcome Your Fear of Conflict with Dean Graziosi
What if the reason your relationships aren’t working… has more to do with you than you think? In this conversation, I sit down with Dean Graziosi for a deeply honest look at the patterns we carry into love—often without realizing it. We talk about what it actually means to take 100% responsibility for your past, how childhood experiences quietly shape the way you show up in conflict, and why avoiding hard conversations will always cost you connection. Dean shares the moment that changed everything for him—the shift from asking “what do I want in a partner?” to “who do I need to become to…
S3 · E35 · 6 Apr 2026 · 56 min
How To Heal Your Inner Child with Dr. Nicole LePera
Jillian sits down with Dr. Nicole LePera to talk about her new book Reparenting the Inner Child and the powerful ways our past shapes how we think, feel, and relate to others. They explore how childhood experiences live in the nervous system, why so many people feel stuck in patterns they don’t understand, and what it really means to heal instead of just coping. Dr. Nicole explains functional freeze, emotional regulation, boundaries, and how reparenting yourself can change the way you show up in relationships, work, and everyday life. Buy Dr. Nicole’s new book, Reparenting the Inner Child:…
S3 · E34 · 31 Mar 2026 · 23 min
No One Gets Away With Betrayal
When someone betrays you, it’s easy to believe they get to move on with their life while you’re left carrying the pain. In this episode, Jillian challenges that belief and explains why no one truly “gets away” with the harm they cause—because the psyche always remembers. She explores how unresolved guilt, shame, and avoidance show up in our bodies, relationships, and mental health, and why letting go of the story about someone else is one of the most powerful steps toward your own healing. Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook Join my community and…
S3 · E33 · 23 Mar 2026 · 58 min
The Difference Between Pursuing and Chasing
In this coaching session, Jillian helps a listener untangle what he thought was anxious attachment and reveals what may actually be happening instead: he’s getting emotionally invested before a real relationship has even begun. She breaks down the difference between pursuing and chasing, why texting can create a false sense of intimacy, and how to stop wasting energy on people who aren’t truly showing up. This episode is also a powerful reminder that the more alive, engaged, and fulfilled you feel in your own life, the less likely you are to confuse attention with connection. Download…

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Jillian on Love is a English society & culture podcast from Jillian Turecki | Daylight Media. Melo plays each episode straight from the publisher's own feed — no ads added, no account needed — and remembers where you stopped, in this browser only.

Publisher: Jillian Turecki | Daylight Media
Language: English
Category: Society & Culture
New episodes: Weekly
Typical length: 40 min
Latest episode: 12 Oct 2026
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