Season 9, Episode 4 · Reflective Parenting Podcast by Curious Neuron
3 reflections on how you experience unpleasant emotions
23 Jun 2026 · 23 min
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Send us Fan Mail How do you allow yourself to feel, experience and move past unpleasant emotions? In this episode, I share how unpleasant emotions like worry, sadness, or even boredom can lead to some behaviours we might want to be more aware of. If you notice that you often get stuck in unpleasant emotions or that your anger or frustration leads to harder moments with loved ones, then this episode is for you. Here are today's 3 reflections: Can I let myself feel an ...
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Reflective Parenting Podcast by Curious Neuron
Cindy Hovington, Ph.D. · Kids & Family · English
You don’t snap at your kids because you’re a bad parent. You snap because your stress builds faster than your awareness, and no one ever taught you how to handle that. I’m Dr. Cindy Hovington, a mom of three with a doctorate in neuroscience and founder of Curious Neuron. I created The Reflectiv
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