Three's A Crowd

0:00Speaker 1:Are you guys ready to make a love connection today? We're going to Hebron. Rob is on the line. Got ghosted after a first date. Good morning, Rob.

0:06Speaker 2:Good morning.

0:07Speaker 1:So welcome to the show. Hopefully we can get some answers and find out why you're getting ghosted. Tell us about this great first date.

0:14Speaker 2:Yeah, it was a really great first date. You know, we went out to dinner and we even went back to my place and had some drinks and.

0:20Speaker 3:There we go.

0:23Speaker 1:Way to go, Robbie. There we go.

0:26Speaker 3:My man.

0:26Speaker 2:Yeah.

0:27Speaker 3:Like.

0:28Speaker 2:I don't want to talk about this stuff on the radio, but, yeah, we even got a little frisky, you know, nothing too hot and heavy, but, you know. Okay. All right, so you're telling me, Rob.

0:39Speaker 1:Dinner and drinks were great, and you got along so well that you went back to your place. Yeah. Okay. Was your place dirty?

0:45Speaker 3:No. No.

0:47Speaker 2:He says with a question. I'm a single guy, but it's... Okay.

0:51Speaker 1:So you're getting a little frisky. She leaves, and now you're getting ghosted. You've reached out to her, and there's, like, no response?

1:00Speaker 2:Yeah, like I said, after the great first date, and, like, I even messaged her a little after she left, you know, just to make sure she got home okay.

1:07Speaker 3:Okay.

1:08Speaker 2:Totally ghosted. So, honestly, part of me is like, yeah, I hope she got home okay. I don't know.

1:13Speaker 1:I feel like that is a total ghosting. You know, if somebody messages you and you had just left, like, did you make it home safe? Yeah. You at least respond, yes, I made it safe. Yeah, that means they want nothing to do with you. Yeah, so something has had to happen.

1:25Speaker 2:I don't know.

1:27Speaker 1:Do you have any roommates?

1:29Speaker 3:No roommates.

1:30Speaker 1:No roommates. Are you sure the place was clean? Because boys' houses are scary. Do you have snakes or any type of reptiles? Oh, yeah, good question. Do you have rats?

1:38Speaker 2:Yeah, rats. No rats, no snakes.

1:41Speaker 1:All right, what we're going to do, Rob, is we're going to call Natalie. I'm going to ask her to be honest. You're going to be listening in at any point if you want to jump in and talk to her, you can, okay? Sure.

1:49Speaker 2:Hmm.

1:50Speaker 1:Now I'm wondering. Maybe he's a bad kisser. Like a lizard kisser. Tongue in the mouth thing. I still think his house is dirty. Tickling your whatever that, uvula. Ew, Courtney.

2:04Speaker 3:Hello?

2:05Speaker 1:Hi, is Natalie there?

2:06Speaker 3:This is she.

2:08Speaker 1:Hi, Natalie. It is Courtney. Natalie, what's going on? It's Walmart Jeff.

2:11Speaker 2:Hey, Natalie.

2:12Speaker 1:It's Savannah. You're on the radio. You're on Kiss 95.7. Okay. Okay. Well, take a deep breath. Don't be scared. You're on something called Second Date Update. I'm sure you're familiar with it. If somebody is getting ghosted after a first date, we try to get answers.

2:26Speaker 3:Okay. Okay.

2:28Speaker 1:So that's why you're on. Rob called us. He said you guys had a great first date. Dinner, cocktails, total connection. So much so you went back to his place with him.

2:38Speaker 3:Yeah, I did.

2:41Speaker 1:Got a little frisky back at his place from what we heard.

2:44Speaker 3:Oh, okay. Wow. He really shared everything. Okay.

2:48Speaker 1:So, yes, I would love to know from you about the date and why you're ghosting him, if you feel comfortable telling us.

2:56Speaker 3:I mean, it's all out there anyway, I guess. So I guess I'll tell you about it.

3:02Speaker 2:Yeah.

3:02Speaker 3:No, we did. We had a good date. We talked about a lot of stuff at dinner and had great conversation and um and yeah it was going really well we had some cocktails and I agreed to go back to his place um things did get a little hot and heavy on the couch we were making out and um yeah is he a good kisser is he a good kisser there was a knock at.

3:28Speaker 1:The door oh okay oh I thought you were gonna say he was a bad kisser so you are kissing on the couch there's a knock at the door what happens.

3:37Speaker 3:Yes, yes. So there's a knock at the door, and he goes to answer, and it was apparently his girlfriend.

3:45Speaker 1:What? Wait.

3:47Speaker 2:Yeah.

3:48Speaker 3:Okay.

3:50Speaker 1:So he has a girlfriend, and he went on a date with you.

3:55Speaker 3:Right, right. So, yeah, so it was his girlfriend, and he tells her he's busy right now and she can come back later. And I'm like, what? is going on. And so I, I'm questioning him. I'm like, what, what was that all about? You have a girlfriend and, and he's like, Oh, it's not like that. Like we're, we're open and she can date whoever I can date, whoever it's totally fine. So, yeah. So I was like, I, that's just not my cup of tea. I'm not going to be involved in that. And so then I go to leave And she's standing out in the hallway just waiting.

4:35Speaker 2:Wait.

4:36Speaker 3:Waiting her turn to go in.

4:38Speaker 1:So she didn't even leave? She was waiting in the hallway waiting for her turn to go in? How did she? Was she mad at you?

4:44Speaker 2:What?

4:44Speaker 1:Was she just like, this isn't normal a thing?

4:46Speaker 3:No, she wasn't mad. She was just standing there waiting like, oh, hey, and like, have a good night. And like, her turn to go in now and be with.

4:55Speaker 1:Stop.

4:56Speaker 2:Natalie, I'm so sorry you had to do that. I'm sorry you had to do that.

5:00Speaker 1:I didn't know.

5:00Speaker 2:She was out there.

5:02Speaker 3:Rob, go ahead.

5:03Speaker 1:Do you want to explain to Natalie? Yeah, Rob is on the line. Go ahead, Rob.

5:07Speaker 2:Yeah, like, I had, you know, such a great time with you and such a great date. Like, you know, I'd really like to see you again.

5:15Speaker 3:Yeah, no, that's great and all, but no. I'm not going to be involved in a thruffle or whatever it is that you do in your lifestyle. Like, that's not for me.

5:27Speaker 2:It's not anything like that at all.

5:29Speaker 1:What is it then?

5:31Speaker 2:Like, if, you know, I were to get serious with someone, like, I wouldn't do anything like that. But, like, yeah, like... Okay, so... I see other people, like... She told me that....

5:42Speaker 3:She told me you guys had been together for about two years.

5:47Speaker 1:That's serious, Rob. That would be serious. This is making my stomach hurt.

5:51Speaker 2:Well, that's part of the whole thing. It's like, you know, we're so young and, you know, we're not ready to settle down. But, you know, we also... enjoy each other's company. So sometimes we see each other, but like sometimes, you know, I see other people too. And like, I don't see why that has to do with like, been in two years doing that.

6:14Speaker 3:To each other then y'all go right ahead but that is not not for me.

6:17Speaker 1:Okay we need to wrap this up Rob you know now why you're getting ghosted Natalie is there any world in which you live in where you would go on another date with Rob or you just that you're not you're done.

6:30Speaker 3:No yeah absolutely not I am done.

6:32Speaker 1:Okay all right I understand both sides I appreciate you both for being brutally honest and I wish you both well out there dating thank you thank you