Season 9, Episode 9 · Reflective Parenting Podcast by Curious Neuron
Reflections on resilience, freedom & identity from the book In Order to Live
28 Jul 2026 · 23 min
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Send us Fan Mail In this episode, I reflect on In Order to Live by Yeonmi Park and the deep questions it raised for me about freedom, identity, resilience, and what it means to think for ourselves. The book prompted powerful reflections on how we understand our own stories, how we support our children’s sense of self, and how freedom can feel both expansive and exhausting. I also connect the book’s themes to parenting, especially around giving children room to explore who they are, make mista...
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Reflective Parenting Podcast by Curious Neuron
Cindy Hovington, Ph.D. · Kids & Family · English
You don’t snap at your kids because you’re a bad parent. You snap because your stress builds faster than your awareness, and no one ever taught you how to handle that. I’m Dr. Cindy Hovington, a mom of three with a doctorate in neuroscience and founder of Curious Neuron. I created The Reflectiv
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