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I Missed Me

by Mafe Anzures · English · Learning

IG:@imissedmepodcast & @mafeanzures To whoever this may impact… Sometimes, our lives have to be completely shaken up, changed and rearranged to relocate us where we’re really meant to be. Sometimes change feels like loss, transformation is scary, and sometimes, to discover the best version of oursel

Typical length: 17 min
Language: English

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18 min

YOU ARE THE NICHE - Your Personality Was Never Meant to Fit Into One Box

Forcing your entire identity into a single, neat little category is a fast track to feeling disconnected from who you actually are. Your personality was never meant to fit into one box. In this episode, we are breaking down society's obsession with limiting people and uncovering the freedom of realizing that you are the niche. We dive into why it’s completely okay to love things that seem entirely unrelated, how to accept your own beautiful contradictions, and why embracing your multi-passionate nature is your biggest superpower. You don’t need a clean aesthetic or a single-topic life to be…

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20 min

NOBODY CARES ABOUT ANYTHING - As much as you think they do

We spend so much time overthinking every little detail of our lives, worrying about that text we sent, how we looked in a photo, or what people thought of our latest move, but the liberating truth is that nobody is thinking about you as much as you think they are. In this episode, we’re unpacking the profound freedom that comes with realizing people just don't care as much as your anxiety tells you they do. We’re diving into digital validation, breaking down why your social media metrics do not dictate your real-world value, and tackling the internal choice we all have to face: are you going…
17 min

YOU'RE NOT SCARED OF POSTING - You're scared of being seen

Let’s be honest: hiding behind the excuse of “not having enough time” or “waiting for the perfect edit” is a lot easier than admitting the real truth. You’re not actually struggling with your schedule; you’re just terrified of what happens when you finally let yourself be perceived. Putting your voice, your art, or your business out into the digital world feels like opening the front door and letting the internet look straight into your living room. In this episode, we’re untangling that heavy, paralyzing weight of creative anxiety and hometown judgment. I’m breaking down why we…
27 min

YOUR BODY KEEPS THE SCORE - Taking Care of Yourself Isn’t Lazy

We often view productivity as a badge of honor, but really, the most productive thing you can do is listen to the signal that your body is finally reaching its limit In this episode, we’re getting honest about burnout, exhaustion, and the guilt that comes with needing to slow down. I’m opening up about my own recent experience with hitting a wall and why we need to stop labeling rest as "laziness." From the physical toll of ignoring your needs to the specific lessons I've learned from my own mistakes, this is a reminder that taking care of yourself is a requirement for your growth, not a…
29 min

THINGS SOCIAL MEDIA HAS NORMALIZED - That Aren’t Actually Normal

We spend so much time scrolling through curated lives that we start to lose touch with what is actually real. But the most important shift we can make is learning to unlearn the "norms" social media has forced on us. In this episode, we’re getting honest about social media's effect on self-perception and the toxic habits we’ve accidentally normalized. I’m sharing the specific self-reminders that keep me grounded as a content creator and how to protect your mental space in a digital world. From the pressure of constant comparison to the truth about what happens behind the screen—this is a…
21 min

YOU'RE NOT ASKING FOR TOO MUCH - You’re Asking The Wrong People

It can feel incredibly isolating to have high standards in a world that tells you to "lower your expectations," but what if the problem isn't the size of your heart, it’s just the people you’re giving it to? In this episode, we’re getting honest about self-worth, healthy relationships, and the power of knowing your value. We’re breaking down the difference between being "difficult" and simply being high-maintenance for the wrong person. From identifying if you’re in the right relationship to learning how to stop apologizing for your needs—this is a reminder that you aren't asking for too…
24 min

IF YOU FEEL LAZY TODAY LISTEN TO THIS - How to stay consistent when you don’t feel motivated

It’s easy to feel like you’re failing when the motivation just isn't there, but the real breakthrough comes from learning to show up even when you feel "lazy." In this episode, we’re stripping away the pressure to be perfect and getting honest about what it looks like to stay consistent during a low-energy week. We’re moving past the "all or nothing" mindset and focusing on the small, non-negotiable promises that keep you moving toward your goals. From practical shifts in your routine to the 3 tips that help me stay disciplined when I’d rather stay in bed, this is a reminder that your…
26 min

OUTGROWING FRIENDSHIPS WITHOUT FEELING LIKE THE VILLAIN - Let Go of People Without Feeling Guilty

We talk a lot about wanting to keep every connection forever... but what if the real shift happens when we stop treating "moving on" like a crime and start seeing it as a requirement for our own evolution? In this episode, we’re getting honest about the heavy, often silent transition of outgrowing friendships and navigating the constant identity shifts of your 20s. From the guilt that eats at you when you realize you no longer "click" with certain people to the bittersweet truth that some relationships are meant to be a season, not the whole story—this is a reminder that choosing your growth…
34 min

HAVING A BOYFRIEND IS NOT EMBARRASSING - Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing or Are You?

This episode is inspired by the viral Vogue article "Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?" Because I kind of agree, not because love is embarrassing, but because, like the article says, making your boyfriend the center of your life is not healthy. We’re getting honest about identity, codependency, and the "cringe" of making a relationship your whole personality. From the ways we abandon our own passions to the subtle habit of disappearing into someone else’s life—this is a reminder that healthy love should amplify who you are, not replace it. If you’ve ever felt like you lost your "cool"…
20 min

5 FRIENDSHIP RED FLAGS - Watch Out For This Type of "Friends”

We spend so much energy making excuses for people that we stop listening to what our gut is actually telling us. It’s not about being quick to judge or cutting people off at the first sign of friction; it’s about learning to distinguish between a bad day and a pattern of behavior that doesn't respect your worth. In this episode, we’re getting honest about self-awareness, discernment, and the messy reality of outgrowing people. It’s not about being judgmental; it’s about learning how to fairly assess if a connection is healthy or just heavy. From identifying one-sided energy and subtle…
19 min

YOU ARE NOT BEHIND - How to Stop Comparing Yourself and Start Trusting Your Timeline

We often talk about wanting to achieve more or reach that next milestone… but what if the real shift happens when we finally stop looking at everyone else’s clock and start trusting our own? In this episode, we’re getting honest about comparison, the pressure of "feeling behind," and how to reclaim your peace. From the toxic cycle of social media scrolling to the deep-seated fear that we aren't doing enough - this is a reminder that your journey isn't a race, and your timeline is exactly where it needs to be. If you’ve ever felt like you’re falling short, wondered why everyone else seems to…
21 min

THIS VERSION OF YOU HAS TO DIE - Why Growth Requires the End of Your Old Self

We often talk about wanting to change our lives… but what if the real shift happens when we finally let go of the person we used to be? In this episode, we’re getting honest about the grieving process of personal growth and why growth requires the end of your old self. From the discomfort of "losing yourself" to the beauty of rediscovery — this is a reminder that you aren't alone in feeling lost during your evolution. If you’ve ever felt like you’re in a transition period where you no longer fit into your old life but don't quite know who the "new you" is yet, this episode is for you. With…
17 min

THE “RIGHT TIME” DOESN’T EXIST - Stop waiting for the “perfect time” to start

Let’s be real for a second: the "perfect time" is a myth we tell ourselves so we don't have to start. If you’ve been sitting on an idea, a goal, or a version of yourself that you’re dying to meet, but you’re waiting for the stars to align... this episode is your sign to be honest with yourself. Today, we’re breaking down why we procrastinate, how perfectionism is actually just fear, and how taking messy action completely changed my life. I’m sharing the raw truth about how I stopped waiting and started doing. No more "I'll start Monday." We’re starting now. With Love, Mafe. Go to…
32 min

BE A BETTER FRIEND - How to become the friend you want to attract

We talk a lot about wanting better friendships… but what if the real shift happens when we become the friend we’re looking for? In this episode, we’re getting honest about friendship, self-awareness, and personal responsibility. From communication and boundaries to presence, empathy, and emotional maturity — this is a reminder that the relationships we attract often reflect the way we show up. If you’ve ever felt disappointed by friendships, outgrown certain people, or wondered why your connections don’t feel as deep or aligned as you want them to be, this episode is for you. With Love,…
17 min

BEING CRINGE IS BEING FREE - How to stop letting opinions affect you

What if the thing you’re most afraid of—being cringe, being judged, being misunderstood—is actually the key to your freedom? In this episode, we’re talking about why being cringe is being free and how letting go of other people’s opinions can completely change the way you show up in your life, your creativity, and your goals. From people-pleasing and overthinking to self-expression, confidence, and authenticity, this is a reminder that you don’t owe anyone a polished version of yourself. If you’ve ever held back from posting, creating, speaking up, or simply being yourself because of fear of…
22 min

JANUARY PRESSURE IS FAKE - How to Reset Your Year & Let Go of January Pressure

January comes with a lot of noise. Pressure to reinvent yourself overnight, to have it all figured out, to wake up as a brand-new person just because the calendar changed. But what if that pressure is fake? In this episode, we talk about the truth behind January expectations, why having a bumpy start to the year is completely okay, and how growth doesn’t need a specific date to begin. You don’t need a perfect morning routine, a strict plan, or a dramatic reset to move forward. Sometimes, restarting looks like resting. Sometimes it looks like pausing. And sometimes it simply looks like…
43 min

15 THINGS I LEARNED IN 2025 & THE RE-LAUNCH OF I MISSED ME

Welcome back to I Missed Me. This feels like the right way to start the year: slow, honest, and real If you’re new here, hi, I’m Mafe. And if you’ve been here since the beginning, thank you for still choosing to listen. This podcast started in 2022 as a safe space for self-love, healing, and growth… but behind the scenes, I’ve been growing too, sometimes beautifully, sometimes painfully. But what I realized is this podcast has never been about perfection; it’s been about showing up as I am. This podcast has held me through so many phases of my life, and I’m so grateful I didn’t walk away…
8 min

IT IS OK TO LET GO

Sometimes letting go feels like failure, like you didn’t try hard enough, like you’re walking away from something you were supposed to hold on to. In this episode, we talk about the truth behind letting go — of people, of situations, of old versions of yourself. Not from anger, not from bitterness, but from a place of honesty, self-respect, and trust. This conversation is for anyone who’s holding on because it feels safer than releasing. For anyone stuck in the in-between, grieving what was, questioning what’s next, and learning that peace doesn’t come from control, but from surrender. If…
9 min

STAYING THE SAME IS HARDER THAN GROWING

In today’s episode, we dive into a truth most of us ignore: staying the same is actually harder than changing. We talk about why holding onto old versions of ourselves feels “safe,” even when they’re quietly breaking us, and why the pain of stagnancy is heavier than the fear of starting over. This episode is your reminder that discomfort doesn’t mean something is wrong; it often means you’re finally growing. If you’ve been feeling stuck, restless, or afraid to take the next step… this conversation will feel like a deep breath. You are allowed to change. You are allowed to evolve. And you are…
9 min

STOP BEING AFRAID TO START OVER

In today’s episode, we talk about something so many of us avoid but eventually face: starting over. The endings we fear, the in-betweens that scare us, the unknown that makes us feel like everything is falling apart. But the truth is… starting over isn’t proof that you failed, it’s proof that you grew. It’s evidence that you were brave enough to choose yourself, even when it was uncomfortable. Beginning again requires so much courage, and you’re never actually starting from zero, you’re starting from everything you’ve survived.You’re not behind. You’re becoming. And you’re allowed to begin…
13 min

APPRECIATION = ATTRACTION

In today’s episode, we dive into one of the most powerful shifts you can make in your life: appreciation. Appreciation as awareness, presence, softness, and self-respect. We talk about why what you appreciate, appreciates — and how noticing the small, quiet miracles around you completely rewires your mind, deepens your relationships, and brings you back home to yourself. This episode is a reminder that you can’t attract from lack—you attract from contentment, from noticing, from choosing to say “thank you” for even the simplest things. If you’ve been chasing, forcing, comparing, or doubting……
13 min

HOW TO ACTUALLY GET OVER SOMEONE

Today’s episode dives deep into something we’ve all faced: heartbreak. But not the kind where you pretend you’re fine while still checking their stories at 2 AM. This one’s about actually getting over someone emotionally, mentally, spiritually. Because getting over someone isn’t about forgetting them — it’s about forgiving yourself, outgrowing who you were, and choosing peace over chaos. If your heart still hurts right now, this episode is your reminder that healing is happening — even when you can’t feel it yet. With love, Mafe 🤍 Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I…
10 min

LOVE IS NOT A PERSON

We grow up believing love is something we find in another person that it’s something to search for, chase, or wait for. But love isn’t a destination or a single relationship. Love is everywhere. In this episode, we explore what it means to see love beyond romance — in friendships, in creativity, in kindness, in community, and within yourself. Love exists in every act of compassion, in the things that make you feel alive, and in the way you show up for the world. Love is not a person. Love is a force and it’s all around you. With love, Mafe 🤍 Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out…
11 min

LIFE IS SO MUCH MORE

When life feels heavy, it’s easy to believe that what you’re going through is all there is. But every storm eventually passes, and every chapter no matter how painful leads to another. In this episode, we talk about shifting perspective, finding light in dark seasons, and remembering that your story is still unfolding. You are not your struggles, your fears, or your mistakes. You are the strength that grows through them, the beauty that follows, and the peace that’s still on its way. With love, Mafe Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me Sign up to our membership…
8 min

YOU DESERVE MORE

Have you ever felt selfish for wanting more? more love, peace, recognition, time? But what if it means we finally understand our worth? In this episode, we’re talking about what it truly means to deserve more. More time for yourself, more care, more opportunities, and more love — from others and from yourself. You’ll learn how to set boundaries, ask for what you need, and let go of guilt around wanting better for yourself. It’s time to remember that you are enough, and that you are worthy of everything you dream of. Tune in to realign your mindset, raise your standards, and start claiming…
12 min

GROWING MEANS LEAVING PEOPLE BEHIND

Growth means coming into terms with changes. In this episode, we talk about the quiet heartbreak of realizing that certain relationships no longer align with who you’re becoming and how letting go can be one of the most powerful forms of self-respect. If you’ve ever felt guilty for evolving or distancing yourself from old friendships, this one’s for you. Together, we’ll explore how to embrace change, release the weight of old expectations, and open space for the people and opportunities that truly match your next chapter. With love, Mafe Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all…
9 min

YOU CAN ONLY GO UP FROM ROCKBOTTOM

We all know the feeling of hitting rock bottom, but sometimes life brings us to our knees so we can finally see things from a new angle. In this episode, we talk about what it truly means to fall apart and why that might be the most powerful thing that can happen to you. Because rock bottom isn’t the end; it’s the foundation for your comeback. From finding clarity in the dark to taking small steps toward healing, this is your reminder that no matter how far you’ve fallen, you can only go up from here. With love, Mafe, Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and check out all of I Missed Me Sign…
8 min

OUTGROW TO GROW

Sometimes the only way to grow is by letting go. In this episode of I Missed Me , we explore what it means to outgrow old habits, relationships, and mindsets that no longer serve us. Growth isn’t just about adding more, it’s about creating space by releasing what holds you back, even when it feels uncomfortable. From shifting limiting beliefs to stepping away from relationships that no longer align, this conversation is an invitation to reflect on where you may be holding on too tightly. By outgrowing what doesn’t fit, you make room for transformation, new opportunities, and a version of…
9 min

WHY DO RELATIONSHIPS END?

Why do relationships end? Sometimes it’s a breakup that shakes your world, other times it’s the slow fading of a friendship, or simply realizing that you’ve outgrown someone you once loved deeply. In this episode, we explore the many reasons why relationships come to an end: misaligned expectations, lack of communication, personal growth, timing, external stress, and even the evolving way we connect in today’s world. Endings are not failures—they’re transitions. Together we’ll reflect on how to recognize when a relationship is no longer serving you, how to approach difficult conversations…
9 min

BREAKUPS ARE BREAKTHROUGHS

Breakups are never easy—whether romantic, platonic, or professional—but they can be the beginning of something transformative. In this episode, we talk about how heartbreak often leads to heart-growth, the clarity that comes from letting go, and how breakups can spark creativity, new beginnings, and stronger boundaries. If you’re navigating an ending right now, this conversation will help you reflect, reset, and see your breakup as a breakthrough. Healing isn’t linear, but every ending opens space for something new, and the version of you that’s waiting on the other side is stronger, wiser,…

About I Missed Me

To whoever this may impact... Sometimes, our lives have to be completely shaken up, changed and rearranged to relocate us where we're really meant to be. Sometimes change feels like loss, transformation is scary, and sometimes, to discover the best version of ourselves, we must let go of absolutely everything that's holding us down. Welcome to I Missed Me, your new safe space, i hope to be a part of your healing journey. With love, Mafe Go to https://beacons.ai/imissedme and checkout all of I Missed Me Checkout my personal socials below https://mafeanzures.com/

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Language: English
Category: Learning
Typical length: 17 min
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