The Difference Between Pursuing and Chasing

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   S3 · E38 · 27 Apr 2026 · 42 min

   Should You Stay or Leave? The Truth About When NOT to Break Up

   Thinking about leaving your relationship? Before you do, Jillian challenges the idea that walking away is always the strongest move. She breaks down when staying—and doing the deeper work—is actually the more courageous choice, and how to tell the difference between a relationship that’s truly wrong and one that’s asking you to grow. Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook Join my community and membership, The Conscious Woman Submit your relationship question for Jillian at https://forms.gle/FbtgkGTwfnrjvHwW7 Order Jillian's book It Begins with You: The…

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   S3 · E37 · 20 Apr 2026 · 40 min

   You Can’t Make Someone Love You

   You can’t convince someone to love you—and the more you try, the more you lose yourself. In this episode, Jillian breaks down the painful truth about chasing someone who won’t choose you, and why holding on hurts more than letting go. She shares how to recognize when a relationship has run its course, how to stop overgiving in situationships, and what it really means to choose yourself. If you’ve been stuck hoping someone will change their mind, this is the shift you need to finally move forward. Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook Join my community…

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   S3 · E36 · 13 Apr 2026 · 1 hr 8 min

   From Avoidant to Secure: How to Overcome Your Fear of Conflict with Dean Graziosi

   What if the reason your relationships aren’t working… has more to do with you than you think? In this conversation, I sit down with Dean Graziosi for a deeply honest look at the patterns we carry into love—often without realizing it. We talk about what it actually means to take 100% responsibility for your past, how childhood experiences quietly shape the way you show up in conflict, and why avoiding hard conversations will always cost you connection. Dean shares the moment that changed everything for him—the shift from asking “what do I want in a partner?” to “who do I need to become to…

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   S3 · E35 · 6 Apr 2026 · 56 min

   How To Heal Your Inner Child with Dr. Nicole LePera

   Jillian sits down with Dr. Nicole LePera to talk about her new book Reparenting the Inner Child and the powerful ways our past shapes how we think, feel, and relate to others. They explore how childhood experiences live in the nervous system, why so many people feel stuck in patterns they don’t understand, and what it really means to heal instead of just coping. Dr. Nicole explains functional freeze, emotional regulation, boundaries, and how reparenting yourself can change the way you show up in relationships, work, and everyday life. Buy Dr. Nicole’s new book, Reparenting the Inner Child:…

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   S3 · E34 · 31 Mar 2026 · 23 min

   No One Gets Away With Betrayal

   When someone betrays you, it’s easy to believe they get to move on with their life while you’re left carrying the pain. In this episode, Jillian challenges that belief and explains why no one truly “gets away” with the harm they cause—because the psyche always remembers. She explores how unresolved guilt, shame, and avoidance show up in our bodies, relationships, and mental health, and why letting go of the story about someone else is one of the most powerful steps toward your own healing. Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook Join my community and…

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   S3 · E32 · 16 Mar 2026 · 34 min

   The 7 Habits of Happy Couples

   What actually makes a relationship healthy—and why do so many couples miss the basics? In this episode, Jillian shares the seven principles that keep love alive, from the way you talk about your partner to the small daily habits that build connection, intimacy, and trust. Inspired by a viral post that criticized a spouse online, she breaks down why respect, praise, physical touch, honest conversations about sex, and protecting your relationship from outside distractions matter more than grand romantic gestures. Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook…

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   S3 · E31 · 9 Mar 2026 · 1 hr 1 min

   Why We Stay Too Long in the Wrong Relationships with Sarah Shahi

   Actress and author Sarah Shahi joins Jillian for an unfiltered conversation about heartbreak, childhood wounds, and the patterns that shape the way we love. Sarah shares the painful story of her upbringing, how it led her to chase emotionally unavailable partners, and the turning point that forced her to change how she shows up in relationships. They talk about people-pleasing, why difficult conversations are essential for real intimacy, and the moment you realize you deserve emotional safety—not uncertainty. Sarah also discusses her book Life Is Lifey and the lessons she learned about…

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   S3 · E30 · 2 Mar 2026 · 31 min

   Why Your Relationship Feels Harder Than It Should

   The biggest threat to your relationship might not be your communication — it might be the story you’re telling yourself. In this episode, Jillian explores how negative narratives, overthinking, and fear-based assumptions quietly turn partners into enemies and create resentment where love still exists. She breaks down why the mind becomes a battlefield in relationships and shares practical tools to help you step out of destructive thought patterns and back into connection. Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook Join my community and membership, The…

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   S3 · E29 · 23 Feb 2026 · 1 hr 33 min

   How To Heal Low Self-Worth and Anxious Attachment

   What if the story you’ve been telling yourself — that you’re “too much,” too sensitive, or too difficult — was never actually true? In this listener call, Jillian helps a woman unpack a lifelong belief that she’s “too much” and shows how that story can follow you into adulthood—especially in relationships. They explore what happens when sensitivity gets labeled as “difficult,” how a parent’s emotional limits shape your self-image, and why heartbreak can pull you back into old wounds. Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook, http://jillianturecki.com/workbook Join my community and…

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    S3 · E28 · 16 Feb 2026 · 1 hr 19 min

    Why You Don’t Have to Forgive Them with Dr. Ellen Langer

    Jillian is joined by Harvard psychologist Dr. Ellen Langer, the pioneer of mindfulness research, for a conversation that challenges everything you think you know about stress, healing, and being present. Dr. Langer explains why mindfulness isn’t about meditation—it’s about noticing. They unpack how our mindset shapes our relationships, our health, and even how we age. From letting go of labels to rethinking forgiveness, this episode is a masterclass in conscious living. Buy Dr. Ellen Langer’s book, The Mindful Body Download Jillian’s FREE limerence workbook,…